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Should I tell him how much I miss him?

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Question - (3 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently I got back from staying with a friend who I really like, when we're together we act like we're a couple, hug, kiss and hold hands. Although we aren't together at the moment as I'm scared to ask him as we currently live nearly 3 hours away by car and we don't see each other often.

I had such a lovely time, I'd been counting down the days for so long, the days I was with him went so quick and before I knew it I was home again. When I got back I cried, just because I didn't want to be home, I wanted to be back there with him.

Now I really miss him, I just keep thinking about him, thinking about the days I was up there, what we did, the laughs we had, just everything. Now all I want to do is see him, or talk to him. Now all I want to do is to go back and be in his arms again, but I know I can't. I don't think I'm seeing him again for another 3 months. All I keep thinking is "Aww, I was with him 5 days ago" "The other day at this time we were at the resturant" etc. I'm getting really down about it, and really upset cause I miss him.

I just don't know what to do. Shall I tell him how much I miss him? Or will he think I'm too into him, is there anyway I can make missing him easier? Does anyone have any views on my situation?

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A male reader, NITRAM BLUE Philippines +, writes (3 January 2009):

NITRAM BLUE agony auntA long distance love affair. Normally its bound to fail but with communication the world gets smaller.

I just don't know what to do. Shall I tell him how much I miss him?

Sending text messages wont hurt a bit. But dont demand a reply every now and then. E-mails, YM and web cams could also do the trick. A phone call if affordable will be nice. Hallmark greeting cards would be romantic. People dont fill out cards anymore but its something a man could hold on to like a ring.

Or will he think I'm too into him, is there anyway I can make missing him easier?

Its a given that he will think that you are on to him but hey at least you are giving him a sign than keep him guessing. Working and answering like an agony aunt will keep your mind from missing him. Why do you think I am doing this right now? I am not an agony aunt, there should be a separate category suffering uncle or something like that.

Does anyone have any views on my situation?

Believe me if your romance is written in the stars, you are destined for each other. Like a song by David Pomeranz,

Too many billion people

Running around the planet

What is the chance in heaven

That you'd find your way to me

Tell me what is this sweet sensation

It's a miracle that's happened

Though I searched for an explanation

Only one thing it could be

That I was born for you

It was written in the stars

Yes I was born for you

And the choice was never ours

It's as if the powers of the universe

Conspired to make you mine

And till the day I die

I blessed the day that I was born for you

Too many foolish people

Trying to come between us

None of them seems to matter

When I looked into your eyes

Now I know why I belong here

In your arms I found the answer

Somehow nothing would seemed so wrong here

If they'd only realized

That I was born for you

And that you were born for me

And in this random world

This was clearly meant to be

What we have the world

Could never understand

Or ever take away

And till the day I die

I blessed the day that I was born for you

What we have the world

Could never understand

Or ever take away

And as the years go by

Until the day I die

I blessed the day that I was born for you

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