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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He's giving me confusing signals. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I knew this guy about half a year ago from some classes we've been taking and even right from the beginning he kept trying to ask me out but I kept rejecting him. I eventually went out with him a couple of times and then once we went over to his ...

He wants to be Friends with Benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants to just date or just not be boyfriend girlfriend title but still wants sex. That went on for about a week and then he sent me an article from this site "Is my girlfriend needy or is it just me?" and says he wants space. Can ...

Falling for my best friend who I might never see again... should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - I think I am falling for my male best friend.I've known him since the 3rd grade and we've gotten along great.The problem is I don't know if I should tell him how I feel.I don't want to ruin our friendship.My other best friend says that in 2nd ...

Do I let them be happy together or what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I would like to tell you the whole story and maybe you could understand better but it's way too long and you'll propably get bored but heres the basics : -Meet boy -Start dating boy -Loose virginity to boy -Two weeks later we brake up -I try e...

Is it possible that he likes me more than just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - what am i supposed to do. theres this boy. and hes like my best friend. we basically tell eachother everything. he was there for me when no1 else was. buht like now he flirts with me alot. hes always touching me. like brushing my hand or sholder or ...

One of my best friends is ignoring me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Help me!! One of my best friends at high school has been ignoring me on msn. Yesterday i phoned her to wish her good luck with her exam and spoke to her briefly on msn after she finished it. Suddenly today she wont say a thing to me. She was left a ...

My best friend bragged about being asked out my the boy I like, is she a true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) - Hey My best friend has betrayed me. she kinda knew that i liked this lad. she went to ____ last night a massive party for teens. he was there. so when she got home she started bragging about him, trying to make me jealous. he asked her to get off ...

I love my mate but he's not gay. How do I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - What if you like someone (a str8 friend) but you know he will never like you back? (he knows you're gay) Will you continue your feelings for him? How can you possibly move on? What are the steps to take him out of your everyday system!...

I don't want to ruin our friendship with my feelings for him-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Well, I'm a tomboy, crazy, adventerous, deadly tomboy. For the longest time, I've had guy friends. now I do have girls that are friends but then one started saying that one would look good with me. That got me thinking,'Yea right,' Hes pretty b...

Do you think there is something wrong if a guy asks for sex all the time even though you told him that you were only interested in friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I know i prolly shouldnt of done this but I did it. Anyway I met this nice guy in school and we became friends. I told him I was not interested in a relationship right now cause I am so busy with school and work. He was fine with that ...

It is so hard to be just his friend with benefits because I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I fell in love with my best friend brother. We started out as friends and eventaully became lovers. As a result, feeling got involve, mainly mines. I wanted to take our relationship to the next level. as for him, he was not ready to commit. ...

She's going out with my mate but I still like her. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - hi i need some advice i still like this girl BUT me and this girl used to go out last november we did not know each other much and still dont and that is why we broke up, 4 days later she is going out with my friend and has been going out wi...

Falling for someone else..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - 4 and a 1/2 years ago we moved house and I was very happy. When we met the neighbours I thought nothing of it. Then one day the neighbour came round to fix the fence. I was standing in the kitchen and turned around and he was staring in the ...

I want closure on this! He's making me out to be the bad guy to mutual friends. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue that has been hanging over me for a while. Sorry it's so longwinded but I feel I have to tell the whole story, and if someone would take the time to read the whole story and help, I ...

I can't stand to see him any more, but our daughters are good friends. Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I split some months ago, after a 2 yr relatyionship from a guy. We tried staying mates because our children got on well. My daughter is a bit of a loner, but she gelled real well with his daughter of the same age. They are 11. But recently things ...

He seems to have vanished, we go to the same college and have been getting to know each other. What's happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - A guy from my college started contacting me on Facebook a few weeks ago, telling me how much he liked me/'missed' talking to me. I replied after a while and we started to see other around at college. He would tell me some very personal stuff and ...

