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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

He cheated with a coworker, how can I trust him around her every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - So, I am in a relationship of over 7 years with 2 kids, and we went through this situation when he cheated with this girl from his job. i don't know how far it went with her honestly, other than a make out session at work. now i moved on from this ...

How do I cope with and incorporate my Voyeurism urges into my life? I am monogomous and Happily married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Recently my wife and I wound up in relationship counselling due to my 'sudden' interest in kink (bondage, some S and M, voyeurism etc). Through the counselling I discovered that there has been a whole host of reasons why this came about going way ...

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...

Was my boyfriend out of line for the hurtful degrading things he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Hello. I would like some advice regarding anyone's opinion of my ex-boyfriend's comments to me last night. He has said that he loves me and will support me yet when he came over last night he did nothing but rubbish what I was trying to do in the ...

Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...

My boyfriend's bird obssesion is troubling me...along with the bird shop girl who flirts with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My b/f Paul likes collecting birds and I am not sure I can take it any more. He already has one cage of birds. His father collects them too. But I have asthma and i dont like be near the birds and all the feathers and it smells. But when he is away ...

After 6 years my son's father wants to be in his life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I got pregnant at 15 to a man that was married, at the time I didn't know, when I found I finished it, well I had my baby when I was 16, father didn't want any contact whatsoever, well 6 years down the line I got a message of him trough facebook ...

She keeps walking in on me masturbating!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Need help? My sister walked in on me masterbating last month, now she keeps doing it. And i've been super carefull, but its like she knows i'm doing it and my bedroom door flys open, she's even walked in on me twice wheni've been in the shower. What ...

How can I let him see it's time we both grew up, we're both adults!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years now and we've been rocky for a while. It's always been his dream to travel overseas to teach English to children, which is why he is getting his degree. This is not because he loves children ...

How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?...

I feel like people see me as a joke and its very upsetting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I keep feeling sad and upset over my past. It feels like a ton have bricks has landed on me and i'm being confronted with it and trying to come to terms with it everything. People have always branded me thick and stupid, throughout my li...

More memory...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - Guyz, My brother don't allow me to download my favorite online game in our family computer because i have not my own personal computer and/or laptop and because our computer don't have enough memory. please teach me something that can support or ...

Friend's remark has really hurt me! I don't think luck has anything to do with how I have survived!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I would really appreciate what people think of what my supposed friend has said to me just recently. To cut to the chase I have been trying to beat the Domestic Violence Cycle for around 20 years now and finally enough strength with my...

Does it ever work out when a couple is forced to marry? (Not arranged marriage)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - Is there anyone out there who has been forced (not arranged) to marry someone you do not love or are not attracted to, when you already loved someone else? Has your marriage to this person really truly honestly worked not out of obligation, ...

I'm dating my sister's ex and hiding it from her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - so my sister was with this guy for a year. She cheated on him and he broke up with her. She moved on, as did he. I always liked this guy while they were together. I told him i liked him and he said he liked me2. A year AFTER they broke up, (she ...

How can you marry someone when they can't be a team?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - i've been with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. she moved to a different state to be with me. to me, i see us as a family now. she has a son that i've taken on as my own. so to me, when things happen, we should look to each other for ...

Should I get involved with my ex's brother?

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28 April 2011 (F) - Well ive been in and out of a relationship with my baby daddy for about 4 years now.I met him at the same time i met his younger brother.Im now 19 i met them both when i was 15.Ive always had an attaction to his younger brother which is now 17.but ...

My dream wedding will never happen because of troubled relationship with family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I'm a level headed girl in my late twenties. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years. He proposed to me five years ago, but I wasn't ready. Now I'm scared he'll never ask me again. I don't usually think of weddings. But I think with all t...

Smother-in-laws

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - What do I do about a mother in law who is driving me crazy? She is very bossy and demanding. I cannot see her or even just talk to her w/o hearing a new baby demand or request... Here is a list: She tried to invite herself to my out of ...

When is the right time to have children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - When is the right time to have kids? I want to have a child but here are some of the thing stopping me 1) I dont have a partner that wants children (he has his own) 2) I have endometriosis (womb tissue on ovaries can affect fertility) 3) My ...

How do I get his parents to like me and my parents to like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - How do i make my boyfriend's parents like me more...they dont hate me but i want tips. how do i make my parents like my boyfriend when they meet him??...

Should I really consider having a fling with an unhappily-married woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - I am having a real struggle with my conscience and really need some advice. I have been single for over a year after a break up of a 10-yr relationship. I have found dating hard because I don't want kids. Anyway, last weekend, I met someone who ...

My boyfriend is a bit too close to his sister, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and his sister are very close same as me and my siblings, but sometimes when i am around i do not feel comfortable at all, they will playing together tickling each other and that makes me feel out of place. i just sit there and watch ...

Problems with my boyfriend's family.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend, we have been going out for 1 yr 9mnths now and he has a sister who is my friend i met him through her. At first i told her i liked her brother and she tried to get us together and we went out for about 2 weeks briefly, it was ...

Is my life going to change completely when my mother has a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My mother is 45 and pregnant, i am 22. I am so excited to have a baby in our family again after those years but is my life going to change completely? I need help, will i be baby sitting forever and wont be able to live my own life i am worried, ...

Boyfriend said he will love me more once I give birth to his kids! What does he mean by this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we both 21 and he said he wanted to marry me and i would love that too. One day he said to me if you give birth to my kids you will be loved more, what did he mean, does it mean his love for me is on a ...

I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. Can people please just keep us in their thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I am feeling devastated by the Tornado in Alabama. We got completely leveled today by the tornadoes. Just asking for people's thoughts and prayers for the state of Alabama. Lots of people lost their homes too, and their lives. just please keep us i...

