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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Is it best to distance myself even though I love my family? I can't stand all the bickering

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - How can I stop resenting my family. I love them but can't get on with them? It has got worse as I have grown up. Too many clashing, strong personalities, every wants to be right. There's too much to go into but I can't breath around them anymore,...

Sick of ex's older wife

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - I have a son who is 6 years old and my ex currently has more custody than I do, I get him every other weekend. My problem is I'm so sick of my ex's wife and really don't want her around my son. For starters she's 46 years old, 10 years older than ...

Things seemed fine, then he blocked me. Should I just continue on with my life, and if he ever returns then ''so be it''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and we really hit it off. We went on a few dates and immediately had a connection. He met my family and they liked him and we planned for me to meet his family next. As we got closer, we talked about more serious thi...

I found my dad is cheating on my mom... AGAIN! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I feel very sad and disappointed. I just found my dad has been texting another woman. This is the third time I find out he does this. The first two times I have told my mom about it and she tried to deal with it. The last time thi...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to stay friends with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We are living together in our own apartment for 3 years now and I just found out one of his female friends that he spends lots of time talking to was one of his exgirlftiends (his first love), she's the only ex that he's still talked too and I've ...

Please give me advice on how to deal with the looking at him thing and also his moods!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi there :) I'll make this as short as possible... So my bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half.. And today we graduated high school... As he was receiving his award I was looking at him at all times and for a brief moment he ...

How do I take this slow enough for my co worker, but also let her know that I'm interested ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - I very recently left my wife (less then a month ago). I realized I had feelings for a co worker. Since the breakup between my wife and I, my co-worker has admitted that she to has feeling for me but she is afraid of a relationship. She is only 20...

My beloved girlfriend died in a car accident. How do I move on from this? Would she be at peace with me moving on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - Hello. I loved a girl who I was going to get married to very soon. Recently while on a trip with her mother. They met with a car accident on their return. Unfortunately it was a major accident and it led to her death on the spot and her mother...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

He has double standards and I'm not sure how to approach this! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I met a man a year and half ago. He had just been divorced and has full custody of his two kids. We moved in together in January and now we are talking about getting married, but I have a major issue now. When I was moving my stuff in he didn't want ...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

Is my behaviour really irrational, in the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - hi, I am little confused with my boyfriends actions lately he thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing but I think it hurts me somewhere! Let me give you 2 instances Yesterday I asked his help to write a formal letter this was for my littl...

How could he throw in the towel and walk away like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My recent ex bf is 49 and I am 39..we have been together a total of 4 1/2 years with a 1 yr break in between because he thought the grass was greener.. After making him wait I took him back and we dated another 2 1/2 yrs. we broke up almost ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

Is this stress I feel and the emotional shut-down I experience a normal reaction to the trauma of seeing my friend pass away in an accident when I was a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3469 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - I am from a small town. Many many years ago I was not old enough to go to school. I went with my mom to get my older brother. We picked him up and and were heading home. My brother's best friend used to ride his bicycle home everyday. My br...

My boyfriend's parents aren't taking proper care of his little sister and I'm worried he may try to gain full custody of her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, This isn't a typical dear cupid topic, but it's about my boyfriend and his relationship with his family so I guess it's something.. Anyway. My boyfriend(20) of 4 years is seriously considering contacting social services about...

I have feelings for my biological cousin, but we're both married. Should I back up and run before it's too late?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I need help! I'm a 23 year old female who's catching feelings for her bio cousin. He is 22. We were raised together until about 6, when he was adopted out. I finally found him all these years later on Facebook. So here it is, a year later and we've ...

Depressed and way behind the average 21-year-old. How do I fix my life/stop beating myself up over past mistakes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - [Mod note: user's own title] I've pretty much wasted my life from 16 to 21 (possibly all my life) largely due to issues from emotionally abusive family. Anyone know how to stop "mentally beating yourself up" over lost time, esp. when said procrast...

