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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Family category)

Family: Help and advice

My family seems cursed never to find love; will I be the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I am in a relationship of 6 months and i really love her. However both my parents and both my sisters havnt been that lucky in love. My mum has had many husbands and divorced my dad when i was young. Both my sisters have also gone through divorces. ...

I want to talk to my daughter to suport her but she seems to keep things from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6351 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi everyone hope you can help me with this well this lad and my daughter are best friends and have been since they were in infant school, they are both 16 now. Well he stays with us a lot even thought he only lives a 5minute walk away as he doesn't ...

He keeps changing his mind about our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - should i finish with my boyfriend as he never wants to spend time with my children and always changes his mind about our relationship? one minute he tells me we should move in together, and the next that he needs time to get his head around the ...

people are saying we're incest and inbreads but we're neither.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I am 16 and when I was 13 my step brother and I started going out. I had fancied him for ages and when he asked me out I was so pleased. I didn't really think anything would come of it, I thought it would probably last a couple of weeks or ...

I'm in love with my very close cousin.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Hey Cupid! I'm in love with my very close cousin. The difficult thing is we live together and something has happened between us (no sex involved tho). He always gives me the excuse that we cousins and shouldn' do what we do but we end up doing it...

Please can you help me get some direction in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I have been married for the past 18 years and love my family very much. Recently my wife moved out of the house because we were having some finanacial problems but I think that there's more to that. I have been trying very hard to bring my family ...

Why does she call me bad names all the time, or why do I get the feeling that she doesn't want to see me happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I want to know why my mom is so against me? the reason I ask is because she only has two kids but, your mom is supposed to be there for you when no one is. But in my case my mom never helps me, she always talks bad about me, if I need help with ...

What do I tell my son about his father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - im a young mum, very young mum. i had my baby 3yrs ago, but when i first told the father i was pregnant he just left me on my own, saying its my problem - not his! i think that was really rude of him to leave his unborn-child like that! but the p...

How can I tell my fiancee's parents that he hits me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6340 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - How can I approach my fiancee's parents (with discretion) by letting them know that he hits me at times when I disagree and or just have my opinion towards some topic. I'm afraid of talking to them because they would think Im just lying since...

I have fallen for my wife's sister and she feels the same way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - my wife and i are unhappily married. we haven't slept together nor do we desire to in years. i have fallen in love with my wife's sister. i think she feels the same way about me. i have felt this way about her since this past january. i think about ...

How do I deal with my wayward brother, who only speaks to me when he wants something.? Advice appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Ooops i posted a question on 'am i being petty about my brother' havent had any replies yet but things have progressed. I have fallen out with my mother now. And my older sister has fallen out with our mum too. My brother is 25 and isnt working at ...

Her older step brother is molesting her! What can she do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - i really worried about my mate. the other day she told me that when her and her step-brother are alone in the house, he comes into her room and touches her private parts. and told her that if she tells anyone he will rape her!! i told her to phon...

I don't feel like I love him anymore, so should I leave this guy and try on my own with our little girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6353 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - hi in nov of 2004 my mom set me up with a guy she worked with we hit it off very well had lots of fun by feb 2005 i, oops, got pregnant. his job moved so we did i left my firends behind. my moms job moved too so she stayed with us which sucked. we ...

Am I wrong in stopping my kids seeing their dad who has a drink and drugs problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6352 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I seperated from my partner and father of my three children 14 months ago life has been pretty hard as when we first seperated i found out that i was pregnant with my third child he gave me no support during this time. A week after i gave birth he ...

He has not spoken to me in 4 days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hi. Am married, 38 w/3 children. Have always dealt with the finances at home..made a mess of them over and over again but husband never helps, he just gets really mad and spiteful so it's now unbearable. Hasn't spoken to me, eaten with me or even ...

I'm 17, he's 25 what's the problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - im 17 going on 18 in about a month. im in love with a 25 year old. weve been dating secretly for about a year now, and my parents just found out and wont let me have anything to do with him. how can i make then understand how i feel, its not about ...

Two months after giving birth, I have no desire for sex. I'm scared he'll cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - my husband and I just had a baby 2 months ago, but now i have no desire for sex. it's not that i don't love him, i love him more than life itself what is happening to me? i'm afraid he is going to cheat ! help me ...

Am i being petty when it comes to my brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Now a month ago i split from a year long relationship and after a bit of a rocky ride things are settling down after he admitted he had lied a few times during the reltionship. Nothing major, just little things. Which i kinda knew, my instincts ...

It there any way my sister can stop talking in her sleep?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid my sister sleep talks in her sleep and does not know what she saying. is their any way of stoping this?...

Could I be pregnant? How can I tell my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My dad found me with a guy making out in my truck. and now he doesn't let me do anything with out someone with me well me and this guy have had unprotected sex before and i haven't got my period this month and it really scares me because im not ...

I'm bussing everywhere. But I'm scared witless, as I've never travelled more than 50 miles on my own.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6354 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I'll soon be going on holiday with my boyfriend and his parents. Let's call him P. He lives in Kent now, his parents live in Birmingham and I live in Cornwall. See the problem already arising? The original plan was: P picks me up, we go back, ...

He spends far too much time round at his ex's house and I feel I can't put up with it any longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we don't live together but we spend a couple of nights each week at each others home. I love him very much. He is very quiet and I'm the opposite I guess. I'm beginning to get bored as he rarely makes me ...

