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writes:Background Info:A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at me and then walk away. He also comes up to me and makes a comment and then says I love you really and then hug me. Anyways I went to a party and my close friend passed out and I got upset and the same lad hugged me and wouldn't let anyone else look after me. We never parted from each other for around 40 mins. Everyone came in and looked at us, he didn't pull away he held me tight. Then everyone cleared and his friend came in and asked if he'd got tapped into me yet, he wispered ’shut the fcuk up’ but the tone in his voice made it sound like his mate wasn't supposed to say anything. He stroked my hair, and put his hands on my waist and bottom, he also held my hand and kept brushing past my lips he also pecked me, he sat himself on the counter and pulled me towards him, thing is he knew I had a bf and knew I was planning to dump him. Then I got into a friend's car and my friend asked me what was going on, I said nothing, and she said that me and him looked like a couple.Do you think he took advantage of the situation, or he genuinely likes me?xx
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 Seems odd. Go with your gut. Honestly you shouldn't cuddle and snuggle with someone who isn't your boyfriend. Dump your boyfriend before you move on. You didn't HAVE to let him sit and hold you , you know... Even your friends thought it was odd.
If you like him as a person, take you time getting to know him properly. Don't rush it.
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reader, dasonras +, writes (3 January 2009):
Without being there it is tough to say.
What I can say is that if you have the slightest feeling that he had taken advantage of you/your situation, that I'd trust those instincts.
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY +, writes (3 January 2009):
 its a weird one, maybe he does like you and he mates were winding him up or maybe he was trying to get you alone to have sex with you??????? see what happens, take it slow but please dont be jumping into bed with him.
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