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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now and I am proud to be lesbian. Before I moved, my hometown ( london) was very supportive and wasn't homophobic. now we live in Derby and we get bullied and attacked( the police are doing their best to help us). I have asked if we can move back to london but she wanted a change so has said no. What do I do? Grit my teeth and get on with it or keep asking to move? thanks x
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (27 July 2010):
if you really love her i think you should do what your girl freind wants and makes her comfortable she doesn't want to be bugged so i think you should stop asking to move and if she really loves you i think she will ask you to come back (but if london is dangerous please don't come back homophobics are pigs they do every thing they could hurt you ).....and one more advice in your new home don't let people know that you're couple till you know them well and see how homophobics they are(just to be safe)....so good luck and take care of your girl friend
ps: you're so brave that you came out i'm gay for years but never said that to any body.
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