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writes:what is he thinking?I’ve posted a question like this before about the same guy but I didn’t know if he had a girlfriend for real. I’m going to try to make this long story short it might be long but I really need your help. So there’s this guy that I liked since last year May. Before Ii started liking him, I noticed that he would stare at me all the time. I eventually started liking him and I decided to send him a secret admirer e-mail saying that I like him… he told me to add him on msn and we were playing the “guessing game”. I told him the first 3 letters of my name and he found out who it was. So the next day, he asked me on msn if I was really serious with what I told him, and I said: why do you think I’m joking? then he said: I dunno, I’m not taking this seriously, don’t you have a b/f? I said: no, not any more then he said: oh, well I don’t want you to waste your time because I have a gf. Even after that, he would still stare at me all the time and look away sometimes when I caught him and I noticed that sometimes when I walk by him, he doesn’t look at me until when I turn around to look at him, he turns around to look at me too. I asked around if he had a gf, and people said they doubt that. Two nights ago, I was on msn talking to an old friend and he asked me who I wanted to go to prom with so I told him and I asked him not tell my crush that I wanted to go with him because he told me he had a g.f(my friend knows him) and he said: wth? ****** doesn’t have a girlfriend! so I was shocked. I don’t know what to think now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): he was probably trying to let you down gently. so he didn't hurt your feelings. i don't think he's interested in you. you'll find someone else though!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): OK,
well there are many possibilities here in my opinion
maybe he dos have a gf, but its like that gf who no one sees cause she dsnt study at the sme school, or maybe its just a flirt he really fancies.
he can also be a bit freaky and just like to stare. try and see if he also stares at others (not wanting to burts your bubble..sorry)
or maybe he fancies you but my think that he is not worthy of your time.
maybe he is gay?
maybe he is VERY shy
they are endless
what you can do is either play that guesisng game with his gf
ask her eye colors, hair colour, how come youve never seen her..etc but if you are too persistant e might get what your doing, so you must be VERY discreet about this. strat the converstaion by being like "heey, you can never guess who invited me to prom..bla bla, by the way, is your gf going? i woudl LOVE to meet her, although you barely talk about her." and then ask the questions. if he is monosilibic and the name he gives u is very simple like mary and jane then mayb there is no such thing as this girl..or maybe yes.
or you can go tsraight to the point and be like "hey bob, sara just told me you dont have a gf. is that true?"
what ever floats your boat.. i find the first one more amusing lol. but the second one is more assertive.
keep us updated!!
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reader, agtorange  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 He's just not interested. Sucks to hear, but if he's telling you he has a girlfriend and he doesn't, he just doesn't want to tell you straight up that he isn't interested in a relationship.
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