We've been having arguments over silly things. Is it frustration that could be causing me to get angry so quickly? But if his cousin speaks badly of me should he speak up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Okay, so I haven't used my dear cupid a little bit over a year. I first got it when I was in 8th grade or a freshman; when I was in my first serious relationship. I had put some stories on how I was pregnant at 16 and so forth. Anyway's, ...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

Our 12 year old son shows no interest in family life and ignores Father's day and Mother's day. How should I approach these issues with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

21 June 2015 (M) - I have a 12 year old son. He dosn't show much interest in spending time with the family. His life revolves around computers, video games, and similar devices. We have tried installing firm and strict usage rules, and even downright a "ban" on compu...

Why did my husband react so strongly to my remarks? Is there more going on that I'm not seeing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - My husband and I went to his brothers house for a small family cookout, and of course they were drinking. That was not a problem. My problem was that he was in the corner with his nephew and his nephew girlfriend and they were talking about going to...

Sibling rivalry? or self esteem issues? I appear not to matter to my parents

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3459 days ago

20 June 2015 (F) - I am not sure whether my question is about sibling rivalry or self esteem but here goes. I have always found life difficult, often feeling like I can never have long periods of happiness in even though I do try and remain positive. As much as pos...

Overprotective mother, won't let me go out alone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 June 2015 (F) - Hi there, So I wanted to go out with my boyfriend for a movie and some shopping. But I know my parents won't allow me to go out with a guy alone. So I said I was going out with friends which are girls.. And my mum pestered and questioned me ab...

My girlfriend's family keeps telling her I"m not working hard enough and its upsetting her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 June 2015 (M) - i had my gf crying to me today because apparently her family keep asking what im doing and telling her i should be doing this ie working more or some shit. it was hard to get information out of her of what exactly is being said. i told her it ignore ...

I think he's clear of drugs now, but what would be signs if he ever started using drugs again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

18 June 2015 (F) - Recently my BF of three years told me that he was a cocaine addict and has been drug free for over 20 years. I do not know what the long time effect of cocaine has on the system and are there things I should be aware of; possibly mood swings, ...

How can I provide appropriate support for my cousin who is autistic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

18 June 2015 (M) - For once, this question is not about me! My cousin is 33, she's autistic and she is with this guy who takes her money and is working his way through her ISA's. She has lived with him for 3 or 4 years now, she doesn't have a key to the house, has t...

My husband does nothing all day, How should I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 June 2015 (F) - I have been married to a great man for 11 years, he is a little older than I. He retired from work about 2 years ago. Ever since he retired, he has been home all day everyday not doing much of anything at all, except watch tv. I don't think it's...

Ex-wife has alienated my daughter, please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

16 June 2015 (M) - My ex-wife and I were separated for almost a year before she filed for divorce. I realize in hindsight that she was using the "threat" of divorce to make me see what I was going to lose in hopes that I would come crawling to her. However, I didn't ...

My cousin has now totally blanked me. Should I persist in trying to talk to him about our night of passion together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

16 June 2015 (F) - Advice needed please. So Saturday night I invited my Cousin over for a chat and a catch up as I'm staying in the area while another family member is in hospital. My cousin and I are not close and although we've met a few times and went to the ...

My husband is drinking again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

15 June 2015 (F) - My husband is at it again, I had gotten our grandkids for the weekend, he stays out all night Friday drinking, then blames it on me, just cause it is his family he feels he can do that, if Idid half the things he do to me he would be upset, iI'm ...

Feeling crazy in love with this girl. But have I loved her too much? She's always chatting online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

15 June 2015 (M) - Please people I seriously need help on this issue of mine. I am crazy in love with a girl in my office, I love her so much that I don't want any Guy around her coz am so scared to lose her in my life, but I think she got know the levels of my love...

His attitude towards me wanting a child in the future is affecting how I treat his 3 year old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. He has a three year old son with another woman. They only dated for about a month and accidentally got pregnant and things didn't work out between them. I was originally ok with the situation. I ...

Has he really changed, should I give him a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - For a year, I was in a relationship with someone who I loved, of course, but he didn't seem very dedicated. He never told his parents about us. He was never as eager as I was to talk or go out. We didn't see each other every day or even each week ...

