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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Third option. Should I wait for more clear signs before reaching a decision on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

31 May 2016 (M) - I have fallen for a best friend of mine. I don’t know if his feelings are reciprocated, what I do know is that I am walking between the borderline of acting on my feelings and pursuing him as more than a friend or restraining myself altogether and ...

I think I'm starting to hate my best friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I really need some advice with a certain situation that my friend (we'll call her molly) got herself in to. We've been friends for about 5 years and we used to relate to each other so well. We were so close until about 4 months ago. That's when she ...

Should I tell how I feel, even though she is not gay and has a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - So i've really liked this girl for four years from college. I am certain she did had some feelings for me. However, She has a boyfriend, and ive just left college and dont think i will ever see her or speak to her again. I am not looking for ...

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work ...

Are my strategies taking me in the right direction? Should I 'live' a little after the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are amicably divorcing after 10 years of being together. There's no drama, we've been dead as a couple for years, we just didn't fight in public or complained to friends and family. So people close to us are in shock, as they ...

My Bf ignores me and neglects me. Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - If my boyfriend has neglected me for over 3 months and counting, should I break up with him? He might be working on something, or studying for finals, but that might not be it. I have also found another man but I haven't met him in real life, and I ...

She's engaged but my boyfriend checks out her facebook page every day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My bf n I have been dating for about 4 yrs now. We r both college grads n about to start professional schools. We have a solid relationship but one thing has always bothered me. My bf either has a crush or really really likes one of his friends from ...

Do I have a chance? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

29 May 2016 (M) - Background: I'm a 13 yr old boy of Sierra Leonean descent(African) who lives in a south London flat, and I go to a private secondary boys school on a bursary in the center of London. I'm an only child and I never really knew my dad but that's beside ...

He is the best friend of a guy I used to like. Does the best friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3096 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - So basically, about 2 years ago, I moved to a new college and so did a new friend that I had made. We both ended up really liking each other. His bestfriend also came to this new college too. At the beginning the bestfriend and I really got along. ...

I believe that someone at work is stirring up trouble and trying to sabotage friendships with people I work with. How should I proceed to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3097 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - hello agony aunts I've got a problem which I hope you can solve for me, I feel as though someone at work is plotting against me and is telling untrue stuff about me to my friends and to a girl who I'm friends with about my past, he doesn't like me ...

Is my friend is being passive-aggressive, or am I being sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - I've known my friend (we'll call him Ron) for almost 4 years. We met during the first year of university. I met a wonderful man (we'll call him Thomas) during my summer exchange program in another country. Over the past 1.5 years, I've been in a l...

Should I tell my best friend this secret about her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunt Advice needed!! I was catching up with an old high school friend, we were very close but we lost contact now in college were close again. We decided to go have a girls night, during the dinner she asked about my best friend and vice ...

Fantasizing about my husband's best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3098 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - My husband is a fair amount older than me and has a lower sex drive. On top of this I am also sexually attracted to multiple people at the same time. My husband's best friend is single and has been on a dry spell for about 5 years and is very ...

How do I let others know that I'm a good friend and not snobby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

27 May 2016 (M) - Hi:) I believe I am an above average looking guy with a stable job and take good care of myself. I am very sociable with family but am quiet outside the home environment. I do not enjoy drawing attention to myself and would rather just be a part of ...

Someone stirring up trouble and losing friendships thick and fast

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

27 May 2016 (M) - hello agony aunts I've got a problem which I hope you can solve for me, I feel as though someone at work is plotting against me and is telling untrue stuff about me to my friends and to a girl who I'm friends with about my past, he doesn't like me ...

Do I take a chance on my friend who is being flaky or just move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - Me and my friend decided to be more than friends , yesterday i got some plans mixed up and messaged him saying i couldnt meet friday he didnt see the message straight away but 2 mins later i told him it was ok to still see each other and he saw id ...

It's a secret I've not told my long term friend. How do I reveal my autism to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

26 May 2016 (M) - I've been friends with a girl from high school for many years and I have a secret I haven't told her about me. That I have autism and I can't find the right words to say or explain it to her, and as I've autism my words get cross wired and some...

At what age, of a particular person who has never dated, are others likely to form an opinion that the particular person is gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

26 May 2016 (M) - I've heard a lot of people say that people close to you often guess your sexuality before you actually come out. That has got me wondering. I'm 26, I have never dated, don't talk about who I'm attracted to and have never so much as held someone'...

