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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I miss him. But we both left the business before we exchanged numbers. I feel so lost. How can I find him? please help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I used to work in a well known food retail store in London but got the sack, last month, after many disciplinary hearings for being late. There was a guy (we'll call him 'John') who worked next door to me; I liked him the second he approach...

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3578 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3581 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends...

He's a great friend, but kind of a bad date

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3365 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I had been seeing this guy on and off for about 6 months. For various reasons, I thought he might eventually be ready for a real relationship but I finally came to my senses and realized that it will not happen. The last time I saw him (about t...

How can I tell him it doesn't have to be all or nothing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Me and my friend of 6 months decided to be more than friends. he wants to push himself to be a better person and enjoy opportunities he gets in life, he decided we should actually become physical now as he felt ready , but suddenly hes got cold feet ...

My friend bailed out on me, is it wrong that I am annoyed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3583 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - I know I might be just asking this out of annoyance, since this just recently happened, but I have a question regarding my friend bailing on me. So we're in college, and we decided to take a weight training class together. In this class, it's pret...

Am I in the wrong with this about a guy I was seeing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I were kind of seeing each other for about 3 months. He introduced me to his family and friends. He would ask to see me most weekends and invite me to events. I remember this one time we were out, and I was talking to another guy and he ...

I am confused about lots of things.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3583 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Thought id message in as id heard about this site, feel confused about lots of things so just wanted to see some other peoples opinion on this. Basically i am worrying about the future as i am coming up to 35 years of age and really hoped by now...

My gf is a liar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - My gf lied about talking to her ex. I'm going to try to be as factual and unbiased as possible about this, and not include any of our history. For ease of explanation let's just pretend I'm psychic. Last night (Sunday), we're laying in bed an...

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months a...

Is my friend too busy for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3577 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I have a friend who I have known for approximately 5 years and every time we get together it's always a good time and we have a lot of laughs. We had drifted apart for about a year and it was mainly over her trying to talk to someone I was dating.. ...

Is he interested or just being nice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3586 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Theres this cute guy in one of my swimming classes. I think im starting to like him, but I dont know if he likes me or is just being nice. On the day of the midterm, i forgot a pencil, and let me borrow his pen for the midterm. That proves nothing, ...

I'm confused by my assistant. Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - Is she enjoying my company? Just wants my attention or liking the attention? Or am I being too available and too nice? I own a business and I have an assistant who has worked with me for almost 3 years. We only work together when we have a gig. ...

I'd like to date this girl but she wants either fwb or just being friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3587 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - Hey guys, Thanks for taking the time out to read this... Basically about 3 months ago, I found myself in a situation where a girl I know was coming to the end of a relationship with her boyfriend. We used to speak to each other every night ...

Should I stop hanging with my friend, his sister broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3587 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - So I committed the sin of dating my best friend's sister. He was surprisingly very okay with it but I digress. The sister and I were really good friends before and she was in a shitty relationship and ended up leaving that guy and one thing led to ...

My best friend is dating someone horrible from my past! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hey your answers in the past have helped me a lot so I'm here again with something new that I'd love your feedback on. When I was 15 I started dating a guy and he treated me badly over the 4 years we were seeing each other. He cheated on me wi...

How can I appear more approachable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3588 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - How do you make yourself appear more approachable? I hear all the time that sometimes people don't get dates because they seem unapproachable. But what necessarily gives off that impression? I've heard the whole spiel about smiling and making e...

Am I being rejected because I didn't hook up with the guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3588 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Do you think they wanted me to go away? Did the boy who I was talking to show signs of disinterest or his friends just didnot like me? i was talking to a boy and letting him know how much i like his friend who wanted to hookup with me but i re...

Should I go to a high school reunion when I'll probably be the only single one??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

22 January 2015 (M) - During the holidays I went to visit my hometown and came across a high school mate I'd been friends with during that time. It so happened at the end of January a mini high school reunion was taking place and I was invited. Unwittingly I accepted ...

Wondering about his intimacy with his online friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3591 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - Hi I desperately need some advise on a guy I have met online. We have a really good connection and in person the attraction is there too. He has made it clear he would like to see how things develop between us and that he likes me a lot and I like h...

First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my ...

Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many ...

Where to Now? And how to stop this jealousy too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I wrote in a few months ago about an argument between me and my boyfriend. I had gone on his phone as he had been hiding it everytime he got a message which made me doubt what he was upto. I know I shouldn't have but I needed to know as it was ...

Am I over-reacting when my Boyfriend ignores boundaries and behaves disrespectfully towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I am a 28 year old female, been with my boyfriend for a long time (over 10 years), although in the beginning we were off and on. Roughly 6-7 years ago, we were broken up and he dated a girl for a few months. He still said he wanted me back a...

Am I doing anything wrong? I like a married man and he likes me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - please advise:- I like a married man, he likes me too. we share intimacy like few kisses/smooches /holding hands etc but not physically involved beyond that extent. we like each others company he is a top level guy in my office and I've been emp...

How many stay with their first love and is it better for me to experience someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hello there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts if you decide to answer. Since the new year has started, many couples around me broke up or there were people that started a new relationship. Many of my classmates are around the age of 22 or ...

