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He's not up to my standards

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Question - (7 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I been talking to my friend on the phone like everyday up to 2-4 hours. He express to me how he's really likes me, but I don't want to be then a relationship with him because he is not up to my standards and his not ready to make them changes in his life. I'm scare that I'm leading him on by talking to him so mush on the phone(that's not the case). But he likes when I call to just talk to me. Should I just stop talking to him or should I not worry about it.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 January 2009):

If you have n intention of going out with him then tell him and then it's his choice as to whether he continues on as your friend.

Just tell him you don't want to lead him on but that you are really glad you have him as a friend.

It's fair enough if you don't like him but it's not fair if you let him think that you do.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, kelleeashton United States +, writes (7 January 2009):

kelleeashton agony auntif you like talking to him keep talking to him. just make sure the message of just friends is very clear =) best of luck!

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