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I need your help! How do I get closer to him and show him that I'm the one he needs exclusively???

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Question - (27 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've had a crush on this guy for a while. He's really well known in my area and it's almost a privilege to be able to associate oneself with him.

a few weeks ago, I started hanging out with him and found him to be really easy going and fun to hang out with. the problem is, he's really a ladies man and hooks up with a lot of girls.

the third time we hung out, we were sitting on his couch watching a movie. he said to me, "I hope this doesn't make things awkward.." and took my face and kissed me.

I kissed back and things progressed quickly, but we didn't go all the way. I had a really nice night and he drove me home and kissed me goodnight.

we hooked up a second time after that. I'm starting to get attached, but he already made it clear to me that he's not into clingy girls. he openly talks to me about some of his other hook ups, so I know it's not exclusive or anything. I've hooked up with other guys myself, so I'm not really upset, just a little jealous.

The only other girl I know he's hooking up with right now isn't as pretty as me and has a lot less to offer.

How do I get closer to him and show him that I'm the one he needs exclusively?

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A male reader, cupids_friend United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

Okay I am 20 years old and I hope this helps first off. Try and see if their is any way that to get him to come to you try and tease him if you can I really hope this works if not please let me know I am going to watch this for a while message me if you need

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A male reader, cupids_friend United States +, writes (27 February 2009):

Okay I am 20 years old and I hope this helps first off. Try and see if their is any way that to get him to come to you try and tease him if you can I really hope this works if not please let me know I am going to watch this for a while message me if you need

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