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writes:I have a boyfriend who lives in a gay village in montreal, He stays with a 60 year old guy (apparently gay). But according to my boyfriend that this guy has been a very good friend of him for years now, and that they're just friends like a family. This 60 yr old gay guy has been very kind to him, giving him all his request, like helping him in his business and all. And one of the biggest help that was extended to my boyfriend was this 60 yr old guy agreed to have a fake civil union (gay marriage) with him so that he can have his parents sponsored to be citizen in that country. He said he'd only do this for the sponsorship of his parents and nothing else. and as soon as he get he's parents the marriage will be all over. I dont know, he's told me he's sure of his sexuality, and that he is not gay nor bisexual and that he loves me. But I dont know, I have all the reason to think otherwise. Reply to this Question
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reader, CatherineA  +, writes (11 July 2010):
Good GRIEF! He's living in a gay village with a gay man that he "married" and you ask if he is gay???? WAKE UP, GIRLFRIEND.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 No matter if he is gay or not, the man is married... So why not just find someone who isn't already taken, fake marriage or not? If you see too many red flags, trust your instincts and leave. Even if he is hetero, there are still many red flags here...
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reader, 11muds11 +, writes (9 July 2010):
I have no problem with the gay aspect of this, but I think this guy has already made his decisions about the direction his life will take. He has decided to become apart of this man's.
Since his decision is made, I don't think it matters about trying to guess his sexual orientation. His life's choices are already made and you are not being smart by trying to stay involved with this guy. It's time to move on. That's what I think.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 July 2010):
 This is wrong on so many levels I can't even start to be diplomatic. Run screaming the other way, as far and as fast as you can. You are dealing with a con man. Run run run!
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reader, oldromantic2010  +, writes (9 July 2010):
have you asked him? Have you spoken about this and aired your concerns? It all seems a bit dodgey to me to be fair, where are his parents from and why is it up to him to get them over here?.....You need to ask these questions.
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