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Should I tell my teacher he was of great help in person or through a card?

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Question - (10 July 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've posted lots of answers on this site (mainly to the 'my teacher' questions i'll admit!) but right now, i'm the one who needs some help.

i've liked my physics teacher for about 1 year and a month now but I just found out i'm not going to have him as a teacher next year. obviously, i was completely gutted, however after an evening of moping with my i-pod, i think i've accepted the situation. at least i'm not so upset. but now i'm wondering whether to send him a card to say thank you for being such a great teacher? or maybe tell him in person? please do not think i'm going to declare my undying love for him...i know how unbelievably stupid that would be...i don't want him to lose his job or to know how i feel and ruin the 'relationship' we already have. But i just want to let him know what an amazing help he's been to me over this past year as i believe that it is because of him that i managed to get an A* in my moudules. my physics teacher last year told me i was 'apalling' and you don't go from apalling to A* on your own! so yeah i know this question is a bit petty and trivial but i would like some advice....card? or tell him in person? thank you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008):

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hey everyone ty sooo much for the advice it was very helpful....in the end i gave him a card, in person tho....it ended up being in front of quite a lot of my friends but i didn't really mind! and he seemed really touched by it and i was just pleased that i made him smile! so yeah it went very well xxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

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hi everyone thank you for all the posts so far, your words of encouragement were greatly appreciated. my friend said to me in english today oh we shud make a card for (insert teacher name here!) and i was thinking wow you read my mind....turns out she was only joking and when i asked her later if she really wanted to do it she said no! how sad! so i was like oh........so it was nice to see that you all seemed to thin it was a good idea! i'm pretty sure i'm gonna thank him in some way...but yeah any more adivce would be greatly appreciated! thank you xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008):

I think that either way would be fine... do what you are most comfortable with. I'm sure he will appreciate it - most teachers try very hard and often don't get to hear how much of a difference they make. Just tell him (or write in a card) basically what you've written there about how much he's helped you (excluding the undying love part, of course) ;).

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A female reader, xSpacexDementiax United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2008):

xSpacexDementiax agony auntaww im sorry to hear you won't be getting him next year! that's not to say you can't pop in to speak to him sometimes though :-) glad to hear you're not considering telling him how you feel though, that's refreshing to hear.

I think it's a lovely idea to let him know you've appreciated his teaching - he'll probably be touched to think he's genuinely helped someone achieve good grades!

Anyway I think you should give him a card AND tell him! As you give him the card, just tell him you think he's a great teacher, and he's really helped you this year and you just wanted to let him know. It's nice to give him a card though.

Not to sound like a really bad influence as well, but i finished my gcses this time last year and gave my teach a card and now he's like my best mate :-) though that's where im keeping it atm, although I do have quite a soft spot for him :) lol

if you need to chat just message me, il be glad to help you out.

xx

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A female reader, lilmiissjem United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2008):

lilmiissjem agony auntHey!

I've Been lucky and had some amazing teachers throughout school & college.

Personally i find it better just to thank them in person. But if your shy just send them an email =)

Best of Luck

Jemma

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