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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

Job interview coming up soon. Feeling stressed, worried and overwhelmed. How do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I feel that I need some advice re. my stress. I have a job interview in a few hours and I feel overwhelmed with stress and worry, that I'm in tears and feeling nauseous . I don't have time to go and see a doctor at the moment. But I don't know how...

Younger cousins coming for visit. How to keep them occupied and happy for a sleepover? From 4 year old girl, plus three more girls, then the eldest who is an 11 year old boy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Okay I need some ideas for family activities. This Thursday I'm having a sleepover with my younger cousins. Their dad, my first cousin, passed away a year ago. This is the first time all 5 of his children (all half-siblings) have all been togethe...

I don't want to be under his mother's control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3826 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I live with my husband in holland. He is from kurdistan in iraq, he is going to kurdistan because he cannot stay here any longer he wants me to go there and said we can stay there a few months and then go because I said I dont want to live ...

My parents are so strict I am getting teased about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - OK, so I need some advice. My parents are really, really strict and I've NEVER been on a date before. Even when I hang out with friends, I'm not allowed to do it unless they drive us there and back and they're really strict on the amount of time. ...

Why would my father suggest he could accompany this girl and I to the movies? Her reply confused me too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - i have two questions to ask.so i like this girl right and one day i had no one to go to the movies with and my dad suggested that i ask her to go with me. what i don't get is that she freaked out. so my dad says that he could come if it wasn't too ...

Was I right to throw the creep out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...

LDR issues. Do I confront her over her Ex issues ? Do I insist on seeing her to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - LDR issues.Do I confront the issues? Do I insist on seeing her next weekend? To try to work things out with her? For years I ignored the feeling in the back of my mind that I may be gay. However about 3 months ago a friend signed me up to a gay dati...

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

My Dad trusts me abroad so why doesn't he extend my curfew at home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and I live with my parents in a big expensive city in the U.S. I have a ton of loans from school that I have to start paying off in 6 months (I just graduated) so moving out of my parents place would not be a smart thing to do. I work part ...

How do I fake it and carry on for our baby, when I'm bored and feel we're incompatible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Looking for advice on how to try and make my relationship work even though I am so bored! Met 4 years ago, at the time I was happily single, living alone and enjoying my own space. We used to meet 3-4 tines per week and were very happy together...

I'm 57 and husband left me for another woman, how do I start over at this age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - My husband left me and said the reason was he didn't love me anymore,but in my heart I knew he had found someone else even though he said different.Our 11 year old told me she thought it was a woman from a softball team and that he alway's sits with ...

It's like I don't exist when his child is visiting

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I would like to ask for advice on dealing with my boyfriends behaviour. We have been together 3 years, not living together. He is fun and good company, cooks meals and helps clean up, he is attractive and we seem to have had good ...

How do I handle this situation? My mother in law and sister in law chose to get my son's hair cut without our permission. Am I over-reacting? It will grow. It's the disrespect that irritates me

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - Hello Agony aunts, I have a major issue that I need advice on. My husband and I have a 2yr old son. He is currently in our hometown visiting family. My mother n law and sister n law decided to get my son hair cut( this was his 2nd cut) without...

If we break up will he give up on our daughter too? I am tired of his abuse and his behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3829 days ago

28 June 2014 (F) - I know he treats me bad but sometimes some people re abusive because they love you too much, this is my baby daddy and he is emotionally abusing me. He left me pregnant and came back when baby was 3 months blaming me for making him leave. We ...

He's 18. It feels right but wrong. How should I handle this considering that I live in a very closed community?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3827 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Hi i really need advice on this,i feel so confused.. I recently met my best friend's cousin and i knew the minute i saw him that i liked him,i feel so attracted to him It's like nothing i have ever experienced.. The problem is he is 18!! A Also i...

My mother seems to undermine me ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - I am finding that every time I have a telephone conversation or see my Mother I am left either slightly bewildered or depressed and down. This situation has gone on for years and I have tried lots of different approaches. She lives with my Dad ...

I've fallen in love with my FWB and yet I still kissed his cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3831 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - An year ago, I went with my then 3 month old friend with benefits (lets call him A) on a vacation to his hometown. We were FWB but we were firstly very good friends. The whole 3 weeks when on by perfectly, lots of fun, sex, doing nothing, going da...

