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writes:hi guysiam married n happy, the problem is my ex.he tried to contact me many times but couldnt, then started callin up my friends i told them to tell him that i have nth to do wth him, now iam home wth my parents and he started callin me here.i dont want to upset my parents n my hubby.i dint end things wth him well and he told me he wanted to clarify but honestly i have no feelings for him and i dont even remember knowin him.what should i domy hubby doesnt know abt my ex and i dont want him to know.should i give him one chance to clarify or continue ignoring him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): hi guys
thankx for the answers,i emailed him and told him my stand, but he rrplied and told me he wanted one last chance to clarify and that he will not trouble me after that, but dunno whether to believe him and i dont wanna give away my no to him waht if he keeps clarifying what to do should i call?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Your husband is going to understand that you have a past, and that will include ex's.
However I understand wanting to keep it seperate, keeps it from getting messy.
You need to get in touch with this ex. Tell him that you have no feelings for him, that you're happily married, let him have his say and get his closure, then tell him you don't want him contacting you again - he is your past and that's it.
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 I wouldn't have any contact with him whatsoever. You said you do not remeber knowin him so whatever he needs to tell you can not be that important. I would ignore him .
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (21 November 2007):
 You should tell your husband and family about this. You don't need to talk to the ex at all, this is your choice, but it's best if your husband knows that he is trying to contact you, it'd be so much worse if he was to find out from someone else
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