Wedding gift-giving advice needed for the best man and his girlfriend! What's the etiquette?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I was wondering if anyone can offer some advise over wedding gift-giving protocol? My boyfriend and I have a wedding to go to in a month. It is the marriage of my boyfriend's best friend and he is his best man. I've known his friend for quite...

His best friend has told me very upsetting things about his sleeping with other women, including her! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I always knew my boyfriend was hiding something from me regarding his best friend but I was never sure about what it was. I do have trust issues due to be hurt in the past but it was something different this time. It was like I could see it with my ...

We are like a couple, but she says she just sees me as a friend, I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3591 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - Hi sorry to sound stupid but I'm useless with women ! I met a girl on pof back in October she kind of knew me through my works and living near me, we got chatting and seemed to be gettying on really well however she did turn round to me and said I ...

I have feelings for my best friend's man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I hate to admit this, but I have developed feelings for a good friend's boyfriend. I dont know why, but I have, and what makes it worse is I am engaged to a lovely man, who I still really fancy. Even though I would never go there, because I couldnt ...

Why do girls always come and tell me how attractive some guy is?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - About half of my friends are females. I tend to get along with them more I guess because most guys I meet are more immature. Still, I'm a guy not a girl. Why is it that all my female friends feel the need to tell me about how attractive some ...

Is it okay to remove myself and "give her up" as a close friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3584 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - So I'm in the situation where I've told one of my good friends that I don't want to see her for a while... The story goes like this: I was good friends with her in high school but she did these little things like made out with a guy I was interested ...

Do you think this guy is interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3593 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - This guy and I would talk everyday. I was introduced to his friends, family. His mother apparently knew about me the first day we met. One of his friends told me that he was happy he got my number. He would ask to see me most weekends, invite me ...

Are we obliged to inform friends when our plans change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he just wants to be friends, and I agreed. Last week, I told him that I would stop by after my weekly club meeting. He said great, see ya soon. The meeting was longer than I thought, but once it was over I offered to still...

My beautiful little dog just died and I feel lost

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello, My little dog died last January 9th and I feel terrible, guilty and extremely lost. I really need some help because I feel terrible and I don't know how I am going to get over this situation. I try to rescue stray dogs to then find them a ...

I'd like to stay friends but I know that'd be unwise currently.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Should you tell your ex you're going no contact, or should you just disappear? My ex and I broke up after almost 1 yr. We talked daily for about a month afterwards. Then he invited me to see him for some talk and possibly sex. I turned him down....

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me ...

How can I be COOL when starting a new relationship? I think I act too eager at the start, and that results in problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3593 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hey there, I need help regarding a pattern I have seen while I'm dating anyone really. I just get attached very quickly and too deeply to the point where I'm waiting for their texts, meeting them, calls and thinking about how to please them...

Loyalty to my friend is stopping me. I can't ask her out, because what kind of a friend would I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - I like this girl in my friend circle and I'm somewhat sure she likes me back. The big problem is that one of my close friends fell for her pretty hard a while back, going as far as to say the whole "never felt this way about anyone like this bef...

I am sure my Mom was just a bit tipsy but this creeped me out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3592 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hi, I m a 23 year old guy. Yesterday I asked my friend Jeremy (also 23) to sleep over my house for the whole weekend. Around 10 my mom and her best friend were sitting at the kitchen counter drinking some wine when Jeremy came over. This was the ...

I know he has a girlfriend but it doesn't stop me hoping!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3594 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - So I there is a guy at work that I really like! I don't know what to do because he has a girlfriend so I know there is no chance we can't be together but that doesn't stop me hoping all the time. We spend a lot of time together and I have been ...

Does this make my friend a back stabber?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3595 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are really serious. And sometimes when we hangout we hangout with a group of his or my friends. One day, my friend asked me if it would be ok if she called him to ask him about a problem she was having with her long term ...

Scared to tell her I really love her. But if she sees me as just a friend then how will I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so I am one of those people who try all time not to catch feelings for people, because I know how it can hurt, but I can never see when its coming. Well, I have this friend on a social network, and I've never met her in Real Life, but I kn...

My boyfriend doesn't want his expensive birthday gift, and I can't get my money back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - I got my boyfriend an pretty expensive bday gift. I got us a cabin as a weekday getaway. I planned everything including food and transportation. I wanted to surprise him and he doesn't want to go. He says he'll be hungover and he wants to go out ...

Why are some people incapable of asking how you are?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - why are some people incapable of asking how you are? I mean friends, long term friend, any friend. A long term friend of mine never bothers to say this, I always ask after her and want to know how she is, isnt that what friends do!!? Other friends ...

Girlfriend? Or Friend? How do I know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

15 January 2015 (F) - I have been seeing a guy I met offline for about 2 months. We talked online for over a month before he asked me out for coffee. Since then we have seen each other once or twice a week since then. When I am with him, I feel totally relaxed and happ...

Flirting with my best friend's wife...should I go further?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3596 days ago

15 January 2015 (M) - My best friend started dating this girl years ago. My gf at the time and her were bffs. My friends gf and i had this chemistry that is so lustful and exciting. We would mess around a bit and eventually it came out in the open. We admitted guilt and ...

Has anyone ever dated a long time friend? How did it turn out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - Hello. I have been best friends with this guy for 8 years. Over the years, I have known that he likes me, but I always had a boyfriend and for the longest time wasn't necessarily his peer. (now that I am a mature adult, the age gap of 12 years ...