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writes:Hi guys. I'm 15 either gay or bi. As you can see I'm not at terms with my sexuality yet but I KNOW for a fact I'm not totally straight. My problem is that I'm at a moment in my life where I don't wanna be lonely anymore. I REALLY want a boyfriend.(Yeah, I'm scared of saying that anymore)I want some one to be with and to spend my time with. I want love. And I'm at a time where I'm craving sex. I'm basically horny all time...I'm aroused as I type. But besides that I just want someone in my life. Someone that'll be there for me and I for them. My mind is going BONKERS! I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): i hate it when people tell me , your too young , i have the same feelings you do too .THERE ISN"T ANYTHING YOU CAN DO but wait until you get older . and dont even think about going on adult dating sites !
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (26 July 2010):
If you want a boyfriend you really need to wait until you find someone you really like. If you're lonely just hang out with some friends. You have your entire life to be with someone. Don't try to rush things. You say that you want love... that will come in good time. You just have to be patient.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 It is normal to be confused about your sexuality during the adolescent years of your life. Lets face it, being a teenager is just so confusing these days full stop. It doesn't matter if you are bisexual or gay, it is just a label and you will figure it all out in good time. Self acceptance is the key to a happy life and if you like yourself, other people will too! You say you want a boyfriend because you are lonely. What you have to understand is that having a boyfriend won't make you not lonely. You could have lots of people around you and still feel lonely. It is a state of mind. Unless you feel happy and confident in yourself at the start of a relationship, it can all turn out rather badly because you risk becoming dependent on that other person. If you are struggling to find friends, join clubs and get hobbies outside school. There is nothing more attractive that someone with lots of interests who is independent and strong-minded. I don't think it is rare to be horny all the time at your age! Every teenage boy feels the same way, they just don't all admit it. Your hormones will settle down in a few years time. Sex is so much better within the context of a long-term relationship because casual flings can make you feel used and abused. If you want to talk to someone about your sexuality, google community helplines in your area. You can speak to a counsellor about how you are feeling, and they won't judge.
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