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female
age
36-40,
*aveena
writes: hi am naveena from a upper middle level family living in south india.Am studying B.Sc.My problem:That is regarding my Mom. she is working in a private hospital as a Head NURSE.I suspect she is filtering nowadays.The reasons is because she wears lowhip sarees in Hospital and at home and mostly exposes her badly, in gaining others attention (She is warned by the hospital authorities and even she continues) My dad also likes it. he is working in a star hotel as a manager morning shift and i too like her dressing like that because It gives her good look and she feels confident but1)When I went to pick her from the hospital after finishing her nightshift, she told me to wait in reception for 15 min and went to a doctors room. it took beyond 15 min and i gave a alert to her mobile and she came and i noticed some puncture marks, bits of nail spots on her skin and some blood spots(in and around her navel).I asked her and she told its because of an allergy, and when my dad asked she told him it was some insect bite, she bluffed. Also at night i noticed she applying burn balm in that area.2)There is a neighbour next to my house. He owns a flour mill a 5 min walk from his house and he works in it. His wife is a diabetics patient and my Mom will go there to give her insulin injection.After returning from there i noticed white flour on her stomach and navel.I told her and she wiped it.So suggest me, what i think about her is right or wrong, and give me your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): I'd look for more clues because I'd be very intrigued but not interfere. It's not your business. It's not healthy for kids to interfere in their parents behavior.
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reader, chocalated30 +, writes (25 November 2007):
well i know if it were my mom i would sit her down and have along talk with her and as her daughter ask her what's going on.then if she stil denies anything going on and you know it still is well watch her closely,moniter her.i feel your not doing anything wrong you just being concerned.
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