Should I be worried about my husband when this girl is around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3478 days ago

14 June 2015 (F) - I'm married almost 6 years to my husband . We are both similar age and have two children together. I'm with my husband since i was 21 and im begining to worry. He is always been a flirt to others it is his personality i've grown to accept because it ...

I slapped him, he slapped me back, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend *lets call him Tyler) for 3 years. He proposed to me last month but since then we just seem to argue. He purposefully does and says thing to get reactions and when i snap he goes in a really childish ...

I broke up with him after his father called me evil!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - To give you a bit of background, me and my now ex-boyfriend had been together for nearly one year. He is 21 and I am nearly 20. I don't really know how to start but two weeks ago, I was invited by his family to a birthday meal for his sisters 19th...

My ex: Does he still love me? Or does he just want us to maintain a friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

13 June 2015 (F) - I was once dating a guy way back in junior high, he was in high school then. We broke up because my parents found out about my affair with him(because i wasn't of the legal age then) but since then, he has been calling me almost everyday telling ...

How can I get over this? The girl I was one question away from proposing to is gone, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

13 June 2015 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke things off with me the other night and I am absolutely devastated and need help dealing with it. Let me start from the beginning. We met 3 years ago and I immediately fell head over heels for her. Her family didn'...

How do I let this much older man know I'd love to date him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Awww I need some advice please! I have had a crush immature phrase but that's all it is right now. On a older man I know, 18 year gap. He works local to where I live. He first caught my eye as he is handsome and always dressed in a suite. Always ...

What is he really playing at? He says he's working there. I think he has had a baby with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Six month's ago I found a new fb page of my current bf, which said in a relationship with someone else, when I confronted him he denied it and removed the account saying his brother made it. Anyway I kept the girls name and every now and then I g...

When he flirts he says he's just being friendly. I need advice in any way you think is needed to deal with his behaviour please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Ok hi so this is my story. I’m 20 n my boyfriend is 33 he has 3 kids ages 7-12 I think. I don’t have any kids. We’re together one year six months . the people around us think that we shouldn’t be together for various reasons. When we now got...

What do I do? I feel so alone in this relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

12 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years we have a son together who is 6 months old. Since our son has been born my boyfriend has changed. He goes to work till 4 comes to mine at 6 we don't live together we have tea he goes then I get ...

Am I being unrealistic wanting a fairytale ending?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We hit a rough patch.I take medication for anxiety and depression and I've only just started them the doctor told me that they take a few weeks to kick in and that my anxiety and depression will get...

My husband's family are monsters and I don't want them to be around us!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm in need of some advice. Course aren't we all? I'm 6 months pregnant and have a 7 year old as well. I'm with a very amazing lovable man. He is a wonderful father, and a blessing as a husband. He is my best friend and lover all in one...

I find my teenager's brothers interests and behavior disturbing. what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

11 June 2015 (F) - Hello. I have a little problem that i would like to share with you. Since i came back home from university 3 days ago i found a lot of things strange with my brother(15 year old). He has Hitler's posts everywhere even on his desktop(computer). I ...

What sort of a relationship is it where insults and sarcasm are common?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - I feel so upset/down and uncared for at the moment, it's been building for a couple of days now. My partner hasn't really been as talkative the past few days or affectionate, she gets like that sometimes so basically all I asked was if she was o...

Should I Stay or Should I let her go ? Should I be stressing about some family issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (M) - Ive been seeing this girl for about almost 2 years now. It all started in school, you know first think she weird, then some how get her number and start texting and become friends lol Anyway this girl has been truly a blessing to me she keeps me ...

Am I in love with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (M) - What began as curiosity, turned into a friendship. I joined a club in college in hopes that I would get to know her an I did. I fell for her while she had a boyfriend and it was hard. We remained friends throughout that, and whether or not she know...

His daughter has moved in with her boyfriend and his parents and wants my boyfriend to pay her child support directly to her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

10 June 2015 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a year his daughter is 17 now and my bf pays his ex wife child support for this girl but the mom doesn't spend it on their daughter so every month the daughter txt her dad for stuff that she "wants" I've have enough ...