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writes:Ok.im 18 a virgin and suspecting that i am bisexual.this i do not have a probelem with,but i would like to know if i am for deffinate,i dont think i would have much of a problem coming out.I dont have a very high oppinion of men in general,however i do find them attractive still and could easyily have a realtionship with a nice decent bloke if i was to find one..But thats where the problem begins everytime a bloke comes to close i start to back away when he tries too touch me and kiss me..however i enjoy flirting with men.I Have strong feelings towards my freinds sister even though i dont know her too well i still really fancy her and get turned on by the sight of her. (shes a lesbian). i thought maybe it was just HER but then i went for a meal and the waitress caught my eye i couldnt stop staring at her butt and when she bent down i could see down her top..and i couldnt help but look,my eyes follwed her untill i left..i think the feeling was mutuall as when i went to the loo she checked my figure out and smiled,i couldnt wait too get home to masturbate over her..i just wanted so much too grab her and do her ect.could someone help me? i cant make a decsion as i havent experienced a sexuall episode with either sex yet? help confused :(:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys.
thats helped a lot x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Search up Alfred Kinsey's sexuality scale right now, missy!
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (20 July 2010):
There is nothing wrong w/ you follow your heart and be you!and everything will follow you are who you are be proud.
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reader, donita +, writes (20 July 2010):
i have some same quilties as you and i also think i may be bi. but i think you are because you see females in a different and more sexual and emotion way than man . if you are not comfortable around men and more comfortable around women that doest mean that you are bi it might just mean that you have some connection or back ground type stiff. all in all you be what you feel right being . if you feel that a women can treat you better than a man than go for it try new things you never know what will happen.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (20 July 2010):
 As strange as this may sound a persons sexuality is based on alot more than just actual sex, it is about feelings and attraction as much as it is anything else. The simple answer to your question is if your attracted to men and women then yes you are bisexual, but dont be so quick to put a lable on yourself, expore your sexuality ( not just sex) and that way you will llearn what you like and who you want to be with.Also you said you have a low opinion of men, why is that? If there as a reason or event that has caused this then you may need to address it before you can have good/successful relationship with a man.I am glad to see that you are not afraid of the prospect of been bisexual.Good luck and i really hope this helps.
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reader, janette0315 +, writes (20 July 2010):
I was in your shos when i was your age i am 22 now and i know i am bi but at first i questioned it so i explored to answer my own question and the outcome was very successful get out there and find out for yourself and be who you want to be i like women definitelty more then men
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reader, Tarly  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Dont worry. Alot of people are confused about their sexuality and from the sounds of it your problem can be worked through.
If you feel attracted to women thats fine and if you feel comfortable around them so what. The fact that your uncomfortable around men probably means that you are bi-sexual if not gay.
Answer me this do you ever see a man turn you on so much that you run home a pleasure yourself while thinking about him.
If not then just do what your body tells you and go for the girls.
If it helps try going back and asking out that waitress you were attracted to and if she reciprocates see if a female relationship is to your liking.
All in all it sounds like all you can do is experiment and see what you like. There is no shame in being gay and if you find a girl attractive dont sit on the sidelines waiting for random people on the internet to tell you what to do, go out there and explore your sex.
All the same give feedback, id like to know if things turn out all right.
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