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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The teacher who I was in Love with just left to go to New Zealand, trouble is shes female like me.......If I start from the beginning it is easier to understand.Last September we got a new Maths teacher, everything was fine for a few weeks, but then for some reason something just clicked and I really started to like her. I dont know what it was but it was something,she didnt have model like looks but she was naturally beautiful, it was the way she looked at me her personality. And to stop people finding out I liked her I started acting as if I hated her. I would bitch about her behind her back. Misbehave in lessons. Make fun of her and so on. But the thing was I started looking forward to her lessons, just being around her. Then I found out she was coming on a school trip abroad with us for a week. I started talking to her, purposely waiting untill she came out of her room in the morning then I would go out, it sounds a bit bosessive now but at the time....I dont know it was impulsive. Over the trip I found loads of stuff out about her...That she was engaged, didnt have kids, how old she was,.When that trip was over I was gutted. So a few months on she comes back from half term and annouces she had married. I felt physically sick...I didnt want this to happen. A few months pass I was still acting a prick in lessons acting as it I hated her. Then i found out she was emigratting......I dont know it just didnt feel right anymore and for the first time ever I didnt want the summer holidays to come because I knew once they started i would never see her again :(. So I got her a card and wrote good luck and thank you blah blah blah. Anyway now school has ended i dont know what to do...I cant stop thinking about her, I feel as though the world is going to end/depressed.....and I seriously feel like crying. So if anyone could please give me some tips.Thanks
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reader, demolition-lovers +, writes (22 July 2008):
 You know ..i'm in the same position as you...'cause i fell in love with this teacher all because she went on this school trip with us and that's what happened .(its was june near the end of the school year) Then i heard she was leaving for different school and my life fell apart like yours and you can't stop thinking about them after that..
Its now over a year and I still think about that teacher...
It may take awhile or even years to recover.( Maybe till you left school and find someone you can love)
But you got to understand that if you really love this person you would let her go and them make the decisions that make them happy... :)
But don't worry the good thing is she still exist in your memories..:)
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Everything about your hopes of being with her one day are unrealistic, I'm sorry, don't want to sound mean. Thats why they call it a "crush". The only way to get over it is with distraction. Are you just attracted to older ladies, or are you open to dating girls around your age? Are you bi-sexual? Just know that most crushes won't crush you for long. There will be another beautiful person to come your way, that, you can pretty much count on. I know it isnt what you want to hear now, but it's truth, and you are young, and I'm sure you have a beautiful personality, and there will be many ladied attracted to that. For now, watch funny movies, go out with friends, do silly things and try to have fun. The girl for you will come along when you least expect it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): Hello,
The world is not going to end. This was just a platonic love. You will get over it very soon, if you you get busy with other stuff. Preferrably new love!
good luck
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