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writes:I am a completely straight guy, but lately I have become curious about being with a man. Specifically, a well hung man. Nothing romantic, just sexual. I feel totally wierd by this, and I'm not sure where this sudden emotion came from. When I was like 10, I did have a semi-homosexual experience (held my friends hardon), but I have never ONCE had desire to do anything since. Men's personalities and bodies do nothing for me, in fact I am somewhat repulsed by them...I am just fixated on penis for some reason. Not turned on by the though of kissing, touching or being "on top". I am scared that I will not like the experience and will feel degraded. Is this normal, or do I need help? Since I am interested in "receiving", does that mean I have some feminine fascination or something? When I watch porn, I am drawn to sexy women getting it from wel hung guys because I like to see them taking it all and being enthusiastic about the experience. Not sure if all this is some sort of penis envy thing...will it pass, or should I try it to get it out of my system?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): I disagree with TimmD's answer. Is not that you're not 'not normal' (what is 'normal' anyway and who's 'TimmD' to define it...but anyway...). It probably because at this stage of your life you know yoruself a little bit better - or are in the porcess of - and have realised that sexually a penis is something that turns you on. That, to me, is just human nature. Should you follow your instincts and pursue it? Sure...why not/ There's nothing degrading about it...it's a sexual experience. If you like it and are able to set aise all moral/social prejudices associated with it...you're not less of a man! I'd say go for it...give it a try...you only live once! Now whether you're in a relationship with a woman or not - and, if so, that is something you're willing to share/admit...that's entirely up to your conscience!
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reader, TimmD +, writes (23 July 2010):
 Sorry, friend... but you are describing bi-curious thoughts. It's ok, there's nothing wrong with that... but if you are interested in another man's penis then it's a little more than envy. Gay males spend years in denial, and while I'm not saying you're 100% gay... it's not unusual for you to be in denial yourself. You can like both women and men, but unfortunately that means you are not straight.
Is it normal? No. Do you need help? Not necessarily. Should you try to get it out of your system? Possibly, that's up to you.
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