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writes:I'm not sure if i'm confused about my sexuality, or just curious, and i'm not sure if i'm straight or bisexual. I have been fantasising about having sex with women for a while now. The only ways i can think of meeting women though to try and experiment are to go to a gay/lesbian nightclub, i'm not sure if there are bisexual nightclubs, and, i'm not sure where there are any in the U.K, as i haven't been to any before. If anyone knows of any, i'd appreciate it if you could tell me where they are. Also, if i did go to that kind of club, i'm not sure how to act when i go there, and how can i get a woman to talk to me there ?. i might have to go alone, as no one that i know knows how i am feeling, and i would be embarrassed if they found out. They all think i am completely straight. I'm not sure if i would want a relationship with a woman, but i would like to try sex. I haven't even had sex with a guy yet, so my first time having sex might be with a woman. Also, once i met a woman who was a lesbian as she was related to someone i used to hang out with, and she said i was really pretty and kept winking at me. That was the first time that a woman has ever been attracted to me and flirted with me. Do you think the winking meant anything ?. She must have said something to my brother as well because he said " well you never know, maybe she will want to experiment " to her. She was also disappointed when she found out i was straight. I hadn't had these thoughts at that point. So, if one woman has been attracted to me already, maybe another one would be.If there is anyone here who is a lesbian that is reading this, how would you react if a straight female, who is curious or confused, wanted to try having sex with you ?. Would the fact that they have been with guys put you off at all ?. The strange thing is, i have never been with anyone just for sex either, but i'd like to do that first just to see if i would like being with a woman physically . I'm not sure yet if i'm emotionally attracted to women though. I have dated guys, of course, and done some sexual things with them, just not everything. Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Lots of women are curious about other women...come on...women are just yummy.But I think you should try with another friend who is also curious first. That way you won't feel like you have to do something because you are already in a gay/lesbian bar.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): HeyaActually I am in the UK and looking for a similar girl to hang out with. I know of bars, clubs etc in London but none of my girlmates are bi. If you wanna chat further or something let me know x
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reader, janette0315  +, writes (20 July 2010):
Go for it im 22 i did and it was a nice experience
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