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writes: Hey , This is kinda embarresing but there's this guy who I've liked for YEARS now literally and he knows that I've liked him for that long. I think about him ALL the time. He makes me so nervous and everyone else blurs and I only see him. But he's a fuckboy and apparently he sent a rumour round he denied it but he said I sucked him off at my party etc .. And I mean he said he wanted to get off with me and all but I think he was just using me to get off with this was like our second time properly hanging together . All my friends were going on about how u should get with ( my name ) and that I really liked him......He said he liked me back but I think it was just so he could get with me . It's not a typical crush for me I instantly liked him at a picture and I liked him sooo bad and I hadn't even met him yet and I was convinced I loved him ( lol ) he doesn't realise how much it hurts when he occasionally ignores my text and when I seem sad he doesn't ask why ? :-( .Also He's really cool in the town I live like really cooool and his friends know that ( my school ) is a pathetic bitchy school and they don't really like us ) and I feel that when I see him in town with his friends he's secretly thinking don't come over don't see me . I feel he's embarrassed by me . I know I should be angry but I can't stay angry at him I like him to much. He sometimes texts me saying I looked hot when he saw me in town which makes my day ! But he's such a player and he's GORGEOUS ( btw I'm not even pretty ) I don't know what to do and I can't take it anymore pleaseeeee HELPP !!
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reader, greymatter  +, writes (19 May 2016):
He isn't a nice guy if he started a rumor about you. Even gorgeous people aren't always worth our time. You should avoid him and consider dating guys who treat you with respect!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2016): What does being gorgeous have to do with being a decent human being? Prettier people are not better people.
You know it when I say it like that. But you seem to forget it pretty fast when it comes in the form of a gorgeous guy paying you attention. Get my drift?
What you need to do here, is do the difficult mature thing. Don't let your sex drive push you into being taken advantage of. He will do it if you let him. He is ALREADY TRYING.
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reader, Dionee'  +, writes (16 May 2016):
 OP my advice to you is to steer clear of fuckboys because they know just what to say to keep that hold that they've got on you. The truth is he doesn't nor will he ever care about you. It's more so that you're a pawn in a game that he is playing and the end result will be you getting hurt. If you cannot see from his actions thus far that he's a self absorbed jackass with no good intentions whatsoever then I have no idea what will bring you to that realization other than you getting hurt by this guy in some major way. Stop talking to him and cut him off completely.
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reader, sandy san  +, writes (16 May 2016):
 hey dear,u dont really love him but you are having a huge crush on him.by reading what u said all about him.i dont think he is a really nice guy.and u likes him because he is gorgeous,popular etc.this is not love dear.i hope u understand what i meant.listen to your heart and find someone who u thinks he is perfect for u.and u also mentioned that this guy occassionally ignores ur text right?look he may only seen u as a friend.dont say that you are not pretty stuffs and all.be the best for who you are and what you are.just listen to your heart and do what it says.lets hope for the best.
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