Could the trauma of my parent's divorce and seeing what I saw as a child be the reason I cannot connect with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - This is difficult for me to write, as it is deeply personal. When I was a boy, my parents were on the verge of divorce and I had just turned 10. My father constantly traveled for his work, and his absence and constant fighting when he was home drov...

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M) - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut ...

I feel like my parents are taking over my life sometimes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - My parents are driving me crazy!!! They hardly ever even let me out of the house and if they finally say yes then they're nosy about it. I know theyre my parents and they just love and care about me but it's starting to get old. I never get to hang ...

My mother in law is so controlling...am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - im married traditionally, my husbnd doesnt work. i live with him and his mom. his mom is so bossy that she controls him more than anyone. he is now so dependent on her that he cant find a job. how do i get him to trust me more than he trusts her....

Birth control without my parents!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I am 17 and i want to get on birthcontrol but i dont want my parents to know because i dont what them to think im having sex everytime im alone with my boyfriend. So how do i go about getting birthcontrol without my parents???...

Conflict with my mother that she seems unwilling to resolve

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - What can you do ,if someone does not want to resolve a conflict, and when you offer your solution for it, they don't care. Yet they think, they are right, and you can never get thru to them. My mother is blaming me for many thing , and it is damag...

Any way to figure out a baby's father before the baby is born?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (?) - dear cupid, is there any possible way to figure out who a baby's father is before the baby is actually born??? or, do you just have to wait until after the baby shows up???...

I'm worried my boyfriend will spend more time with his baby brother or sister when it arrives than me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 yrs now and we are very happy however he gives me attention and stuff, he has a twin sister and they are both 20 turning 21 soon, so for 20 years they didnt have a younger sibling just the two of t...

Could this end well for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 April 2011 (M) - She's family... more like my own sister, yep, she's my cousin... We've known each other since 2007, we had been flirting since then, until we finaly kissed in 2009, from that moment, we both realised that we were madly in love... She says she's ...

Is it his mom? Or is he just making up excuses not to see me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - Hi, alright, for starters, im 17, 18 in july, and me and my boyfriend grew up together, he lived 3 houses away from me, and we have been dating for almost 3 months. He is 16, and im 17, almost 18, in the first month, his mother was upset and angry ...

My 55 year old mother is dating my ex boyfriend for sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

27 April 2011 (?) - I am really peed of with my mother. i am not proud of her tbh. she goes out on weekends wearing short skirts or leggings and wears a top that shows off her sagging boobs (she is 55 years old and divorced). she loves the attention of men but what she ...

I think my Dad's having an affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - i think my dads having an affair. My parents have been married for 15 years,they argue reguarly and iv been thinking for the last 2 years that they were going to split up but they havent.The other day my dad was out and he'd left his phone charging...

Afraid to tell her parents about the engagement

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26 April 2011 (F) - me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while now. we live together and very close. one day the talk of marriage came up and we said we would do it! we;re set to be wed in 2 years but i'm afraid of telling her parents. what do i say t...

How do I change a habit that has become ingrained? my daughter in law has complained about it.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My son has asked me to stop repeating myself when I speak to his wife. He says she doesn't want to speak to me any more because I repeat myself so often. My son says he is used to me doing this and thinks nothing of it, he says I have so many good ...

How can I determine if my two cousins have the same feelings as I have for them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

26 April 2011 (?) - ok I have these two cousins who I'm attracted to and I think they might think the same. But I am not sure. One is 29 and the other one is 21.I'm 28. I am really close to both of them. I mean we can talk about anything. Relationship problems...

My sister-in-law is too clingy towards my husband. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3275 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - My question might sound weird, but the situtation that Im in is making me more and more anxious. So me and my husband have been married for a little over two years now. We have two beautiful children(ages 3 and 1)Our marriage itself has been ama...

How do I communicate with my adult children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - I wonder how can you communicate with your grown up children. My daughter going to university, and we have very little communication. We are talking on the phone, and she is very nice, but when I ask any question, she won't answer ,or gets ...

Should I tell my cousin how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Well I'm a 14 Year Old Kid Now (teenager) i have this cousin who i Have a HUGE Crush on since i was about 5 or something! yes that long. so anyway , i kinda flirt with him , we make eye contact often and we have broken the touch barrier , once...

He wont holiday with me through fear of upsetting his kids, is this weird? What do you think?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - hi it's me again...well this Easter holiday my lovely bf of almost 1 year has decided to spend this holiday without me...he says manipulatively 'well hon you have plans with your family.' (which i asked him to join as he always does)he also states ...

In my opinion, fathers need to draw a line between being a parent or a club buddy-what do you guys think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - Why is it that some men are unable to accept getting older and to be parents instead of best pals to their children.Don't you believe there is nothing stranger than seeing fathers in their 30's to 50's out clubbing with their sons? I am not saying ...

I want to ask her out, but she likes my brother as well as liking me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

26 April 2011 (M) - so my brother is 16, 17 in september. and this girl i love with all my heart (13) well she loves me and my bro I heard from a close friend and I don't want to ruin a really good friendship if I ask her out and she says no. what should I do. btw I'm ...

My boyfriend's grandmother wants him to date/marry a lighter woman and I feel hurt by this when I cared so much for her health. Now, I don't know what to think...Please help me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - So i have been in this great relationship with this guy for almost a year. We get along great. My family likes him and I think his family loves me. he is a great guy and we both love each other very dearly. I can actually imagine a future alongside ...

Very stressful life with boyfriend and my special needs daughter! How do I deal with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Hi I am having a time with my special needs daughter she is 18 and my boyfriend of 5 1/2 months first of all they both like one another and he does a lot for her and I now he is demanding a very very clean person and set in his ways, my daughter is ...