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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

My big problem is that I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hello , well my big problem is that i'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend i really do love him and everytime i think about him my heart beats so fast , anyway i think you got it . And i feel really bad cause when everyday i talk with my best ...

What's the best way to deal with these people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like I owe no one an explanation of who I am and what I prefer. A female came into the building tonight at work and she was wearing a short tight dress and I looked her over as I do anyone male or female that catches my interest. However ...

He usually ignores me, I don't understand him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - OK first of all, I'm a Muslim girl. Now I have a crush on this other Muslim guy I know. He comes to these classes my dad teaches. He always completely ignores me. He never wants to sit next to me ever. I also see him in school everyday, and he ...

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mi...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's be...

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say anno...

Do I have to stay away from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone:) My best friend recently introduced me to some of her closest friends as i am going to the same school as them in september. Ive met them quite a few times and found myself really liking one pf her closest guy friends. My best...

My boyfriend and I don't get on with each other's friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for about 18 months or so, we were friends before this also and we love each other dearly. we both worked hard at university and have graduate positions and promising careers ahead of us. however, there is a problem, we ...

My male friend has a crush on me but I'm not interested in him, but I don't want to lose the friendship either! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hello there, I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I'll just dive right in. I have mostly guy friends. I never really seem to get along with girls, so most of my best friends are guys. My boyfriend of ten months is totally fine with this, never ...

I've not responded to this girl sending me nasty messages but she is still doing it, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi guys, so I've asked about this twice... I'll link the threads if the Aunts will let me. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-bullies-me.html and http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what...

Why haven't I met his friends yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I've been with my bf for almost a year now in somewhat of a long distance relationship. We live an hour from each other and only see each other on weekends when he comes and spends the whole weekend with me. In the whole time I've known him, I've ...

Should I keep trying to cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - Heyy guys i have a question about a girl i know lets call her "a" and she has had a boyfriend lets call him "b". i have been friends with this girl for quite sometime now, and she has been having relationship troubles with b for months now and she ...

What do I do about being stood up by my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - my best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for a year. we are really close but purely platonic. thing is that he's been coming round to mine a fair bit recently to chill out and we have a lot of fun. he was supposed to come round today ...

I'm starting to question my friendship with my gay best friend... What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So my gay best friend hung out with me today, since he's in town (he lives in AZ, I'm in cali). We used to date, but we only kissed once, and it was one of those preschool kisses that were just us smashing our face together. It didn't last long, and ...

I'm tired of waiting my turn! I want a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - So, my problem is, I just graduated from high school and this is my last summer before college. I had a fall out with my used-to-be closest friend, so I've been pretty lonely. I do have other friends to hang out with, but it's come to the point ...

Was this a spiked drink? And why did it not bother my husband that I behaved as I did ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Me and my husband are marries for 5 yrs now. We have a friend with whom he used to booze during week ends. either we go to his house or he visit us on week end. It's not my habit to drink but some times I join them or when the friend is not availabl...

Is he still upset? what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have a friend, who had a gf and whilst we were talking he'd flirt and hint at our friendship being something more. Luckily I didn't fall for it but it turns out he was cheating on his gf and now that she's dumped him, he really really upset ...

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...

I fear she may reject me because of her feelings for her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am in situation where I consider myself deeply infatuated with a female co-worker/friend. We've grown close over the past couple of months and hang out alone often. She has a boyfriend and she sometimes mentions her love for her boyfriend. Here ...

I'm the listening post the girls come to for advice. Why do they forget all about me after I'm kind to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am the guy that girls go to when they are starting to like a guy and they tell me and ask me for advice. When they get that all figured out and start going with the guy, they forget me and leave me in the dust and act like i don't exist. after ...

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are ...

Can a friendship turn into more? Or will you always be stuck in the friend zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Can you guys tell me if it is possible for a friendship to develop into a romantic relationship between you and your good guy friend? Or will you always just remain in the friends zone with each other... Is it better to take your time and ...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

My boyfriend? Or my best male friend? Which one? How do I choose? Don't want to lose either man.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hello. So I’m completely confused. So I’m 18 and starting college this fall. And I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and one month. Well our relationship has been really rocky at times, but we always fix it. Well just last month he couldn’t...

Should I stay friends with her, shes too much to handle sometimes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I have a good friend (lets call her A) who is a nutjob, and I don't know what I want to do about it. I don't know if i should remain friends with her or i should end the friendship while I can. I feel like some of her craziness stems from her ...

Slept with my best friend, now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I have had a male best friend for 6 years. There has always been a sexual tension and we both have always been attracted to each other but have kept it platonic/ PG13 because I think we both knew we were scared and not ready to explore that side of ...

Why is this man affecting me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I got some good advice in the past so I'll give it another go. This story goes way back and it is very painful still. So, last year I fell in love with a good friend. I used to have a huge crush on his best friend (and he knew it)for a very long ...

