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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently I got back from staying with a friend who I really like, when we're together we act like we're a couple, hug, kiss and hold hands. Although we aren't together at the moment as I'm scared to ask him as we currently live nearly 3 hours away by car and we don't see each other often.I had such a lovely time, I'd been counting down the days for so long, the days I was with him went so quick and before I knew it I was home again. When I got back I cried, just because I didn't want to be home, I wanted to be back there with him. Now I really miss him, I just keep thinking about him, thinking about the days I was up there, what we did, the laughs we had, just everything. Now all I want to do is see him, or talk to him. Now all I want to do is to go back and be in his arms again, but I know I can't. I don't think I'm seeing him again for another 3 months. All I keep thinking is "Aww, I was with him 5 days ago" "The other day at this time we were at the resturant" etc. I'm getting really down about it, and really upset cause I miss him. I just don't know what to do. Shall I tell him how much I miss him? Or will he think I'm too into him, is there anyway I can make missing him easier? Does anyone have any views on my situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 A long distance love affair. Normally its bound to fail but with communication the world gets smaller.I just don't know what to do. Shall I tell him how much I miss him? Sending text messages wont hurt a bit. But dont demand a reply every now and then. E-mails, YM and web cams could also do the trick. A phone call if affordable will be nice. Hallmark greeting cards would be romantic. People dont fill out cards anymore but its something a man could hold on to like a ring.Or will he think I'm too into him, is there anyway I can make missing him easier? Its a given that he will think that you are on to him but hey at least you are giving him a sign than keep him guessing. Working and answering like an agony aunt will keep your mind from missing him. Why do you think I am doing this right now? I am not an agony aunt, there should be a separate category suffering uncle or something like that.Does anyone have any views on my situation?Believe me if your romance is written in the stars, you are destined for each other. Like a song by David Pomeranz,Too many billion peopleRunning around the planetWhat is the chance in heavenThat you'd find your way to meTell me what is this sweet sensationIt's a miracle that's happenedThough I searched for an explanationOnly one thing it could beThat I was born for youIt was written in the starsYes I was born for youAnd the choice was never oursIt's as if the powers of the universeConspired to make you mineAnd till the day I dieI blessed the day that I was born for youToo many foolish peopleTrying to come between usNone of them seems to matterWhen I looked into your eyesNow I know why I belong hereIn your arms I found the answerSomehow nothing would seemed so wrong hereIf they'd only realizedThat I was born for youAnd that you were born for meAnd in this random worldThis was clearly meant to beWhat we have the worldCould never understandOr ever take awayAnd till the day I dieI blessed the day that I was born for youWhat we have the worldCould never understandOr ever take awayAnd as the years go byUntil the day I dieI blessed the day that I was born for you
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