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male
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30-35,
*ordan L. Davis
writes: Hi, I'm 17 and I recently had questions about phone sex. As you know, my girlfriend had given me a chance after having phone sex with another girl. I've stopped doing it and looked up stuff to just make sure if I don't know any other reasons I did it but me and her are talking tomorrow, and I'm just wondering how to gain her trust back and her family's trust back over time? I want to show that I'm for real, that I'm not playing games or getting back at her for when she hurt me a few times. I wanna show her that I can be a good man and hopefully be the man of her dreams one day. How do I go about showing her that I can be faithful and loving?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): The key is to never give up! If you really lover her persevere to win her back! Show her that youre willing to sacrifice anything to be with her. Sooner or later she'll come around and see how much you really care for her. Call her, writer her letters, even take her to places she loves. It really shows that youre not thinking about yourself and youre putting someone elses needs before yours. Honestly, that is the most attractive thing, when youre willing to sacrifice anything for her! Cut all ties with friends that you feel are bad influences esp. other girls. You need to focus on strengthening your relationship with your girlfriend. Trust is not something that you can just gain back also. It is something that is built and grows over a long period of time. You can't expect her to trust you asap. Trust is a gift that you recieve for being honest and open with one another. I believe in you! Just don't argue because you made a mistake. Make sure and let her speak when she needs to. Let her pour her heart out to you! Be there for her because relationships grow sour at times. its you responsibility to keep it alive and going strong!Good luck!!
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