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writes:OP's own title: I am usually giving advice and not taking it.but in this case i am willing to listen. I wouldlike to hear from gay guys like myself. Where to start, ok a few days ago I met a guy on an online dating site and he was in washington at the time, and then moved to MI, he did tell me he was moving to michigan at the end of the summer but he didn't tell me this soon. lol and is in a differen't time zone now. He was born in the middle east,really cute. He loves to play soccer, and over allis a really cool guy. Lets call him adom, and is 20 and I am 22. We had a great start until we got to chatting on messenger, it was messing up and I didn't understand why. Instead of downloading the messenger they have it set up to where you can chat from your email. and he has a phone with text but no minutes or els I would have called him from my house phone. I dont have a cell right now or we could text. Any ways a lot of the emails were getting through but tords the end of our conversation only mine where getting through, and I was really horny lol. and before i go into this next part I did tell him I was getting hard thinking about him and he sent and email back saying he was blushing. So I wanted to do some sex talk, so I sent him an email of that. and then I was really tired, it was late here and I thought at the time we were in the same time zone lol, and it was 3 hrs more over there. so 1:30am and 4:30 am over there lol. I new he didn't want to rush any thing because he hasn't yet been in a relationship yet. and he didn't want to talk about how big the other guys dick was and me going into that dilog might have shattered our relation-ship a little bit. I got nerves the next day sent out 2 emails in the morning. and then he wasn't getting back to me later on and I was thinking maybe I messed up with the whole sex dilog and it was graphic but I was tired so It was like 2 paragraphs. then I panicked and sent out hella mail to him the next 9 hrs. like 11 emails for the whole day including night, but then I looked at my sent box and was like sh..it! what have I done. Then I sent out an emails saying to delet all of my emails, for the main line of subtiteles. he hasen't wrote back to me yet. Andalso he hasn't gone back to the dating site because it says last logged in at.. time and date, was yestardays. and I sent him sorry cards, dont know if he is reading them or not. I think he is because he is such a nice and a down to earth guy and earlier I did see someone trying to connect to my messenger it was loading and it had to have been him because my messenger list is blank other than him on it. but why not send a message through the email why try and go through messenger again. and that happened 2 times he was conecting. I sent out 1 email today and 2 card. Did he open them I dont know? Theres a good chance he did and my last email was so good I might even take me back lol. But I want to make things right but should I take a breather for a few days then give it another shot.I did send out one yestarday saying that but I did send an email to him today anyways. I really dont want to miss an opertunity, and let him pass by. I know there's a lot of guys out there but this one seems differen't to me. I really like him. but at the same time it feels like were moving to fast and I didn't want that again. My last 2 moved way to fast and was a desaster. First relationship was a yr and a half ago almost like this one. And in that one I was moving to fast. and in the second one the other guy was moving to fast and was very controling. I want to vist him on christmas vacation, I will have some cash then and I want to visit for a week and if it goes well maybe even move over there and get a place. Planning on going to college here, this years my first year attending. Should I move later over christmas vacation, if it works out? Should I stay here and finnish up the school year then move over there? can you give me some good advice like I have seen in the past. ohh and thanks in advance!!!
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (29 July 2010):
I would say give it a rest with saying sorry. I thinks he gets the point. Just try to take things a little slower. If you start talking to him the way you were, let him start that conversation. I also think that you should wait at least until the end of the school year to move over there. Your education is important and you don't know if it will work out with this guy.
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