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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

I'm thinking of just ending the relationship with my boyfriend to keep my Mom happy...advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Please help.. I'm 18 and in a long-distance relationship. I've been with him for 18months.. and I feel so happy with him. However, my mum has a problem with it. It's not that she doesn't like him.. because she does.. and she also lets me see him ...

Could we be prosecuted?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have been involved in a loving sexual relationship with my sister's eldest son for close on ten years now. We became intimately involved when he was seventeen years old, and I thirty-one. We have a beautiful nine-year old daughter together. Our re...

I want my husband back! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I am a 32 year old woman, a high school teacher of children with special educational needs, a mother of two beautiful girls (age 5 and 2) and a wife. I have recently lost 7 stones in weight, have changed jobs, lost my grandfather, my parents have ...

Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and ...

Worried about the values I transmit to my daugther. Dating several men, having sex. Friends say it's normal after my divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - i'm a 43 years old mother of 2, i just had a divorce after 19 years of marriage. it took me a while to get back to dating again and when i did the problem started. i have sex a lot and with more than just one guy. my friends told me that it'...

We have a child and live together, and he wants to experience extra-relationship sex before we setlle down - only with my approval. Is this OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my love for almost 5 years. we have a child and live together. As all relationships experience we have our ups and downsbut always manage to realize what we have. We are both really young. He has just told me he wants to sleep with ...

I would not like my partner to feel pressurised if I (curiously) ask him about wanting a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - hey guys, Right here is goes, how can you tell if your boyfriend wants a baby?. my boyfriend is 18, far tooo young i know but i keep gettin the feeling that he wants us to have a baby. can men get broody too? is it normal at this age? i dont rea...

How do I avoid losing my marriage for being a bad stepmother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - my marriage is on the brink because i dont get along with my 9 and 10 year old stepkids. i have been married for over 3 years. i love my husband and dont want to lose him. i dont get along with his ex and am having a hard time with the kids. ev...

Can anybody give me advice to improve my dating skills??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - I am nearly 21 and I have never in my entire life had a girlfriend. I always see couples being happy around each other, I have tried, but barely got passed the dating phase with girls. I think my failure is largely due to my problems. When I was yo...

I've stopped going to work to please my girlfriend, and now I don't think I want to work anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - This question is a little different to whats normally on here but I hope someone can still help me. The mess im in started a few weeks ago, I work in a nightclub and I work quite a few hours a week, and basically my girlfriend got really annoyed ...

How can I handle his control-freak son-in-law??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I need help with this one!!!! The man that i have been dating is 69 years old and i am 65 yrs old. He has a son-in-law that wants to control him and everyone else. He wants to tell my man who to date and anything else that pretains to me and him....

I just don't know how to tell my mum we are sleeping together without her losing trust in me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Hey... I'm 17 and been with my guy for 6 months (he's almost 19) we've had sex like 6 times in the relationship and i want to tell my mum about it because i promised her that when i did i would tell her but i just dont know how as i cant give her...

Sick with dread at the thought of Christmas and the tension it causes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

28 November 2007 (?) - Hi, Christmas is coming and the thought of Christmas day makes me feel sick, not with excitement but with dread. Right to explain, The first year my partner and I were together, we hardly knew each other and spent Christmas day apart (even though w...

Am I depressed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Over the last 4 years my life has been hell, my auntie, grandma, uncle and grandad (who was my best friend) all died, I've been with my boyfriend two years and a year ago he kissed another girl, it was only a peck but it hurt so much I still haven't ...

How do I tell my mum about this girl I so want to meet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I have a few issues that needed sorting. I'm getting there thanks to everyone on here. Anyway I'm 22 and to be honest I'm a secretive person. I don't tell my family I talk to people on the net because I believe it would be frowned upon. I'm close ...

My LD friend had always been unfailingly polite but became rude and uncaring when I mostly needed his support. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I don't know where his head is at, and I was forced to leave even though I didn't want to. Here is the story: My LD friend and I grew much closer than friends over time. We've visited each other a few times, but the last time was the only time we...

My mother asked to take my kids to see a Christmas time ballet. She bought the tickets before I could agree to this, now I have tensions with my wife too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Opionions needed. My Dad past away suddenly this past June. Since then my Mom seem to have boundary issues. She asked to take my Kids to see a local christmas time ballet. I requested that she not buy tickets yet until I check with my wife to se...

