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writes:hi i need some advice i still like this girl BUT me and this girl used to go out last november we did not know each other much and still dont and that is why we broke up, 4 days later she is going out with my friend and has been going out with him 8 months but i still like her ..please helpalso how can i get to know her better and be a closer friend or best mates ??please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): When somebody says they love you, it may not necessarily mean they feel romantic about you. This girl went out with you, so she must have had some feeling, but obviously not enough to continue going out with you.
She has choosen to be with somebody else, she has been with them for 8 months. That's quiet a long time, so we must assume that she is happy.
Do not waste your time trying to get this girl. She knows how you feel, but she stays with her boyfriend. She dose not love you romantically, she loves you like a friend. You deserve so much more, you deserve to be with somebody who loves you just the way you are. Forget about this girl and find somebody else who suits you better.
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reader, kb123 +, writes (9 June 2008):
kb123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help and by the way she dumped me i did like her when she dumped me she siad "IN A TEXT" i think we should have a break and 5 days later she is going out with 1 of my m8s ....as i siad befor thay have been 2 gether 4 8 months now but i still love her when i talk 2 her on msn she still says stuff like love you loads so i dont know what 2 think help
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008): You had her, you finished with her and now you want her back. She's in a strong relationship (8 months) but you want her to leave her boyfriend, to see if you can get to know her better?
Why would she want to do this? What do you have to offer her that her boyfriend can't?
Getting to know her better is a good start. Friendship is always a good thing, you can never have too many friends. Tell her you like her, you thinks shes funny/intelligent/kind/any of the above. Ask her about her favourite movie/teacher/book/song. Try to keep things light, try to find out if you share any interests together, which will make conversation easier. Don't ell her how you feel yet, she hardly knows you and your feelings may change again.
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