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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Forbidden love category)

Forbidden love: Help and advice

How do I try to overcome these intense feelings of jealousy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Well i'll just get straight to the point. I like this girl and I have done for quite a while now, and she doesn't feel the same way back. Which I'm coping with, not easily but I can deal with it. But the biggest problem at the moment is, if i know ...

The real issues about pupil/teacher relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I have been with dear cupid for a while now, and, i have found that there are quite a few questions about pupil/teacher relationships, I have myself posted a couple. But it never ceases to amaze me. Has anyone got an opinion or story they could ...

Is my sister-in-law teasing me or what???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years now and she has a sister which is a couple years younger than her...I am really not exactly sure what I should do on this situation so I thought I could ask for some advice.... her sister is unma...

I'm in love with my gay friend, but I'm beginning to wonder if he has feelings for me. He acts like he does.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - my best friend told me he was gay when it was too late and i'd already fallen for him. i'm seriously in love with him, and i have told him exactly the way i feel, it didn't effect our friendship and actually brought us closer together. he tells me t...

Despite warning about this lad and knowing that he's no good - I can't stay away from him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - I know I risk sounding naive in this question, but I need some answers really badly. Ok, my problem mainly involves me, my best friend and a boy (I say boy, but he's 18 nearly 19 so this classes him as a man). Im about to turn 16 and have a boy mate ...

My ex boyfriend, now married, tells me he has wanted a divorce for a long time. Should I just avoid him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Let me start by telling a bit of the past. Many years ago, approximately 14 yrs ago I had this boyfriend and we were pretty serious and very close. We dated for almost a year and we broke up because my Mother demanded that we do so and would punish ...

I can't break it off with this MM myself should I call his wife instead to break the tie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a married coworker since March of 2008. We've been together just about every day since. He is so unhappy at home but he won't leave his wife. He is 52 and I'm 26. I'm considering calling his wife so that all ties will be broken ...

Is it wrong to be attracted to my third cousin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem that might sound weird.. I like my third cousin, and she likes me. I've never known her until we met a few months ago, our families don't even really know each other its only that my mother is a family genealogy expert...

I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...

The word 'cousin' is keeping him apart from me, I've never felt love like this before!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I have fallen totally in love with my 1st cousin and he feels the same but he feels he cant move forward with me because of the word cousin,we have always had a special bond between us and have only just recently meet up at a relatives funeral after ...

What should I do about my relationship with my married boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - iam in love with a married turkis man he is great to me and loves me he knows that i dont ave any money and knows that iam a single parent ..and he loves me for who i am hes been the best boyfriend ever ,,he loves me and my daughter to bits ,,iam ...

I'm in love, but he's my best friend and we can NEVER be together. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

28 July 2008 (?) - Im getting deeper and deeper into someone that i can NEVER HAVE. we were friends. then close friends. then we slept together. now we are best friends and we talk to each other on the phone and see each other all the time. but the thing is im in...

I think I'm in love with my step-brother, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - So heres the deal, I think I love my step-brother (I say I think I love him because I'm not 100% sure) We've fooled around before, but now I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried that he'll just think I'm an idiot . . . What shoul...

I simply can't be with my girlfriend, and secretly love her sister. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Hi, This isn't an easy thing, but here it goes. I have been with my girlfriend for a few years now, started in high school. As we've grown and changed, I'm seeing differences that can't be solved between us. Things are slowly, but surel...

Is it wrong for me to go out with my underage girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - ok I have a question concerning me and my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 14. was a big surprise for me when i found out she was 14 when she looks and acts around 16. and I was wondering is it extremely wrong for me to date her? I like her a ...

Tempted by a married man, what should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - Hi Everyone! Any help with this situation would be muchly appreciated! For years I have liked this guy who is 16yrs older than me and married =(, i tried my best to forget about him, but everytime i saw him it was back to square one. One day ...

