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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I have a dilemma... Uh oh!

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8 February 2009 (M) - I'm going to try and make this as short as possible. I have known this girl for about three years now. I first met her through a party at her mom's house, we instantly became great friends. We "did it" quite a few times back in that time. ...

She's not sure if she wants to be in a relationship right now...

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8 February 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 18 so me and my partner have been jokingly playing around about sex, although I don't know if she's kidding or serious, I have never actually had sex before, but I know I do actually love her and she does as well the only thing is right now ...

To invite or not to invite!

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8 February 2009 (F) - A person who I thought was a pretty good friend of mine had a birthday party recently, and I was offended because I was not invited. She admitted to me that she did not plan the party --it was a surprise!! I still felt that her husband, who I ...

How do I help my friend get some bottle?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My friend's fallen in love with a sixth former (we're both in year 9) but he's leaving next year and she's really depressed! I don't know how to convince her to do something about it. Either tell him or forget him... basically I just want some ...

Do you think this shy guy will make a move?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I'm going after a shy guy. At first when I heard he liked me I was like no but now I hope he does eventually ask me out. I like him but if he doesn't ask me then I might move on to others who want me. My birthdays coming up so I hope he does ...

My secret!

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8 February 2009 (M) - Okay this ones a complicated one. Basically a year and a half ago I started teaching my best friend's girlfriend the drums. We both had feelings for each other (you know when you can just tell they like you and vis versa)and eventually we ended up...

I do not want to just throw it all away for something he has pretended and lied to me about

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8 February 2009 (F) - I have a huge problem. I met this wonderful guy on the internet in January of 2008. I was getting ready to move to Europe and he was from the UK. We were just friends and took time to get to know each other to see if things would work out that way ...

Set up on a date and don't want to go!

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8 February 2009 (F) - My friend is having people round next weekend but it's going to be her, her boyfriend, another couple, this guy and me. I'm not into this guy at all and I feel like it's really cringey and 'set-up' so I don't want to go, but she knew when she asked ...

Is he ever going to like me?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Me and my best friend have been friends for a while. i started liking him and i told him i did. he said he doesnt see me as a girlfriend but as a best friend nothing more.so two days ago i told him i dont like him anymore even though im still in ...

Can guys and girls be just friends?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, i was just wondering, can girls and guys just be friends??? i kind of have this dude friend who's best friend went out with me. his friends won't accuse us as dating or something because of the way i broke up with his best friend, ...

What can I do so my holiday isn't ruined

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8 February 2009 (F) - A couple of months ago I was getting on with my friend really well, we always had a laugh together and had great fun on the weekends, I even invited her on a holiday with me and my family, but now she seems to irritate me all the time, I don't seem ...

What could his behavior mean? Could he like me?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I am 14. A boy that i fancy used to talk to me lots and always got excited if i was going to see him soon, and on msn he always started convosations, wanted me to go on webcam and he would go on webcam, i loved it. Recently he hasn't been doin...

How do I tell my friend its a "girl's weekend" and boys are not welcome?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My best friend is constantly with her boyfriend,they've been going out for just inder two years and never seem to be apart, obviously i'm happy for them but it's so annoying on the weekends she wont ever do anything with the girls unless he's ...

Why does he insist on talking to his bf who doesn't even care about him?

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8 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half has been talking to his best friend. He's been doing this behind my back, I'm pissed about it. My boyfriend's best friend and also his twin brother were doing methamphetamine's on my boyfriend's father's front po...

I don't like his ex in the picture, although he says they are only friends. Am I unreasonable?

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8 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, feeling confused at the moment and would love some friendly advice. its a bit complicated but ill try to explain. I met my current partner on a dating site as he is in the forces. We live 2 hours drive apart. We met last july and have...

If he wants me as he says then why does he not take me out?

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8 February 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i have a problem. im 18 years old and in college. i have alot of fun and love my life. i have known robert for three years now. for the first two years we were very good friends and very close. we talked for hours a week and hung out ...

How do I either get her to be my friend or just stop worrying about her?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I have a problem with an ex of mine. For four years me and an ex have been the best friends(that isn't to say that our relationship wasn't rocky, in fact it was extrememly rocky. But we were still best friends.) A little while ago we were talking ...

All I want to do is to hide in my bed all day

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8 February 2009 (F) - Lately I have begun to feel very low and isolated. Im usually a chatty, active 25 year old but over the last few weeks I have had such a horrible feeling inside me it wont go away. I feel cut off from my friends and sad that I havnt got anything ...

Why did he go from being so sweet that night to giving me this kind of response?

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8 February 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with this guy since we were six and we're now eighteen. Just before December he told me that he has liked me since we were 13 and what surpirsed me the most is that I realised that I liked him too, so now we're going out. ...

Am I not being flirtatious enough? How can I tell? Should I just have an open talk with him about our relationship?

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8 February 2009 (M) - I am a gay male, and I am really confused about if a guy wants to just remain friends with me or have a romantic relationship. I will call him Jon. We became friends about a year ago. I came on pretty strong when we first met. I was very ...

Can my married best friend and I be FWB??

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8 February 2009 (M) - OK, First I think its necessary to provide abit of a back ground to this question..... I've been good mates with this guy for about 5 years and we would do anything for each other whenever possible (That's what mates are for,right?) . He's 25 ...

My best friends b/f called and asked if I'd get together with him!

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8 February 2009 (F) - The boyfriend of my best friend called me last night and confided that he's attracted to me and asked if there was a chance that he and I could get together...I've only met him in person once and talked to him once on the phone (with my friend's ...

How can I cheer up my man-hating friend on V-Day?

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8 February 2009 (M) - i want to cheer up my friend who thinks all guys are evil. I've been there for her, and she just gets hurt by her bf's. She is now single, Valentines day coming up and i just want to make it special for her. What could i get her? I also need to ...

How do I invite her to my house?

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8 February 2009 (M) - a friend of mine keeps askin me to "not forget to invite her to my place". Its 3rd time now, few other hints i got too. I want to invite her round but i don't know how to ask. Every reason just sounds weird. Any suggestions?...

My feelings for my best friend are ruining our friendship

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8 February 2009 (F) - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-i-mistook-loving-her-for-just.html This situation is somewhat similar to mine, except in my situation, I am in fact the girl who has fallen for the other, if that makes sense. When I read the reply, I nea...