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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): no do not do anything. if your feeling guilt and are attracted to girls. do not do it. i went through the same thing but not the gay porn part. i experimented when i was in the seventh grade and i am curently in 11th and i strongly regret it every single day of my life. i dont even know if i should tell my girlfriend of a year if so. i dont want her to know but she might be entitled to knowing. i dont want you to make the same way. think of in the long run and not the moment. how will you feel when you have a wife and kids one day. it disgusts me everytime i think about it i hate it. i wished it never happened.
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reader, philip@u  +, writes (14 July 2010):
i personally experiment at an early age and I had a lot of guilt for yrs. in that time i was doing it i was actually fine it was after i stopped when i got the guilt feeling.
but i would still consider doing it if i were you.
maybe if you got closer to him it might not be such
a high guilty feeling. but the guy i did it with i didn't know at all really, he just suggested it and i was like ok.
sex is really a rush,fun,hard,exillerating, and can be breath taking. and you must have a the butterflys and a rush feeling right now.be safe if you do decide to do it.
porn a lot of teenagers are looking at porn so dont dwell on that. masturbating too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he is not a stranger we've been good friends since the begging of last year
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (13 July 2010):
 I'll bet it's not so much the fact that the porn you are watching is gay... as the fact that you're just watching porn... at all... that's making you feel guilty.
I for one say, if you have the opportunity, and can safely/confidentially experiment... then do so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): What you see is not what you always got ! I have similar experienced b4 and that if your not mentally nor physically ready, don't ever tried to do it. Seriuosly, whose that guy anyway?! Did you know him well or just a random stranger. Protect yourself better than regret later if his not your closer buddy. To experimented with the same sex need more that just curiosity. It involved trust..
Best Luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK thank you for your input. And to all the others that may reply. I'm taking all of this into great consideration :)
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Obviously the choice is up to you, but you're still young and other opportunities will definitely come up as long as you look for them. I still don't think you're emotionally ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was a mistake to say immense feeling. But i do feel sorta guilty. But watching that porn and any porn in general i see how pleasured the guys there are. and i want to try it. I think this is also a one time chance!
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (9 July 2010):
 Hun, youre feeling guilty so rather not take the chance. You are still very young and there is more than enough time when you feel comfortable to try things out.
Honeygirl
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reader, xanthic +, writes (9 July 2010):
Since you're already feeling guilty without having done anything, you're clearly not emotionally ready for something of this nature. Going through with it would only multiply that feeling and leave you in a worse state than you already were.
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