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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How to bag him for myself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - If I really like someone and that guy, I'm really close to but he doesn't want to be in a relationship now... what shall I do to get his heart because it is really hard for me to forget about him. He is exactly my type of guy and I really adore him ...

Should I keep me mouth shut and hope for it all to fall in me favour?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Me best mate is a woman. I've been in love with her since Year 9. She is getting married in six months. She frequently tells me she's getting cold feet about it all and I try to reassure her that she picked the right guy. But in my heart, I know I ...

He had sex, said he loved me but now says we shouldn't be together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i met a guy in may 07 whom i work with. he is muslim and very religious. we were instantly attracted to each other and started to spend alot of time together. one thing led to another and we had sex. things changed as this was wrong in his bel...

I care about him too much to be just a "hang out partner"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - So. I have a friend I've known since middle school and we have been hanging out together alot. I've expressed an interest in him, and he kind of backed away for a while. When I started kinda ignoring him he asked me out on a date and since then ...

My boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend's best friend is unconsciously trying to sabotage our relationship! His best friend is a girl and anyone with working eyes can see she has a thing for him. My boyfriend insists they are just friends, though. But when he says ...

He's so hot he could get any girl he wants. Is he interested in me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - How would I know if he likes me! I'm in matrick, almost 18, he is 25 and my youth leader. He is so nice, but he is nice to everybody, he is supposed to be. I like talking to him, he makes me smile and laugh. At church he he always says hello and ...

How can I start talking to her without looking like an idiot?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hey anyone and everyone :P Basically my situation here is that there is a girl on my bus to college in the mornings who I really can't stop thinking about but we have never said a word to each other and I'm not the most confident of people, rathe...

I like him but I get the sense he can't be bothered. Do I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I've started talking to a guy lately, we have known each other for three years through friends but we have never really talked properly. He texted me a lot for a few days but then started to lose interest, I texted him but I could tell he couldn't...

I text this guy when I am drunk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - help me! i cant help but text this guy when im drunk (not saying anything bad tho) sometimes he texts me back..and we talk.. i texted him last night..saying something unnecessary ..something i didnt need to say hasnt texted back going to se...

I need to get over him but something keeps pulling me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - okay this is kinda long but I'm just desperate for answers. okay there's this guy that I liked since last May and before I started liking him, he would always stare at me, whenever I would pass by him, he wouldn't look at me until I turn around to ...

Am I just a rebound for when his relationships end?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - ive been friends with a guy for 8 years now. we've always got along well and flirted a little. when his 1st relationship ended 5 years ago we slept together but it went no further. then we had a couple of dates 2 years back but things got confusing. ...

She's beautiful, and perfect for me... I think she's falling in love, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - i have a best girl friend. i fell in love with the wrong person i got really hurt and she was always there to cheer me up, make me laugh, distract me from things etc. so far shes done a great job. when im with her i forget about every problem i have ...

She likes me and my best friend..what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Ok I have a question. I just recently told this girl I like that... Well I like her. She also has admitted that she has feelings for me.but the problem is she also likes my best friend. My best friend has been having bad luck with girls recently. He ...

He picks on me alot...does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm in 8th grade and this guy always picks on me a lot. and he is the type of guy who plays sports and has lots of friends,and is always playing around with girls but hasn't kissed them. and i have 4 classes with him.(including lunch). And after ...

I like her but shes the best friend of one of my mates

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - There is this girl in my class who is really good looking, not quite the smartest but i still really like her and when we do hang out we get along. There are two problems with me liking her 1. i can't talk to her properly as i get embaressed and 2. ...

Should I ask him or just leave it...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but ...

I'm bi, and want to be with my friend "straight" friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm bisexual, and my friend knows but she thought she was bi-curious but now she says she's straight, and we play around like stare into eachother eyes and lay in bed together but I try not to touch her sexually. Thing is I'm sexually attracted to ...

Why is it that I have to suffer like this? It hurts not feeling good enough for her. What's wrong with me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I never realized how much power a single girl can hold over me. I fell very hard for a girl back in 2004, and to date, I cannot get her out of my mind. She's everything a guy would want: absolute natural beauty, intellect, shy personality. What's ...

Crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I have a crush on one of the popular kids ( to be expeded) we use to be friends and then he found out . now he won't talk to me my friends ask him out for me but he yells no please help...

I'm being played for a fool and I don't know what to do!

This question has 116 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO....I'M BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL. THIS IS A LONG STORY - WARNING - PLEASE READ IF YOU CAN forgive me for rambling before I start, I am at a loss what to do with this and I really need your advice To cut a long story short...

Is he just afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - He says he loves me in many ways. We were together for 8 months and broke up for 2 months. We got back together and it was great. But then there was some jealousy on his part due to an older man saying hello who knew both of us he said I should h...

Why are my ex and his friends accusing me of these weird things?

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27 February 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of nearly 2 years at the beginning of this year, as our relationship has not been good since I started university in October, and we had serious trust issues. Unfortunately things did not end that well between us and we ...

Should I snitch on my pot smoking friend??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Okay, so I'm on the bus and my friend Dylan and my enemy Joe were talkin. So, my friend David something and he's like wow dude why'd you take that to school and I'm like you guys have weed or something sarcasticly and they just looked guilty I...

Should I give the green light to my friend to have sex with my mom?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hello… My friend wants to have sex with my mum. They are both single. i care for them both and want them to be happy. I know my mum thinks my friend is cute. My friend said that he has liked her since we both were in high school. She is in her 4...

How do I explain to my friend's nieces that she killed herself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My best friend of 5 years committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I understand why she did it, she had alot of trouble in her life, and was in every sense of the word an orphan. The only family she had left was her nieces, who were put into foster care ...

