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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I'm worried my g/f might like her friend more than she likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - hey all, i'm a 19 year old gay female living in the uk. currently have a gf who i've been with a few months. we are in a long distance relationship and although its sometimes hard being apart, its a great relationship for the most part. we have a ...

How do I find out what is my sexual orientation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5257 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Im a 23 year old F, I usually go out with men, but often have feelings towards women. How do I find out what is my sexual orientation?? Anonymous...

I'm sure my straight girlfriend likes me too but she is cooling off our relationship, what should I do?

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30 July 2010 (F) - Im jess, Im a lesbian..i seek help from all of you...im got relationship with a straight girl for 1 year..however this girl oledi live in with her bf for 4 years..recently she so cool to me..ask us stop relationship..but i feel she like me too....

30 y.o. and 'relationship-virgin'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Major dilemma and in need of advice: I’m a regular guy who just turned 30. I’m happy with my life and consider myself to be pretty lucky with the circle of friends and the job I have. I’m gay and always knew I was – unlike some ...

He's married, but I love him! How can I handle this unrequited love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Dear Agony Aunt I'm a single 24 year old living in the UK. My problem is that I think I'm in love with someone who is married and can never love me back. He is 29 and married with a kid. We used to work together and we got on brilliantly,...

I'm Gay and needs some help with this guy I am seeing 22 and 20 online just started chatting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5259 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - OP's own title: I am usually giving advice and not taking it. but in this case i am willing to listen. I would like to hear from gay guys like myself. Where to start, ok a few days ago I met a guy on an online dating site and he was in washin...

Is she Bi, Lesbian, or just beng friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I can't tell whether this woman is interested in me. I run my own business inside this shopping centre where this woman works. We see each other everyday and always talk. I'm trying to figure out whether she is a lesbian or not though. She is 20 ...

Do I grit my teeth and go on with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5260 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and I am proud to be lesbian. Before I moved, my hometown ( london) was very supportive and wasn't homophobic. now we live in Derby and we get bullied and attacked( the police are doing their best ...

Why is he acting stupid and naive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I don't get it. My boyfriend of two and a half years ended our relationship for silly reasons that are his to blame also. He said that I never did enough romantic events for him, I was to independent and didn't ask him to do everything for me, not ...

I'm in love wth one of my best friends, but she doesn't feel the same way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have been tottaly in love with my one of my best friends (female) for quite a while now but i know she dosent feel the same way about me, what should i do ?...

It would be nice if he was more confident in our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey guys. About 5 months ago me and my bf came out to each other. We were best friends and did everything together...and about a month ago we started being a couple. We get a long great and everything flows but he's a little shy. When it comes to ...

Why has she treated me like this and how can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5262 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I am a twenty four year old lesbian that has recently fallen head over heels in love with someone that is, to be frank, not interested! Obviously, this is not the first time I have fallen victim to unrequited love, this time, however, it is slightly ...

I don't want to be lonely anymore! I want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I'm 15 either gay or bi. As you can see I'm not at terms with my sexuality yet but I KNOW for a fact I'm not totally straight. My problem is that I'm at a moment in my life where I don't wanna be lonely anymore. I REALLY want a ...

Bi-curious and not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - I am a completely straight guy, but lately I have become curious about being with a man. Specifically, a well hung man. Nothing romantic, just sexual. I feel totally wierd by this, and I'm not sure where this sudden emotion came from. When I was ...

How do I tell my mom I'm gay, not doing drugs as she thinks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - hey, right, i'm a girl and i'm gay. i have a gf who i've been with about 6 months. ive only recently come to terms with being gay myself really, and this is my first serious gay relationship. i really love my gf and have come to a stage where i ...

I'm pregnant and my partner is having an affair with a male member of my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - Been with my partner for just over a year, love him so much and as far as i was concern he was happy with me too. im 6 months pregnant with a baby boy (our first child) and we are just decorating our new place which will be done in 2 months. 3 weeks ...

If her girlfriend really loved her why should she break up with her to see someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

22 July 2010 (F) - I started dating a girl right after she broke up with her girlfriend. The reason they broke up was that the girlfriend had a crush on someone and wanted to date that person. So they broke up and I started seeing her. Well the girl I was seeing ...

