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writes:ok. well, first off, everyone know that step siblings are NOt blood related.ok. now, im in love with my step brother, and we are planning to go to college together. We only lived in the same house for like, 3 years, so its not like we were raised as siblings. obviously, our parents arent too thrilled, saying we have disrespected them and everything...and he doesnt take the way his father treats him to well sometimes. but, he still says that no matter what, we are definitely going to be together, and that he will always love me. :)to me, it sort of seems like our parents are only thinking about themselves, saying people think they are weird. I mean, i can still see it from their point of view, but it really irritates me. my mother has even lied to my face to try to break us up.how should we deal with the parents? Reply to this Question
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reader, LoveJoy  +, writes (30 July 2008):
 I don;t believe there's anything wrong with it but just cool it a bit and try to find your true feelings...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2008): I think you should just ignore your parents. Go ahead and live with your stepbrother when you go off to college, and tell everyone that you are boyfriend and girlfriend. Then continue pursuing your relationship with him. Dating your stepbrother is NOT incest because you are not blood related. Stepsibings are an artificial, man-made designation. Laws cannot make you blood related because they cannot change biology. So do what you want and tell your parents to stay out of your personal affairs. They don't know what it's like to be you. If they object, ask them if they love each other, and if they know what it feels like to be in love with somone. When they say yes, tell them that's how you feel about your stepbrother, and he feels the same way about you. If they don't understand, tell them that's THEIR problem, and not yours.
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Your parents can't change the way you both feel and since your both not blood realated there actually is nothing wrong with it.
They might just find it weird that their kids are going out but they can't stop you especially if you live in the same house.
Once you both have moved out and are at college they won't be able to do anything.
It might be difficult the now because of your parents but you both are together and thats what counts.
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