I like my cousin's bf! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i ...

I'm having a secret relationship with my half brother's half brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - i hav been seeing my half brothers half brother for a few months and we hav fallen for eachova wot do we do it has all been a secret so far????...

Is he playing with me? - he "forgot" to say he lived with somebody else and already had a child. He says he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Hi! I was with this person who wanted to me intimate right away with me after a few dates. I said no. After a while he would call me a few times then one day I stopped calling him. six month later he chased me down after a month we became intimate. ...

Question for mothers... What are some of the earliest symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have a question for the mothers out there. What are some of the earliest symptoms of pregnancy? I was expecting my period this weekend and have not had any signs of it yet. I can't remember the exact dates of my last period, so I'm not sure yet ...

I like parties, and love guys! But my mom is worried about me. What can I do to comfort her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - i am a wild teenager. i like to party and i love guys. my mom is scared im gonna turn out like her and shes a 32 year old lady on parol who just got out of prison. but i have tried every drug in the book and i dont like either of them,so you ...

I think my cousin was flirting with my boyfriend! What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i had plans for this weekend but my cousin came down and those plans were trashed...so i jus invited him over to watch a movie with me but little did i know my sis and my cousin was in there the whole time so we had no privacy what ...

Could we be at divorce's door?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - Hey All, So here is my problem. I have a wife that is emotionally “not there for me.” I am very bored with my life. I am the one who cooks and helps my son with his homework; I get up early and make my son breakfast, make his lunch, takes/pic...

Is it incest if you were related through great grandparents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - After being in a relationship for about 2 and a half years, it fizzled out, but that wasn't to mean that the break-up wasn't messy, and a lot of heartache caused. That was 4 months ago, and i haven't even been interested in getting involved with ...

For the first time I realise what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. How do I show her my love, how to do it without sacrificing family time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been married for 10. About 4 years ago I got caught cheating with multiple women. Additionally, about two years ago she found a letter that looks like I may have been doing it again though i actually ...

My mum found out my dad has a mistress and we don't know what to do now, dad doesn't know we know about it yet

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - My mum recently just found out that my dad has a mistress outside and is devastated. She came to talk to me about it and asked me what should she do. My dad still doesnt know that she knows. My mum is the kind that cant get over even those small is...

I'm 19 and he's 17, would dating him make me a pervert?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - ive recently started liking my cousins friend, we chat alot over msn and text.. we totally understand each other, the only problem being hes two years my junior, im 19 and hes just turned 17.. is this wrong, and will people think im perverted? my ...

My husband treats me bad. Now I am in love with his best friend. I was told it was noticeable from both of us, our gestures etc.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for 11 years now and our marriage has always been rocky. I got pregnant and I felt we had to get married. I do love him, just not the way I should anymore. In the last year, his best friend has become my best ...

I think my mother may be sleeping around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - hi am naveena from a upper middle level family living in south india.Am studying B.Sc. My problem: That is regarding my Mom. she is working in a private hospital as a Head NURSE.I suspect she is filtering nowadays.The reasons is because she wears lo...

I want to bring my partner and I closer together by understanding what he's going through, any advice?

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24 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I am a 38 yr old single female. I met someone few months back through an unbelivable situation, i did not ever think one could meet someone the way i met, anyways i have no complains and consider my self lucky. The person i met is someone i have ...

Confused......

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I am married with three children. I have a very demanding job and work long hours. My husband is away abroad for months at a time-sometimes up to six months. He claims it is business related but I feel ignored and used. I have to pay all the bills, ...

Is it wrong of me to tell my ex to stop coming to see the kids, when he does nothing for them anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - My ex and i have been broken up for almost a month, Three days ago he moved in with his new girlfriend, leaving me and his kids at his mothers house. Right now we have nowhere else to go and i am trying to find an apartment, but anyway he comes and ...

My mom's dressing.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - Hi, I am Jasper. doing my UG. My family are a very good and decent family living in a village. We are a middle level family living in the tradition way. My problem is about my MOM. She is around 50 years old and working as a teacher in a ...

I need advice on how to cure my mother's depression or get her mind off things. Are there any free councillors?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - i'm really stressed someone please help me. My parents have argued a lot but this time it has got really serious. So bad that my dad has said too much and my mum is in extreme severe depression and at a point where she cant even control her own ...