I am sure I am bisexual but I only see my future with a man, is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5266 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - I have thought of my self as Bi for a long time, been with males and females in non-sexual ways. But I was thinking it the other day when I was going to ask a female friend out, that even though I am Bi and am comfortable with women. I can't ever ...

Unexplained attraction to motherly types

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5159 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Okay so I'm a girl in my late teens and I'm fairly confident I'm straight but I have this weird, pervasive attraction to motherly figures, generally women in their mid twenties to early thirties who are kind and caring (somewhat specific I know). ...

I'm scared to tell him I like him, how can I without scaring him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

21 July 2010 (M) - Ok. I'm gay and I really like this one guy that I hang out with at youth group at our church. We get along really well and we always find something to talk about. I'm going to tell him that I like him, but at the same time I want him to understand ...

What can I do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie about his porn and masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I'm a gay male 25 been in a gay relationship for the past 6 years, he is also 25. he is addicted to porn and always wants other men he hasn't yet cheated in the flesh. my question i guess is what can i do to make him feel he dosen't need to lie ...

I'm an 18 year old virgin and suspecting that I am bisexual

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Ok.im 18 a virgin and suspecting that i am bisexual. this i do not have a probelem with,but i would like to know if i am for deffinate,i dont think i would have much of a problem coming out. I dont have a very high oppinion of men in general,howev...

I'm bi-curious, but don't know how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sure if i'm confused about my sexuality, or just curious, and i'm not sure if i'm straight or bisexual. I have been fantasising about having sex with women for a while now. The only ways i can think of meeting women though to try and ...

Our families don't approve of our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5268 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - i'm a girl and i'm currently in a relationship with a another girl. in other words, lesbian. and i think there's nothign wrong with that but both side's of parents seems to be breaking us up and hope that we stop seeing each other. What should i do? ...

We're a great team, but also drive each other crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - My partner and I have been together for almost 40 years. We are two men who share almost everything: a very successful but complex and timeconsuming business, all our property, our bank accounts, our holidays, plus we spend weekends amd free time ...

I have never been in a relationship in which girls were threats...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

19 July 2010 (M) - Well, to start off, I am a twenty-three-year-old gay male with an extreme amount of insecurity about my appearance when compared to others. I have an anxiety disorder (mainly social anxiety), and quiet, shy, reserved, do not like big parties, and ...

Do I have jealousy issues?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - Do I have jealousy issues? So I'm a guy and I'm going out with S, my boyfriend, for a month now. S is bisexual and you couldn't even tell that he's into guys. In fact, he makes fun of gay people. But anyways, he's really nice and all that. When w...

Totally captivated by this guy... but what do I do about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hey aunts I'm having a little issue with myself. I'm a 16 year old guy that's starting to get comfortable with accepting who I am... that is I'm STRONGLY interested in guys. And everywhere I go I find myself checking guys out and finding myself ...

How can I make her feel lucky and not trapped in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My girlfriend and I have been together for close to 4 years. She recently broke up with me. She says she always feels trapped and "obligated" to talk to me. She's broken up with me in the past (about 3times). Everytime she does she says she "needs ...

Best ways to snog someone...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, If I could have some advice it would be much appreciated. Me and my girlfriend are happily together and we are comfortable about holding hands and kissing in public. I was just wondering, how do you snog someone? We are bo...

How to overcome shyness...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I am really shy when it comes to relationships. I have a wonderful girlfriend and things are going great but I need to overcome my shyness. We shared our first kiss after dating for a month ( we both wanted one sooner but we we...

I like him, but he might be gay...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5271 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I am in a situation where I am crushing on this guy but I can not tell if he's gay or straight. I can not ask him because I don't want to offend him. Do gay people use words such as fag or homo or do they find these disrespectful and would never say ...

Should I act on these feelings I had for a man? And how would I approach him to find out if he is gay or bi?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - Hi can anyone help? I was in the showers at the gym the other day and a quite a athletic guy bit older than me came in and stood right next to me even though there were lots of other spare showers. At first I felt like my space was invaded b...