What can or should I do? I can't stop thinking about another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3096 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I'm in big trouble. I haven't been happy in my marriage for years now. I still love my husband and like him but not like I used to, he is an alright person but does some questionable things. He has been unfaithful with another woman. However he ...

Does he still like me? Friends think yes. I thought so too, but now I don't know

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I like this guy in a bar and he's working there and for the past few weeks whenever he's there he always looks at me and tries to strike up a conversation, but I'm always with my friends and it's kinda hard to have a decent conversation with so ...

Would it be appropriate, and not creepy, to send him a thank you message?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

24 May 2016 (F) - This is the first time Im asking something like this... I recently had a conversation with customers support over the phone, and the man who took my call was so nice and helpful, and he sent me an e-mail afterwards with further information about my ...

Why do people want strippers at celebration parties just before they marry?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3100 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - Hi this is a weird question because its a hypothetical. I think its very strange that before two people get married they are encouraged to have strippers at their bachelor/ bachelorette parties. I've never been to a strip club even though it w...

I asked her about meeting up but she's gone cold. How can I become friends with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - I became friends with this girl I liked at work and also on social media right away. We get on well with each other and she always finds the time to talk to me. The only problem I have is. That I worry I say the wrong things to her and can't re...

How do I stop saying the wrong thing and convince H that I love her ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

24 May 2016 (M) - I've been dating H for five months and it's just gotten weird... With like all these things where she gets mad at me. First time, my friends said I could have been nicer about it but I think she was over sensitive. She got her braces adjusted ...

I need the morals, security and companionship of religion without the dogma

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

23 May 2016 (M) - Hi there, I am hoping that someone out there can give me advice on the following, I am a 50 year old male. I have had a pretty dodgy past. From about the age of 20 I started to dabble with drugs, on hindsight I am shocked by how quickly I went fro...

Do I have a right to feel disrespected, or wondering if any loyalty exists, anymore, between us?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

23 May 2016 (F) - What would YOU think? How would YOU feel? How would YOU react? Couple months ago made friends with a woman. Weve gone for coffee. Visited, visited others together, gone for walks, just spent time together, getting to know each other. A couple ...

Is he interested and should I wait for him to make a move or do it myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - (I’ve just realized I wrote such a long post! Sorry and thanx for reading!) There’s this guy I like very much. We are both divorced. He has kids. I think he may be interested in me. We haven’t exchanged phone numbers, we see each other at our fri...

His friends don't make me feel welcome. How can I deal with this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi All, I'm having this uneasy feeling about a situation, theres nothing I can do about it but wait for it to pass. And then hopefully it'll just be a forgotten memory. The situation is that my boyfriend (of 5 years, of which 2 years living t...

Is wanting a relationship normal, even if you don't even know what it's like to be loved?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3099 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys! So I haven't been on this site in years but I find myself needing advice again. My birthday is in a couple of days and im just feeling so lonely, just another year passing without any change. I've never been in love or had a boyfriend ...

What should I do? Is it understandable that I'm hurt that my boyfriend wants to be friends with a woman he cheated with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

22 May 2016 (F) - Last night my phone was dead and I could not find my charger. So I asked my boyfriend if I could use his phone because I had to call my sister for something important. I'm not the type to snoop but I saw 3 calls in the call log from a woman my...

Feeling confused over a crush. What can I do, to overcome the crush, without cutting ties with this man, who has been so kind to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3104 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - I am looking for advice on this I have became friendly with a man who is 20 years older than myself. He has always helped me out with DIY and other things and been really nice. He is married with a family. I have a boyfriend who travels a lot wi...

Uncles who lost your virginity at a later stage, how did you do it? Aunts what will really help me lose my virginity?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3102 days ago

21 May 2016 (M) - How do you shake off being a virgin? While I have kissed a couple girls and have been sexual with some, I feel down on myself for not having had intercourse. I've read articles on this site, other sites about not feeling bad about it but it ...

I like him and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - So for this I'm going to use the letters K and W. Alright so I've liked this guy, W, since freshman year (of high school) he's a grade above me but he's also one of my really good friends. Well W also had a huge crush on my best friend. So while I ...

Is it possible to fall for a guy you've never spoken to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

21 May 2016 (F) - Is it possible to fall for a guy you've never spoken to? We have mutual friends so of course we've somewhat been introduced but we've never officially spoken. We're both embarrassingly shy so when our groups merge he stays in his bubble and I stay ...

Am I seeing too much into this? Or is he seeing me as more than a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

20 May 2016 (M) - Hello everyone, this is my first time on a site like this and I think it's just so great to find something that allows us to help each other through our own unique experiences. To get to my situation: I am an openly gay male and I recently came in ...