The more my husband is promoted, he becomes more critical, insulting, demanding. I'm ignorant compared to his knowledge, and if I leave he'd take my children away from me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - where do I begin.... I have been married for almost 5 years. I have two beautiful children and thought myself to be happy... and yet the more my husband is promoted, he has become more critical, more insulting, more demanding, more controll...

Being the older cousin... I have to give my little cousin (14) tips about making out. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

22 November 2007 (M) - hey my little cousin is 14 and hes been asking me on tips on making out for the first time. any help on what to tell him or a web site i can go to(no porn). K thanks!...

Still the One

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

21 November 2007 (M) - Hi all, My story starts with me having a number of failed relationships. I was sexually abused from 4 - 12 and then went with an older woman at the age of 16. She dumped me for someone her own age as she was 46 at the time. I felt used and ab...

I've been living with my nan with my brother for 4 years now due to family problems but my brother wants to move back with my mother what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6209 days ago

21 November 2007 (M) - Back 4 years ago I had major issues with my mother and step father. These issues were to do with high level drugs. For 3 years I was the person who looked after my brother and cared for him. No one else knew about the problem so I had no help with ...

Since and after my pregnancy, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost zero. On our wedding day "nothing" happened - he said we have the rest of our lives to have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I have a 14 month old son and got married 4 months ago. We had only been togehter 4 months when we decided to start a family, in those heady exciting days. Since I got pregnant, my husband's sex drive has reduced to almost nothing. At first I ...

Sibling rivalry? My sister does not seem to be happy for my wedding, and has always been competitive against me. I feel hurt by this, how to mend it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - Dear All, I don't know if anyone can help advise me on sibling rivalry, but I have an upsetting relationship with my sister that I would like to mend... We have always been close (she is one year younger than I) - I am now a 34 year old woman w...

Should I give my ex this chance to clarify or continue ignoring him? I'm happily married and do not want to upset my husband or my parents.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - hi guys iam married n happy, the problem is my ex.he tried to contact me many times but couldnt, then started callin up my friends i told them to tell him that i have nth to do wth him, now iam home wth my parents and he started callin me here.i d...

If he loves me, he will divorce his wife, but how long do I let our affair continue until I know he will never separate from her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I had an affair with a colleague, and fell in love. We were both married when it started. It has gone on for two years, and I am now JUST divorced. One problem: he moved out a year ago and has not started divorce proceedings. I know he adores ...

PLEASE HELP....Is it bad to date someone 20 years older than you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

21 November 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and I've always been a girl who's parents were always so proud.. I'm a pretty good kid. I dont drink... smoke... cuss... I'm a virgin... I'm christian and have an amazing relationship with God. But recently I struck up a friendship w...

My mother is controlling my life and I need it to stop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - My mother is very controlling, and is emotionally damaging to me. A little background info on her: divorced my father when I was 6 yrs (famiy rumor is that my hardworking father didn't make enough money to keep her happy), around the same time my ...

Is it too soon to move in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3 months and I have 2 kids is it too soon to move in with him...

My husband always yells about how I raise the kids

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6210 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - ive been married for 11months ihave 2 children from a first marraige and a 2year old from this one. my husband is always dissagring with the way i bring up the children, how can i get him to sit and talk with me rather then shouting at me, saying ...

My husband doesn't want kids because ..he fears he might be abusive and/or violent with his kids.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - Me and my husband have been married 3 years now. We love each other to bits and I want to have a child with him. However the last couple of months my husband has been luke warm of the idea. When I eventually got him to open up about it he told me he ...

Before I became pregnant he did not want a relationship with me but it seems different now. Am I reading more into this than I should?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

20 November 2007 (F) - i had a baby 4 months ago and her dad comes round almost everyday.i am not with her dad but he has stayed overnight a few times(nothing has happened).we do go out shopping together and have even been to his mums for dinner,bbq,etc.he has brought ...

Met a Turkish man on holiday, we're in love and he wants me to move with him but I have two children. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

19 November 2007 (F) - I have met a younger Turkish man on holiday. I have been back to see him since and it confirmed how we both felt. I have been married for 18 years and have never felt how i felt with him.I am at present going through a divorce......before i met him. ...