I'm in love with a mature lady, the problem is that my classmates are making jokes about me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Dear agony aunt, I´ve got a really big problem. I´m in love with a mautre lady. The problem is that my classmates know it and they make jokes about me. The girls in my class laugh and that makes me angry!! Why cant people leave me alone. I just wa...

When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...

He told me he can't trust me because I didn't tell him what friends and family were saying about him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years, my boyfriends friends and family have been saying awful things about him to me. he lost his job he has children and they call him worthless. I didn't tell him and we are supposed to be moving ...

My best friend likes a girl and I'm playing cupid to find out if she also nurtures feelings for him. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - hey, ok my mate(a lad) really likes this girl he's at college with. She seems like nice girl, i've spoke to her on the odd occasion but now we've started talking more i've got her msn. Thing is we are becoming beter friends and talking more so what ...

We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get ...

What is wrong with my so called friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi i would appreciate any advice you all can give me. I have this friend, she had been going through a hard time in that she separated and i was there for her when she needed me we worked in the same company and go on very well (or so i though)...

I just found out about my best friend indiscretion and I do not know if I should get angry at her or simply just ignore it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (?) - My best friend complains that i dont tell her things. She wonders why ! I have just found out that something that i did tell her , she went back and told another person what i said. and she wonders why i dont tell her things. I'm so annoyed . I dont ...

After realising my foolish and impulsive behaviour towards my ex, I changed and repented completely, but he does not want to retie the string... what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...

I'm crazy about him but he likes another girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - lately i've been crazy about this guy that i really liked but seems like he doesnt like me that way anymore. we stopped talking like he used. and he started hangin out with other girls. so im guessin that im just hurtin myself. but my feelings are ...

I want her so bad but don't want our friendship to end!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6040 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Im a male and have a good freindship with a girl that I find good looking and I was to do her.she flirts with me and I with her. I want to do her so bad I get hard almost everytime I see her I jacked off thinking of her about 2 or 3 time. I want to ...

How do I know if he's serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - what if this boy asked you out but you dont know if its serious and you told two of your friends and you dont know if he is still going out with this girl and your afraid that your not going out with him and his girlfriend might geet mad...

I love her but my friends think she is ugly, shall I go out with her or leave it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I love a girl and im 90% sure she fancies me. All my friends are friends with her but they think she is ugly. If i go out with her they will probably take the piss. Shall I go out with her or leave it?...

Am I throwing away a friendship to prove a lie?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - I dont know what to do ! im feeling pretty low right now. I feel like im about to lose something i could of had, because of my friends. me and my friend wre talking in a conversation on msn. She thought i liked this boy that i have been talking ...

I'm scared this guy will go to the prom with this other girl! Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I like this boy. Thats the basic! me and him have known each other since he was born, we've been through school togther as friends and now i like him more. We've been talking more and some of my friends suggested he liked me, but i saw him the ot...

Argued with my best mate about liking someone, is it unfair on this person not to talk to him to prove a point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) - im so fed up ! i have just sort of had an arguement with my best mate. she accused me of liking someone when i dont. now i sed tht i aint gunna even talk to the person in question because they think i like him. i know this is unfair on the person b...

How can I tell him I'm not interested without damaging our friendship or moving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I recently moved in with a good friend of mine. I am obviously a girl and he is a guy. We both work the same schedule and can provide for ourselves just fine. The problem is with our relationship. We are like best friends. We have perfect honesty ...

I didn't want him to tell anybody we'd had sex, but he told his friend. I told mine, so am I just as bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - My partner and i had sex but as i am 2 years younger i do not want him to tell anybody, but he doesnt mind if i tell people. He went against my will and told his friend. but i told mine so does this make me as bad. He didnt tell me he had told his ...

Confused by my friend and my feelings about this incident...what should I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi i have a problem and i am hopin u can help me so here it goes rite i ave a friend who is so kind to me and she is always there and that and we have sleepovers and stuff and she is pretty and i think i fancy her a bit but not that much. and b...

