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writes:Hi, this is a story with a question after. I've been in a relationship for 1 year for 4 months the relationship was going well, but we had an argument on 1 evening and although I tried talking to her she seemed to blank me, and I didn't know whether she was telling people about or problems or what. I managed to not read the phone but to not lie it sort of bothered me, coz I really wanted to talk about our problem we were having. Anyway on one evening we were being a bit naughty but she soon stopped and then she went to her phone. So when she was asleep I looked in her phone. It had a guy saying he was horny and that he wants to come inside her, and he wanted a picture from my girlfriend. I told her I did it, she got angry but I already felt guilty for doing because I felt because I did that I don't trust her. But I've done it more and it seems to be the same guy. There were conversations about her meeting him, and he backed out, and then she told him she has a new boyfriend, but we had been dating through these times, then the last thing he text again and I snapped we didn't see each other for a week, she said it was her ex and that she never replied with an answer. But now someone else is texting dirty stuff to her. Is it someone else or the same guy with new number. I don't want no sympathy, or people to say break up, I just want to know if there's a truth behind it all, but the big question is I want to stop but I'm scared something will happen as the texts haven't stopped. So what do I do ? How do I stop?
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 You are in a state in your relationship called: THIS BITCH IS PLAYING YOU!She gets a thrill out of messing with your head, and apparently it's working. I hate to be brutal, but when I had these types of problems in the past I blamed myself. If you have done all you can, by trying to communicate with her, then you have to give her an ultimatum. Since I'm sure you already know what the answer is going to be, I suggest you put her in a car, drive her to the nearest bus stop and dump her off there. This Head Game Crap will continue until you can't sleep, eat or think. And that is nothing short of a malignant relationship.GET RID OF HER!
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