How can I get my colleagues to mind their own business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hi me and my wife both work at the same office but in different departments, my wife is senior to me and have had a one night stand with my boss and now she is pregnant with his baby. My boss has made a MMS of him and her and is circulating the same ...

I think I can get over him... but I can't get over what happend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - So... I'll try to make this the abridged version. When I was 15, I met a boy. We had an instant connection and fell in love. He was the love of my life. I was convinced, as most young people are, that this love was eternal. We were so happy fo...

I really dig my friends younger sister, go for it or...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, heres the deal... My friend (who is a girl by the way) has a 16 year old sister and I am 19. I like her and she seems to like me but I've been a bit hesitant so go too far with it because I'm not sure how my my friend (her older sister) would re...

I have strong feelings for my friend who does not love her husband, should I confess how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I am very much in love with a woman who is also one of my best friends, she is also married. Her marriage isn't a good one, and she has talked to me a lot about being afraid to leave her husband because of being alone, because of her kids, and other ...

Is she the one he subconsciously wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has a very close female friend and perhaps I'm just reading into it too much but it seems to me that she's the girlfriend he's never had. When she walks into the room, he lights up and shouts out her nickname. When he talks to her, he's ...

Friend using my ideas to do well in another subject!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - i have recently found out that a close friend of mine has been going through my work with the intention of using my ideas to do well in another subject. I am in my final year of school so this is a big issue as it is considered my final work for ...

I need your help! How do I get closer to him and show him that I'm the one he needs exclusively???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy for a while. He's really well known in my area and it's almost a privilege to be able to associate oneself with him. a few weeks ago, I started hanging out with him and found him to be really easy going and fun to hang ...

How do I tell him without sounding like I want to be taken out all the time and not have to pay?!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this guy a little over a month now. We see each other on weekends. Every now and then he says, 'so where are you taking me?' I drive. Then he said, 'so you're inviting me.' Meaning I'm paying! I only paid twice for d...

Tongue tied and terrified of what I'll say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I'm in love but how can I know without kissing him? He asked me but I was so shocked I was speachless but I took to long so he walked away I wanted to but haven't ever kissed a boy befor (accept spin the bottle but that don't count) and he hasn't ...

I'm thinking about this old friend far more than I should... Advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfried for five years and I recently came in contact with an old friend who we used to hang out as friends with a group of people on the weekends but now after a few weeks I've been thinking about her non stop I want to tell ...

No proof of cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I have been cheated on multiple times, and emotionally rejected. My best friend went out with my ex basically. And that relationship only lasted 4 years then broke up. Now that I am in a new relationship of 6 years now, I always have a gut feeling ...

Do men upper 50s and older still think about sex often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Would men in their upper 50s and older still be into sex (think about sex often, masturbate, visualize having sex, etc.)? Let me explain - this guy and I have known each other for about four or five years; he'll turn 60 next month and I'm 25. We g...

How to ask about second date without being pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I went to the cinema with this guy last Monday, we had a great time. He text me the same night saying how good it was and suggested going out again. i text back agreeing. The next day he seemed less flirty online and I mentioned about going out ...

Flakey, selfish friends. What should I do about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I have this friend. Who I've known for 5 years. He has a great, charming personality and -generally - is a lot of fun. But he also has another side to his character I can't understand. He will do things like invite you to a party with all people he ...

Did I do the right thing? And will he come back???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok so I've known this guy for about year, everything was good. In the beginning he was like, he wasn't looking for a relationship ( not ready/stable I guess) and I was like "whatever" on the whole thing. If I got into one, I got into one, but I ...

My best friend is going out with the guy I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - So I've liked this guy for about 3 years, but I've never had the courage to do anything about it because I just get tongue-tied around him and it wasn't like he liked me anyway. A few weeks ago he became good friends with one of my best friends ...

Try again? Or lost cause?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Okay there is this woman I care for, I have know here for eleven or twelve years, since we was kids. Now she is grown up and has one child, and getting ready to have another. She has told me that the relationship she is now is over but she cannot ...

Size and performance anxiety during sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I have had substantial anxiety developing related to my marriage and sex. I was a little bit anxious when we were first married because we did not have sex with each other until we were married. I was rather anxious over size and performance, ...

Did I make a mistake by confronting the woman I suspect had an affair with my hubby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok, a few years ago I think my husband had a affair with his cousin's wife who is also my best friend. I never caught them in the act but my instinct tells me something was going on. Signs after signs like she knew things about him before I did or ...

Girlfriend at sleepover,may be drinking

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are 16 and have been going out for just under a year now, we love eachother to bits, had our first time together etc, i couldn't imagine my world without her at the moment. Tody she told me she's going to a sleepover at her ...

I'm losing feelings for my g/f and interested in my friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - I've been with my current girl friend for four years, mostly happy times. Lately, however, we seem to get into more arguments and almost every time we do she immediately jumps to the "should we break up" phrase as a solution. I know this seems ...

I'm sick of being a baby sitter to her! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ever since kindergarten, I've been going to school with this girl named Karen*. Throughout elementary school, I just kind of had the whole little play-together-on-the- playground-from-time-to-time kind of r...

Your opinions needed here! Does he like me as a friend or more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - This guy I’ve known for about five years (he’s actually a former college prof of mine; he is not married). We’ve really kept in touch since I’ve graduated, emailing and sometimes talking on the phone. He has been flirting with me since last summe...

How can I get my friends to stop talking about my ex in front of H?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Hi, well I'm having girl problems again like always. My girlfriend (ex now) and I broke up because she said she liked someone else and I appreciated that she told me instead of keeping it a secret and I accepted the fact that she left but I really ...

I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. I need to get my mind off him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved ...