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One of the secretaries has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings, any idea why?

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Question - (14 July 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi

I have returned to work in a healthcare organization and share an office with 12 colleagues. A few other secretaries also have access to the room. I don't know any of them too well as I have been away for 2 years.

One of the women has placed an unopened tampon under my personal belongings,

any idea of motive????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008):

I would completely ignore it - don't rise to it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

I personally find that VERY creepy...I myself would find the pervert who did it and ask them why....If it was a joke, then it was in very bad taste....If it was a accident, then perhaps they should apologize.... I would find the person who did this and ask "What's Up?" Good luck sugar.

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (15 July 2008):

scrazy agony auntSounds like a prank to me - were you in a bad mood that day?

I think thats a not so subtle way of saying: "You're acting like a chick on your period, RELAX!"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

justgirl has the answer I think mate - just shock tactics with no hidden meaning or agenda. You possibly give them the impression of being shockable so they're goin for it.

Forget it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

Hi

could well be a mistake but you never know! out of interest was it a tampax or lilette? different size could have hidden meanings....sorry i am playing. Put it down to error or one of your colleagues fooling about to arouse your curiosity.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008):

first thing to do is ask who is responsible and then ask them why? if they get defensive and angry report the incident to person in charge as this is a form of bullying

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A female reader, hayhay123 United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

It was probably an accident, why would you even go to the trouble of posting a question on this site for something so trivial. It sounds like you all need to grow up.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntSounds like a mistake (or a really, really lame prank) to me. I don't think there is any sexual motives... ignore it and go about your business. I really think we can chalk this up to unintentional.

xx India

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A female reader, PsyCookie United States +, writes (14 July 2008):

PsyCookie agony auntProbably it just fell off her purse and the tampon found its way into your belongings.

I doubt it was a prank from them because for one, they're women whom is assumed to be more mature about personal health and two, becuase if they really want to tick you off they tampon would have been opened and probably used.

Don't take this as an offense. I really think it was just accident.

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