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writes:What Should I Do About Me Ex?My ex and I are still friends. Last night we were hanging out in a group. He was being flirt and telling me he loves me which is nothing new. He was telling one of his friends to look how beautiful I was and how he knew even when were kids that I would be a beautiful woman and that he was right etc. Well, he bought me a drink and I said I wasn't expecting that and he said well, of course you should never have to ask. I said well I wasn't to be presumptious and he said well of course you should always be presumptious and gave me a sly smile. He grinned when I said well that's gotten me in a lot of trouble before. He was doing the thing like across the room at me and grabbing his heart like he's been shot in the heart etc. Then there was the amazingly beautiful women totally trying to dirty dance and be sexy around him and he grabbed me and holding my hand and sharing a drink with and walked away from them. I still like him and would totally have shag him but not sure if he would go there. He's very hot and cold. Next time I see him he might be non-chalant. I asked if he would liek to go to a concert I have an extra ticket to and he said he's already seen the concert once and he didn't like the guy that much after all but that if he decided he wanted to go he would call and let me know. If not he's see me at next week's happy hour thing.I don't know how to read this. I'd like to pursue something with him though I'm not usre we could eer be in love again because he's got a few complicated issues he's been working on. I also know thta he's been having low self-esteem and money problems. Lastly, he told me a friend of his was attracted to me and he told him to get that out of his head, but the guy didn't know we had been a thing at one time. I'd like to take it further but don't want to be embarrassed if he was just playing around. Whenever I get close to him even if he's talking to someone else he grabs ny hand or pulls me close to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): Sounds like he's playing you and keeping his options open. If he wanted to be with you, he has had every opportunity. Sounds like he doesn't want you but wants you to stay interested in him, feed his ego and have you hanging around just in case.
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