I have sexual feelings for my cousin, I'm going to tell her how I feel at a movie... How do I ask her to sleep with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - Alright, so here's my problem........I've always had sexual feelings for my second cousin.......I'm 18 and shes 27..........when we were younger, I remember her asking me to kiss her on her mouth, I never thought anything of it then but now I ...

I'm in love with my step brother but our parents are trying to break us up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - ok. well, first off, everyone know that step siblings are NOt blood related. ok. now, im in love with my step brother, and we are planning to go to college together. We only lived in the same house for like, 3 years, so its not like we were rai...

There are three very different people clouding up my love life. I would appreciate some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Hey, this is a long story so I'll try to keep it short. I just graduated high school at the end of May 08. -I was friends with my boyfriend for a year before we started dating. We have been dating for 2 and a half years now. -my high school...

I'm thinking of meeting up with an old flame, but we're both in relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - I have been in contact with an old boyfriend from high school via email and telephone over the last few months and he has made it clear he is interested in me and would like to meet up. i feel the same about him, he is a really sweet guy and i care ...

Should I dump my boyfriend in this complicated teacher/student situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - Hi I am 17 and have been with my boyfriend for a few months. When I originally started to go out with my boyfriend, i had no intention of being with him for this long. In fact, I was drunk when I first got with him, and in a low mood and I int...

I love her but I can't ask her out because she's with my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (M) - Ok, there's this girl. Smart, funny, beautiful, etc etc. And I'm crazy about her. I've asked her out once, but she said no because she was already dating someone, and I didnt know. A few weeks later, she split up with him, and I began to work up the ...

I'm in a relationship but there's this other guy... do you think he's interested in something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5995 days ago

23 July 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship for a long time (many years). But a few years ago I met someone that I like very much and have strong feelings for. He is also in a relationship and lives with his girlfriend for many years. He is sometimes talkative and ...

If you love your teacher should you leave them alone and let them go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - My friend is loving this teacher and i don’t she’s gay but she’s obsessed with her…and the teacher has just left and she’s just depressed and heartbroken.. She’s asking me if you love a teacher should you Let Them go??? Please post your tho...

I'm attracted to my cousin. Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

22 July 2008 (M) - I'm attracted to my cousin. Shes my first cousin through marraige, but I've known her before my parents married. We always hit it off and she has a great personality. However, I'm also physically attracted to her and I don't know what she thinks ...

I want to be with this boy, but my religion doesn't allow it. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

22 July 2008 (F) - Im 20, the boy i like is also 20. he likes me. i like him. he has hinted he would like to be in a relationship with me by saying things like 'see if you were my gf you'd have something to do' or 'if we were a couple...' he's also tried to...

Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...

I love my husband and would never want to hurt him, but I really fancy his brother. How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a 23 year old woman, i'm married with a 2 year old daughter. i love my partner to bits and would never do anything to hurt him but i really fancy his brother, and i cant get him out of my head. I know this is wrong but i cant stop thinking ...

He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife ...

I lied and now I think I'm in love with a guy, but I'm married!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - I am a married woman who has found love over the internet. I lied about my marital status, what should I do? I have been married for 10 years, and we have 2 daughters together. My husband is a great father and provider for our family, but we j...

My BEAUTIFUL girl and I are not accepted by others...yet we love each other. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

18 July 2008 (M) - Hi all. This is my first question so I hope it's good. See, about two months ago, this girl and I (who have known each other all our lives) confessed our love for each other at the exact same time. We have a great relationship and have never ...

My girlfriend became my stepsister!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4301 days ago

17 July 2008 (M) - Ever since september 2007, my girlfreind and i have been together. She turned 16 last week and my B-day is in august. We've been happy and hav'nt had any big problems with each other, but what we didnt know up until feburary that year is that her ...

My boyfriend's parents don't want us to go out, how do I approach them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - help my boyfriends parents told him yesturday that we could go out but today he rang me up and told me that they have decided we cant any more i dont no why but me and him are really upset over this they rule his life. They told him that they di...

Students Falling in love with Their Teachers can really hurt? Your Opinions?

This question has 54 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. ...

