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36-40,
*illyjudi
writes:am tilly having a big problem that i dont even no what to do now and i guess i can get help from here,am a lasbo.i was goin out wit a gal called yaa,when we were goin out i didnt lov her but i was keepin her to find someone that i could be happy with till i meet a lady called judith and fall inlov with her.she also goin out with another lady and she told me the same story that she dont lov her ,,,we were really happy she even promise me a ring, then i told her since she promise me i cant keep my gal so i called my gal and broke up with her cuz i love judith so much and want to spend the rest of my life with,i see judith as my happiness.i told judith to break up with her lady since she said she doesnt love her and she said i should give her sometime and i gave her three months. from there we stated fightin cuz of her lady judith told me that she love me so much but she cant break up with her lady and she dont no what to tell her after spendin so many years with her, she dont no how she is goin to feel but she is planing to marry me too.i dont no what to do now and i really love judith with my whole heart.she is still askin for more time should i or not? i told judith either she choose me or her lady she said she cant.i was given her pleasure and the lady too was given her pleasure but she txt me and said i should forget about her since i cant give her sometime.i love her,,, so should i give her the time or what?pease am dyin with her love and dont no what to do i need advice plssssssssss.
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reader, CatherineA  +, writes (11 July 2010):
In all seriousness, dear, you don't need advice. You need counseling. Straight or gay, all this deceitfulness and confusion is not healthy. Step back and get some help before you go any further. You are using people, and you are letting them use you. You'll never be happy if you keep this up.
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