How do I tell my Dad that I'm dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Alright so I'm 14 and going against my dad's rules, I've been dating this boy for 8 months. I want to tell my parents in dating this guy and I know how to tell my mom but how do I tell my dad? I mean what's the big deal, I've never done drugs or ...

Married with kids but think I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Fifteen years ago I met this guy at work. We were both in our mid 20’s. We dated for two years and towards the end of those two years I got pregnant. The relationship was already starting to crumble. I ended up not having the baby and hated myself ...

Should I worry about the child getting in the way

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3830 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a few months, he is lovely and everything is going great. But!!! he has a two year old son I have never met him as we both decided until we are ready to commit to each other, I won't meet him. I love kids and I'm ...

Should I be upfront with my parents about seeing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months already and the only person who knows is my older sister, I've asked my mom if I can date and she said yes it's fine, but my dad would kill me and him if he found out.. Should I be upfront with my parents ...

Is she worth it? Or should I stay away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

25 June 2014 (?) - Perhaps it is my age, given that I am a sophomore in high school, or that I am just flat out stupid, but my ex girlfriend has caused issues yet again. I will not use names, so let's call her.... 'K'. And me as, 'A'. Freshman year of high...

Why don't my family like my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - Ok so I need some help trying to figure out why my family (parents and aunt and uncles) have a gut feeling about my new bf but can't give me any reason why they don't trust him. I'm really close to my family and normally they are fine with people I...

How to get over this fall out with my uncle?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

24 June 2014 (F) - Hi I had a 'fall out' with my uncle back in September last year and since then he has just totally ignored/blanked me....when before he wuld have spoken to come and not walk past and totally ignore me. It all started when he said I need to 'earn ...

Girlfriend doesn't want my daughter around when she has her daughter around. How to work through this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3831 days ago

24 June 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I, both in our 40's, have been together for over 2 years, and have 6 kids in total. Like any relationship we've had our ups and downs and I'm happy to say however that the good have definitely out weighed the bad. One of the stre...

How can I convince them to give my new boyfriend a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I have the most loving yet most judgmental family ever. I need help showing them I'm happy in my new relationship even if its not who they would pick for me. I dated the same guy in high school and my parents loved him, they loved his family, ...

I want an independant man, and I'm seeing a momma's boy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I have been dating my partner for many years now. At first we both lived in a different town to our families and thats how we met. when the time came to move home he decided to move my way leaving family and friends behind, we bought a place ...

I am jealous of my boyfriend's daughter and I'm currently pregnant with his kid

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I know how horrible this makes me sound but I can't seem to stop it, as much as I want to. He has a daughter who i just about 3 years old. Since the beginning of our relationship I always felt a tinge of jealousy when he'd cancel plans with me ...

Is my dad's lack of trust justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3833 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - My dad won't trust me. I am currently studying abroad in China and I have been here for a year already. My father never gave me any trouble until I got a boyfriend over here. He is four years older than me and I understand why that would worry them, ...

My sister is attractive. I have low self esteem problems. How can I overcome these issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - Hello I have suffered with low self esteem for years and need to get over it really! I have a sister who is beautiful, tall, slim and popular. My family always used to comment how she looked like a model and their faces would light up when sh...

Should I get my Mum to cancel her trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I'm having a really hard time with my sister at the moment. We both live in the UK (and another sister) and our Mum lives abroad. I do a lot of theatre work (as a hobby) and a few months ago I landed a part in one of my favourite plays. It's one ...

I need him right now but he's not there for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm having a hard time finding a job which is really affecting me emotionally and financially. My parents are splitting up my dad moved out yesterday on my mums birthday:(. and my mum won't talk about it. He's moving in with another woman. B...

I've just learned that my boyfriend's parents dislike me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Why do boyfriends parents always hate me? I have had 3 serious boyfriends and the parents have always disliked me but I don't know why. An event that happened today has opened my eyes to this. My partner and I have been together 2 years, livi...