I love my husband, but I still have feelings for a highschool sweetheart. I feel terrible.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6003 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - I am 26 years old. I have been married for two years, and I have a 1yr old son. Im currently pregnant with me second child. I love my husband, and he's a good man. He works hard, never raises his voice to me, nothing to complain about, and yet I ha...

Unconventional solution for love triangles - could it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6003 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - To keep it short,I am 23 and I like two guys. I love my boyfriend(one year older), we're together for over 2 years and we are living together for one year now. But one year ago I met the other guy (3 years younger), we became very good friends, we ...

I can't keep lying to my boyfriend. I still love him. I know I do. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now and i have never been tempted by anyone else. However, I met someone at college about a week ago and we clicked instantly. We exchanged mobile numbers and msn addresses and have been talking every day ...

Does my teacher have feelings for me, because the signs are all there?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - I think my teacher might have feelings for me. We are both female, and she's apprently a lesbian (although it's never been confirmed) and she knows i'm Bi. Anyway...whenever i've walked past her room i catch her staring at me, when she's teac...

One of the secretaries has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings, any idea why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

14 July 2008 (M) - Hi I have returned to work in a healthcare organization and share an office with 12 colleagues. A few other secretaries also have access to the room. I don't know any of them too well as I have been away for 2 years. One of the women has placed...

I feel like we have a connection, but she's got a boyfriend. Do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6004 days ago

14 July 2008 (M) - Apologies for the long question, but I feel I need to enter details. Quick introduction. I'm having confused feelings over a female friend. I'm 18 she is 17 just over a year younger than me. She started in sixth form college (UK) the year below...

My teacher is giving me all the signals that if someone my age was doing, I would be certain he fancied me...Help?!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

13 July 2008 (?) - So, here's my question. I know there are a lot of these on here and I know that I might sound stupid for asking. I know that because of the situation i could NEVER be with the guy - I just want to know what everyone thinks about this. So my art...

How do I get over my husband's brother?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I have found myself in a very difficult situation and do not know how to deal with it. I met my hubby when I was 12 and he was 14 - and have been together since then. I married him at 18 and he is pretty much a nice guy. He has a brother who is 2 ...

I'm worried about my cousin touching me inappropriately...what should I do?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I'm 14, almost 15. I'm very close to my cousins, and I often go to their house and spend the night. I usually stay in the same room with 2 of them cause theirs not enough space. In the beginning of this year, one cousin thats my age started touching ...

My best friend's ex wants me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - my best friend went out with this guy who asked me out i dont know what to do should i say yes or no , will it wreck my friendship?...

I am 13 and think I am in love with my ex-French teacher, please, I need some good advice, thanks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

11 July 2008 (M) - I definatly love my french teacher and I do want to get into some kind of relationship with her...but I also know that it can put her job at risk... Should I tell her how I feel and take it from there, not tell her and carry on just being kind of ...

I'm attracted to my instructor. Is there a chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Hi there, never knew I would post this. Actually, I have posted my case as an answer to one of the users and I'm sure there'll be people who will know what I'm talking about. For those who do not know my story, here goes. To start off, ...

Is it normal that I'm only attracted to older men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm only attracted to older men... like 35-65. I have never been attracted to anyone my age. Is this normal? If not what's wrong with me? ...

How do I get over my teacher infatuation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - The teacher who I was in Love with just left to go to New Zealand, trouble is shes female like me....... If I start from the beginning it is easier to understand. Last September we got a new Maths teacher, everything was fine for a few weeks, but t...

Should I tell my teacher he was of great help in person or through a card?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - i've posted lots of answers on this site (mainly to the 'my teacher' questions i'll admit!) but right now, i'm the one who needs some help. i've liked my physics teacher for about 1 year and a month now but I just found out i'm not going to hav...

I gave my teacher a letter explaining my feelings, but he has not opened it, I'm worried he won't...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - I love my teacher, but he see's right through me. I think he knows to some extend I love him, yet he ignores me and doesn't act so friendly with me. He always acts friendly to others, and blanks me out. I don't know what to do anymore; because it ...