What should I do? One of my friends is trying to embarass me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - dear cupid, ive been seeing a boy and one of my friends has found out about it and has taken it upon herself to tell everyone and humiliate me, when im around her she says stuff and takes the piss about it to impress other people in my group and if ...

All my friends have turned against me, and my problems just keep getting bigger. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - I am 15 years old, and i have a very big problem. For tthe past 3 or so years, i have had huge crushes on other boys from my year even when i had a girlfriend. It wasn't so much of a problem, as i kept it to myself all the time. This wasn't a ...

Why do we find it so hard to move on from exes even after we have ended it ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Why is it we find it so hard to move on after ending a relationship, even though we know they aren't the right person for you so you call a halt to it. I'm curious, as i ended a rollercoaster relationship of a yr and a half back in january. I dont r...

Any tips on losing my virginity with a close friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi I'm nearly 18 and single. I'm still a virgin. I have this friend who I'm quite close to, she is same age. We always up for trying something fun. Whenever we drink we have good laugh. I think we now want to try sex. There's a few things though ...

I really like this guy in school and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - dear cupid I like this guy at my school but he has a girlfriend and he flirts with me, we hang around with each other but when he's with his girlfriend he turns to me and smiles, how do I know if he likes me the same way as I like him. p.s his...

We're too different but he wants more than friends. drugs, smokes and drinks at 15.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I am 15 and went on holiday a couple of weeks ago for 4 days, whilst away I met a boy who was also 15 and lives 10 minutes away from me. We both hit it off and spent the last night just cuddling etc. However I am a total good girl, never smok...

I like this one guy and I think he likes me, but his friend also likes me and I don't want to ruin their friendship. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I like this one guy and I think he likes me. The only thing is his friend likes me and I don't want to ruin thier friendship cause of me. I'm going to ask the guy I like out and I think he will say yes. What I'm trying to get at is do ...

My best friend doesn't seem to care about me anymore... I can't just walk away!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - me and my best friend/ex used 2 be close ..we used 2 spend everyday together until he met this lad.. who edged his way in and turned him against me..well made him take pictures of me and him off his myspace.. mentally tells him to stop seeing me. ...

She wants more experience, she's only 15 and isn't ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life! But it's tearing me apart...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Me and my best friend started dating about a year and a half ago. Recently, she broke up with me because she told me that she isnt ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life. She wants more exprience with boys. I agreed because i want to ...

Worried about this girl and my boyfriend... am I right to be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone ok now i might just b goin crazy or im reacting the way i should! my boyfriend is going out 2nite 2 watch hockey with a bunch of his friends he couldnt find a ride(his car is crap) so he resulted in calling one of my friends well ...

I have a friend that takes things as her own ideas/opinions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I started drawing and was in this art class and she was admiring my drawings. Soon after she started painting. I was not angry at this because I felt that it was something we could enjoy together. Soon after we started painting on the walls in ...

We kinda have something but my friend likes him and doesn't know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hello everyone :D k anyways, there's this guy. let's call him joe. he really likes me. he's liked me for a while and we kinda have something i guess, but we're like brother and sister. it's weird i know.. like we like each other but we're good ...

I'm feeling bad about the huge fight with my best friend. What should I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Okay, so me and my best friend got into a huge fight last friday. She was making me look like an idiot in school to make herself look better around this guy that were both talk to. I got mad and told her sister who had picked up the phone that I d...

He keeps looking at me, does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I used to be really good friends with this boy and i really liked him as in more than a friend ( still do). For ages he would look at me and smile at me. I could turn round suddenly to find that he was looking at me. When we went on this trip...

What's keeping me from telling my best friends who I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - Heyy Why can't I tell my BEST friends who i like ? If they are supposed to be my best friends (as i have 2) I should be able to tell them but something holds me back when it comes to it. Do i trust them ? x...

Should I ask my (female) ex back out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 15, and finally accepted I was gay about 18 months ago after a lot of soul-searching. Last July I fell for one of my mates, and managed to get up the confidence to ask her out. She saif she felt the same way, and we sort of persued a secret ...