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Have I given him a bad impression by allowing this kiss to happen?

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Question - (15 May 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, *arsha_help writes:

So last night was my first kiss with nu bf. We've been seeing for about 4 weeks and me and some friends went to his place (were 14) and I was bored so I went behind his sofa to lie down and text people.

He got a blanket and put it over my head then lay next to me and stuck his head under it, it was a weird angle so when I kissed him it wasn't the best but the little kisses were really bf and gf.

But after he just played with my fingers and we held hands. I'm worried it was a bad impression and it was my fault it was a bad kiss. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP! I'M SEEING HIM AGAIN SOON!!!

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (15 May 2016):

janniepeg agony auntYou didn't want to be seen, and the blanket didn't really give you the privacy you needed. I am sure he still enjoyed it, even though it was awkward. It was sneaky and I guess it had the exciting element. It could be arousing for him too, so he needed to cool down before it felt sexual. If you want a first kiss to be special go to a place where you won't be disturbed and no one can see you.

I don't think you left him a bad impression. When you agreed to kiss him it showed him your feelings are stronger than your need to be discreet. Which is very normal when you like someone very much.

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A female reader, bettybuttercup United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2016):

No its not a bad impression. You are girlfriend and boyfriend, you are bound to kiss. He probably didn't even notice I it was a bad kiss. Don't worry about it at all, ots not early to kiss or anything. If he says anything about it, say you were on a bad angle, tell him the truth.

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