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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: HiI really want to know whether this guy likes me.Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision.He would pass by my class with a smile to look at me.BUT I would never react. Never shared it with anybody. Cause I was confused. This all took place for a month. One day he was following me. I just gave him a serious look. From then onwards he has began to ignore me.After some weeks i did ask him his name. One fine day i asked him to be my friend. That day he was very serious. The previous day he was happy when I said Hi!! To him. After I spoke to him. He agreed with my friendship. I expected him to talk to me the next day. But he didn’t turn up. Well I understood he was not interested. I would sometimes find him looking at me from a distance. I think he even went and told his friends. So 2 of them always look at me. Plzzz note this is happening for a year now. Anyways I too ignored him not wanting to be in someone’s personal Space. It really did hurt. After some weeks while I was having my religious class. This guy passed by my class looking at me. As soon as I looked at him. He gave me a Bright smile along with a funny eyebrow expression. From then onwards this guy would come close to him. He even once brushed against me. He would follow me. Every now an then, he would pass by my class to look at me. But whenever I would catch him he would immediately look away. This went on and on. But he never makes an attempt to talk to me. I too never showed him any interest neither would smile when he would look. Cause I was frustrated. Now a days all he does is looking at me sometimes. Passing by my class to see me. Can you plzzz help me?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Try to talk to him again, if you can. Be upbeat and cordial. If he doesn't talk to you, or continues to ignore you, just accept that he's not interested. It happens. It's not nice, it doesn't feel good, but it happens.
You could say something like, "I see we're often in the same place! How is school for you today?"
Good luck!
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