A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I can't tell whether this woman is interested in me. I run my own business inside this shopping centre where this woman works. We see each other everyday and always talk. I'm trying to figure out whether she is a lesbian or not though. She is 20 years older than me but I gota stress she doesn't look or act like it! I don't act my age either, I'm 22. I am a lesbian and broke up with my girlfriend last year which might I add, I am still in love with. Me and this woman, ill call her 's' started gettin on well bk in march. We talk everyday, laugh etc. She always laughs at my jokes even wen they aren't funny. She always compliments me. Always comes to me for help. She has 2 kids, one is 21 and the other is 13. Me and her youngest get on well and I often get texts saying thanks for being so great with her kid. He has told me his mum is always talking about me and thinks I'm the best. She's started touching my arm when we are talking, only in the last week. We practically text everyday, admittedly I do most of the texting first. She always sticks up for me and sides with me. She seems to get me. She went to so much trouble for my birthday, getting me a cake etc. Trouble is she's been married so can she be a lesbian? Or bi? Is she interested in me? Is it too old to like someone 20 years younger than you? Thanks for all your help
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female
reader, Jessicaa +, writes (29 July 2010):
Lesbian here too,
If she is straight, you'll get yourself caught up, hurt & it'll all end in pure misery.
but to me she is either over friendly or a little into you, see how things go, she may show signs, but if your still in love with someone else & she's married it isn't going to go anywhere is it?
all the best.
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female
reader, LUVU +, writes (29 July 2010):
k well if shes married and has kids, she might just be being friendly. but then im not a lesbian and i dont know wat she would be acting like if she did like you, so im not really sure
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2010): Hi, no she doesn't seem to act like this with anyone else. Her son asked me the other day whether something was going on between us! She is a friendly person but seems different with me?
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female
reader, xanthic +, writes (28 July 2010):
It sounds like she may be interested in you, though she could also just be a really friendly person and mean nothing by it. Does she act this way with anyone else?
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