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I've stopped going to work to please my girlfriend, and now I don't think I want to work anymore

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Question - (29 November 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *adger_Simon writes:

This question is a little different to whats normally on here but I hope someone can still help me.

The mess im in started a few weeks ago, I work in a nightclub and I work quite a few hours a week, and basically my girlfriend got really annoyed because she says I dont spend alot of time with her and our daughter and when I do i'm really tired. So because she was threatening to break up with me I didnt go to work. But now its been a few shifts that ive missed and I dont know why, its just like ive lost all energy to go to work, and now I dont know if I have been sacked yet or should I go in an explain everything and tell them I want to leave and I just cant decide, I know this is a really awkward question but if anyone can help please do.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (29 November 2007):

deejuliet agony auntI am sorry, but this is BIZZARRE!!! Why would your girlfriend want you to stop working just so that you could spend more time with her and your daughter? If you lose your job/stop working how are you going to pay the bills? How can you take care of her and your child properly if you arent working? Or is the plan for the two of you to become leaches on society and let the rest of us take care of you? You guys have some serious issues. Get your butt back to work!!!

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