My husband wants me to act like a porn star and said I've ruined his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My husband told me I was a fat disgusting pig! And he watches porn because I'm boring in bed and I have no ambition. These are things he has never said before to me ,we got into a fight and told me he needed to get things off his chest. I have ...

I have become 'the other woman' to my ex and I don't like it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm the other woman I feel terrible and I never thought I would get into this situation. Basically my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago we have a child together. He came up to see our child and things ended up ha...

His family and friends influenced him and now we have broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! My bf brokeup after 4 years together because of fights, he said he can't handle it. The real reason was he let him family know about our issues and they asked him not to see me again (It was so stupid of him and I believe his personal ...

Their father did nothing when they were growing up but now he is "Mr Wonderful"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I was a single parent after my Ex walked out when the kids were 6 and 7. I made sure they had contact with their dad although in the early days it was hard to get them to go and one refused to go for over a year, mainly because of his new girlfrie...

Issues with my boyfriend's relocation is causing stress.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3833 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - I need real good advice stressing me out My boyfriend lost his mom whom he lived with June 9th this year we are neighbors same apt building him and his sister went back to Maryland for 2 weeks bome next weekend. They felt mom baby him to much and ...

We both desperately want this relationship to work but we still argue a lot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

22 June 2014 (M) - Hi Everyone, Im a bit embarrassed and scared as I type this, but i desperately need your help. I met a girl 4 months ago and we have been in a relationship now for a month and a half, but a lot of the time we sadly argue, twice a week we fall out...

My husband always was an agressive man but his cancer has made him worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3835 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Im so sad, very very sad, help me please. My husband is a cancer patient. Before this illness come, he is already soooo loud and so aggressive but it get more worst now that he is in this situation. My problem is, aside from being so loud and ...

My long time friend is drinking herself into oblivion ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. This is a touchy subject. My close friend of nearly 40 years is an alcoholic. I met her through my husband at the age of 17, his best friend was dating her. We went out as a four some regularly, she was my bridesmaid and v...

My sister has this ridiculous inferiority complex around me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - My older sister has this ongoing confidence problem since we were kids. She compares herself to me and seems to think she comes off worse. She thinks I am more exciting, popular and talented than she is. I have to constantly reassure her that she ...

My boyfriend makes fun of me, my family and my culture in front of others!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2207 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been officially together for about 2 years now, but it seems as if we have been for 4 years when we first met. I am muslim and he is not inclined towards any one religion. I finally met his family in FL. We stayed at his ...

Feeling down because my dad is never present in my life. How do I forgive and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - I've been feeling a bit down these days, perhaps since Father's Day just came and went. While everyone else was posting lovely quotes and photos about the "best dad in the world", I couldn't relate. My parents both came here in their mid-late t...

Side with my boyfriend or his grandma?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - Hi, Currently my boyfriend is away visiting his mother's side of the family who has never treated him right to the point of severe psychological trauma and constant hospitalizations. His grandma on his father side basically raised him more t...

Relationship between son and stepfather at breaking point.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3836 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - My son, who is 16 spends most of his time playing on the computer with his friends, when he is not at school. At the moment this is way too much as he has finished his exams. To be honest, it has always been too much. He is very clever, a bit of a ...

I know she was justified in breaking up with me but I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

19 June 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and i were together for around 3 years and 9 months,before we broke up last thursday. The reason for the break up wasnt one,but yes i could pin point what the biggest obstacle was. I could never stand up for her,i promised her that i ...

I'm tired of the tension that comes from my family not liking him, and I've kinda fallen for someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a year and the majority of it has been long distance relationship. I love him so much and his family is awesome and so sweet and they love me. my family however does not like him and feels he doesn't treat me right, he ...

My boyfriend is insisting I go meet his parents and sister this weekend even though his mam said not to!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3838 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august. Been official since december. I live in the north of england as does he, but is from the midlands. I know we havent been together too long but its going really well and i really think its guna last and i ...

Shouldn't he be focusing on the time she has left, instea of planning her funeral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

18 June 2014 (F) - My mum has terminal cancer and is under palliative care. Recently she's gone downhill and my dad is preparing for her death. He's organising the order of service, timings, list of people to tell, music, food etc ringing people up and having lengthy ...