The boy I fancy is going out with my best friend, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I am 13 and this boy ive liked for 2 years is now goin out with my best friend wat should i do (by the way every says that hes a player and they wont last)...

Is this boy into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I'm not sure if this boy, lets call him Will, is into me? He is the ex of one of my friends (she dumped him). Me and Will have always got on well, he's always complimented me a lot and told me people that I was going places in life. We are both ...

Is my best friend racist? Or am I just being over-sensitive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Ok so my best friend is Caucasian, and I am African American. I totally understand why she would want to date a white guy, because it is something that I understand the agreements and disagreements of that topic being offensive. But we live in a ...

I love my boyfriend, but have feelings for my female friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - ok, so. i have this friend, shes a girl. ive been tryin 2 decied if im ballenced(BI), or totter(STRAIGHT). ive been having mixed emotions about her. she dresses like a guy acts like a guy. idk what 2 do. i have a bf that i love sooo much. I try 2 ...

A girl and her gay.

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25 June 2012 (F) - Gentlemen! I introduce to you one of the most beautiful and complex of relationships known to the modern world: The love between a Girl and her Gay. Oh, you can insist that you know what she wants, when she wants it and how she wants it. But tr...

My Mother seems obsessed about trying to break up my brother's relationship with his Gf. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - ok my question is in regards to my brother and my mom. My brother A has always been a mamas boy and she has ALWAYS been obsessed with him and in his business. A is the dream kid, has always just let her be her over bearing self and smiled and s...

Why does he say he just wants to be friend? Yet then he keeps making moves on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I feel like in getting mixed signals from a guy friend. We hang out in the same crowd but mainly at the bar or a friends house when we are drinking. We ended up kissing at the bar a while ago and at the next get together he was ackward until he...

Why have the other girls not invited me to their Birthday celebration? Why would people do that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I live in an area where no one wishes any good luck or fortune on their neighbours. My family in particular is not liked because there is quiet a few of us and we all have our own vehicles and a thriving family business due to the fact that we work...

After all this time, and after so many starts, could he be my soulmate? I can't stop thinking of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I'm not sure what you ar egoing too think. Well long story short i met this guy when I was 19 we clicked straight away and stayed with each other till the end of the night and exchanged numbers he called straight away next day and we dated for ove...

I found out g/f had been cyber cheating for months and she thinks its no big deal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - Hello, I'd like to start this off first of all by saying thank you to anyone who reads and replies to this lengthy message - I'm really in need of an outside opinion here and it would mean a lot to me. I have been with my girlfriend now f...

Should I just settle for being his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Hi! I havr gotten in to a quite strange and difficult situation. About 3-4 months ago I met my big brother's girlfriend's little brother at a bar. We were talking for ours and had so much fun getting to know each other. We later exchanged phone ...

How can I approach him without seeming like I'm nagging? Think my Bf is seeing another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Iv been dating a guy for 3 months and half everything was going on when my dad found out about us and prevented us from seeing each other, because he claims im too young So now we've been secretly dating. We were schooling together but now we are f...

Why is he paying attention to me when he has a g/f?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - my work colleague has been paying me extreme compliments lately. hes always worried aout me and calls and texts loads. he says he loves working with me and really likes my company. he has a girlfriend of 5 years and says he thinks i look nice and ...

I'm worried about my friend's drinking and sleeping around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - I'm really to starting to worry about my friend as I think she is losing control. She has started to be in an open relationship with her boyfriend where she can go to bed with anyone but he's not allowed which he is ok with as he gets off from ...

Its all a bit of a mess really and I don't know what to do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4509 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - I've been with my current girlfriend now, for, we both reckon, at least 2 years now. We never really both recall the exact date our relationship began, but it doesn't overly matter to us. At first, it was nice. I like how we started out (wit...

Should I tell him I used to work as an escourt? How do I get over my intimacy issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - Background: I am 22 years old and am just graduating with a university degree and am going on to get my masters. When I was 18 and in my first year of university I was having some financial problems because I found out that I did not qualify for ...

I trust him. But should he have gone to this holiday destination hot spot? I'm anxious.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years has just gone to a holiday destination for a week with the lads. I trust him completely and I know he loves me. I'm very anxious and nervous though what he may get up to but not paranoid as obviously there are a lot of half...

Is it fair that my boyfriend puts his friends first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Due to my busy work and school schedule, I only have set times 5 hours/day three days a week to see my boyfriend. He has a completely free summer and flexible schedule, so he sees me during those times. However, sometimes he wakes up late and ...

My boyfriend and I are being forced to break up for a while... any advice on how to help the heart break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Okay so here is what's happening. My boyfriend got mad at my mom because she likes getting under our skin and doesn't want us together and posted a status on facebook about it and that set her off. Well I am 15 and he is 18 and by alabama law we ...