Should I tell him how I feel on him or treat him as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

15 July 2010 (M) - I'm a male and prefer guys. I got a new manager three months ago. He's a great and polite guy with lovely face. I've got feeling at him but he doesn't know. Although I believe that he only likes girls but I can't stop. One night, I just missed him ...

Should I end it? Or make it last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5272 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - 3 Year's ago, I met an amazing girl, and after what...a month, we were basicly in love, and through the first year we were on and off, it had to be secret because she didnt want people to know she was gay. Eventully, she finally came out with it, so ...

I'm a lesbian at 13 and don't know how to come out to my mum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a lesbian. I am 13, (NOT A PHASE I HAVE LIKED GIRLS SINCE I WAS 7) I am very open about it. err, but, I just don't know how to come out to my mom. I have told her I was bi. But, she didn't believe me, and I have tried telling her...

Coping with being gay at 13

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I'm gay and I'm going crazy I have no one to talk to and I don't even know a gay person for advice I can't even go to a therapist my mind keeps on fantasising thinking about men's six packs and privates i thought it was a good thing when I admitted ...

Am I bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - Im really confused about myself. Im a girl who has been out with a few guys, and i really enjoyed being with them. Im single right now, and im really close with my friends. when we see some guys at the pool or playing football with no t-shirt on, i ...

Recently discovered I'm bi and afraid of my parents' reaction

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I am 15. I have recently discovered I'm bi. No not bi-curious. And I don't know what to do I'm afraid of what my parents might do....

How can I spice up my same sex love life???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hey, this might sound like a stupid question but here goes anyway.. basically i'm 18, i'm a lesbian and i've been with my gf for 6/nearly 7 months now. she was a virgin when we met so obviously i didn't push her into anything sexual- scary en...

Is he bi, curious or very confused?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful military man for a little over a year and we have talked about marriage. The problem is I question his honesty regarding his sexuality. He has told me of a previous encounter around 10 years ago with two gay men. He ...

How to tell my family I'm gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

11 July 2010 (M) - Help needed... theres only one way to put this question but... how do i tell my family that i'm gay? advice much appreciated thanks...

I'm dying with her love so should I just wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - am tilly having a big problem that i dont even no what to do now and i guess i can get help from here,am a lasbo.i was goin out wit a gal called yaa,when we were goin out i didnt lov her but i was keepin her to find someone that i could be happy ...

Is my boyfriend a bisexual or gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who lives in a gay village in montreal, He stays with a 60 year old guy (apparently gay). But according to my boyfriend that this guy has been a very good friend of him for years now, and that they're just friends like a family. ...

I have found a really great guy but I still have feelings for my engaged friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

9 July 2010 (M) - The Situation: I found my friend from about 5-7 years ago. We were talking but nothing serious just catching up but i somehow caught feelings for him.(When i found him i was in washington and he is in new mexico) I am now in new mexico and we hung ...

Descison about sexual experimentation!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

9 July 2010 (?) - I have a big choice to make. I really do love girls but I only like to masturbate to gay porn. Now the opportunity for me to try and experiment with another guy has arisen, and I need to know if you guys think I should explore my sexuality and ...

I have written her poem after poem but she still ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - hiya i am madly in love with someone and it kills me to see them with someone else, i wanna be with them but i cant coz i am a girl, and so r they. But i have told them how i feel and from there on in they hate me :'( i have tried talking but she ...

Married but fantasising about sex with a woman.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - im happily married but there one thing on my mind when im alone i watch lesbian porn it really turns me on and i masterbate when i watch it i dont watch it that often but does this mean im a lesbian? i have always wonder what it be like to have sex ...

I need her back in my life, but she thinks I hate her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - i am 14 almost 15 and i always knew that i was different i knew i also loved girls.. after being threatned for being gay i came out to my friends finding out that the girl i loved felt the same about me and that two more friends were also bi. but ...

How can I suggest adding a girl to our threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - I am a 32 year old male and have been in a relationship with another 29 year old man for the last eight years. About 5-6 times a year, we have a threesome with another male. I would like to note this has never caused a problem for us, neither have ...