Can you recall regrets you felt as a result of getting divorced? Did people respect you less as a result?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3103 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - How many of you regret getting a divorce?? How many of you feel you made the right or wrong decision? I'm my situation there are no kids involved. Did you remain friends with your ex? How close were you to their family and was it hard telling ...

Should I cut ties with the friend who still hears from the mutual friend I fell out with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - I have a dilemma about a friend (Girl A) of mine who is also a friend with another girl that I had a bad fall out with (Girl B). The thing is - I got hurt and betrayed badly by Girl B - so after the fallout I tried to disassociate myself from bot...

Could my ex be making fake profiles on an online dating service and then targeting me? My friends suggest, "yes" !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3106 days ago

20 May 2016 (M) - I just wondering if this has happened to any one else, in the past three weeks, four different women have been in contact with me, on an online dating service, which is where I met my ex, two from her town, one from my town, and one 45 miles from ...

What comes after divorce? What will my life to be like afterwards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3105 days ago

20 May 2016 (F) - Debating divorce, what can I expect my life to be like afterwards?!?!?! I haven't been single since I was 16. I've only had one partner. I can cook, clean, pay bills, budget, keep books, fix minor mechanical issues in vehicles, I mow the lawn...

If he wants to treat me like a friend then why is he also flirting with me? Is he interested again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3107 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - Hi, dear agony aunts! Moving straight to the issue- I was in a relationship with this man during the middle of the last year. He decided to break up with me as he was not "mentally detached" from his ex flames. And that too over a silly text me...

How can I re-establish a bond with this guy I'm crushing for? He seems indifferent to me now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3107 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - i am a girl who has a lot of guy friends. i flirt with them a lot. Among my guy friends, there's one that i have crush on since a few months ago. we used to talk a lot and he would act so nice to me, he made me smile a lot too. unfortunately, i...

Am I playing with fire?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3101 days ago

19 May 2016 (F) - I'm wondering if my male coworker is attracted to me. Here's how it is: He constantly teases me and tries to get me to smile, which isn't hard because he's funny and our job sucks. Sometimes he comes up behind me and whispers "Boo!" in m...

How can I be less sensitive and toughen up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

18 May 2016 (M) - OK so I have this thing that shouldn't be a problem but it is. My teeth are a mess. Not so much an overbite but my back teeth close but my front teeth don't. They're all really crowded and I have this bottom tooth that sits way out so I look like a ...

How do you cope with indifference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

17 May 2016 (M) - I left my job a few months ago due to illness and it seems like everyone is trying to avoid me, I was at my work for 4 years and made what I thought were good friends over that time. Friends which I would go out on the weekend with text to meet up ...

I am just imagining things or does my friend like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3109 days ago

16 May 2016 (F) - I have this guy friend and i like him. he is the type of boys who don't usually hang around girls. so i managed to make my first move on him. i talked to him first, and slowly, he started opening up. not like in any way you would think, but he ...

Why does he act so jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

16 May 2016 (F) - I have this one guy friend and i really like him. In fact, i've been so blunt and straight forward about my feelings. I told everyone about my feelings to him and i'm sure everyone including him knows about it. we hang out quite often and we a...

He sent a false rumor around that I sucked him off. (I'm 14) Yet I still think he is gorgeous. I need your help, please? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - Hey , This is kinda embarresing but there's this guy who I've liked for YEARS now literally and he knows that I've liked him for that long. I think about him ALL the time. He makes me so nervous and everyone else blurs and I only see him. But he's...

Have I given him a bad impression by allowing this kiss to happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3111 days ago

15 May 2016 (F) - So last night was my first kiss with nu bf. We've been seeing for about 4 weeks and me and some friends went to his place (were 14) and I was bored so I went behind his sofa to lie down and text people. He got a blanket and put it over my head then...

Who do I choose? My best friend or my crush?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 May 2016 (F) - there is a boy in my class and i really and i really like him but i know my friend does too. i know if i try telling him i love him then my friend will get mad at me and fall out with me. who do i choose my best freind or the boy i love...

To her it was just a kiss. Should I talk to her about it? The kiss made a big impact on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3110 days ago

14 May 2016 (M) - Hung out with a good friend last week, and I ended up with my first kiss which lead to some more kissing as well. Granted, a lot of alcohol was involved, and we both knew something may happen if we spent the night drinking. Nonetheless, we had fun, ...