No-one will talk to me because I laughed when I heard my mum had died

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - My Mum just died and i laughed when i found out my friends and family where there and now nobody will talk to me and call me sad and fake i dont think this is fair i didn't mean to laugh i did hate my mum but i should'nt of laugh what should i do.?...

I like my sister's roommate but I'm afraid of spoiling their relationship if something goes wrong bewteen her and I

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - What should I do: Date my sisters roommate/best friend or forget about it and find someone else. I really like this girl but I am afraid of ruining my sisters friendship with her if something were to go wrong. ...

My cultural tradition is, we look after our elderly parents..my husband wants them out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - i've been with my husband for 12 years married for 10 years we have 4 children. I come from a filipino family and it is our tradition that we take care of our parents. my husband and i have been living with my parents for the last 4 years while he ...

I cheated on my fiance and his sister wants to beat me up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i have just recently told my fiance that i cheated on him..he told his sister and now she wants to beat me up..shes 10 years older than me and im scared.what do i do?...

Three kids and marriage and I feel the romance is dead! Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i am 26 yrs old i have been with my husband going on 8 yrs and married barely 1 yr. i don't know what is going on, i know i love him but i am not happy at all. I wish i could say i was but i can't we have 3 young children (3, 4 , 5 yrs old). we ...

I want to be the one who teaches my 13 year old cousin about sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - My cousin is 13 and when i was young, i kind of explored in her vagina. i didn't know what i was doing. is it ok to teach her things about sex and what to do in a situation where she wants to have sex? i want to be the one to teach her what to do ...

His family forced him to divorce me and now he regrets it

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - I recently got divorced after being with my husband for 12 years and we have 2 daughters. The oldest is mine as it is not his child, we only had 1 child married. My problem and question is this.We were having problems in our marriage and just fell ...

My wife has gone to be with her terminally ill mum, but shes not a care for me, Ive got problems too!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - my wifes mother has terminal cancer and she has gone to be with her which is what i wanted for her to do. The only thing is that i feel that im out of sight out of mind i have an eye problem and could go blind with in 5 years started treatment but ...

Shes been calling her cousin, I told her to leave she did, is she just infatuated!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - me and my girlfrien were together for two years and living together. Since she went to family together she met her cousins when she was little. My girlfriend told me that she nobody else but him. I didn;t think any of it. A month past and she sta...

I love him but part of me wants to break up with him as his parents dont like me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Recently, I found out that my boyfriend's parents... have discontempt for me. His mother told him "she's not good enough for you" and his father, on no real basis, thinks I'm a "druggie". Which I am not, just to state. I don't understand what I did ...

I know I should have gone to the police but I couldn't. I felt so ashamed, and feel it's my fault for being drunk.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hiya, I would just like some advice if possible. I went on holiday for 2 weeks with my sister. The first night wewere out there we went out and had a few too many,(it was actually the only night we got drunk, other nights just merry). We have been ...

If a member of your own family (male) steals your clothes and shoes and cuts them up so he can wear them, is he gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - If a member of your own family (male) steals your clothes and shoes and cuts them up so he can wear them, is he gay? or whats wrong? please help...

My 15 year son, says I am way too over-protective! Any advice from other parents of teenagers?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6357 days ago

26 July 2007 (?) - I have 3 kids. They 28, 26 and 15. The older two have their own lives, jobs and homes. My concrn is with my 15 year old who still lives at home and in high school. He's a great kid, honor roll student, polite, very respectful to others. Generally a ...

We're only second cousins.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Wen my cousin came back from a year away i started having feelings for him but didn't know how he felt back. We had always been really close and always messed around like kids do. One day i went round to see my family and when we were close to each...

My fiancee wants me to move to where he is and I want him to move to where I am

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6355 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i am 21 in august. i am pregnant and due in oct. my problem is, my fiance wants me to move to where he stays which is a wee bit away from all my family and friends. i dont know what to do. i know we would be better off staying with my family ...

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents dont approve of him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6358 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - Hi, Im 20 years old and im going to be in my final year at uni in september.i am wanting to move in with my boyfriend but dont know how to tell my parents. i know my parents aren't really keen on my current boyfriend as i dated him about 3 years ago ...

I cheated once years ago, but I am afraid my ex mother in law will tell him now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i have been with my partner for 5 years i have a 4 year old daughter with him. i love him to bits but 2 years ago i cheated on him with my ex husband. my ex mother in law knows this. last week we fell out. i am scared that she will tell my partner ...

My mum does not approve.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6358 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend but my mother doesn't approve with our relationship she told me to leave my boyfriend sooner or later and she even swear that we couldnt work out knowing that he has two kids and an ex-wife. ...

Five year old girl masturbating, is this normal?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - Is it okay or normal for a 5 year old girl to masturbate, I see her in her bed humping at night and wanted to know how to handle? Thank you....

My ex always starts calling me when i start seeing someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago we have a child, he cheats but always calls me when he knows i'm dating someone but nothing serious so he says he wants to work it out if i dont date this person anymore or he'll keep going out and having ...

Update on my 16 year old son who can't stop dieting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - A followup on the question I asked a few days ago concerning my 16-year-old son and dieting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/recently-i-found-out-off-a-good-friend.html I spoke to him again about it, and he insisted the "bikini beach diet" was ...

My parents signed forms claiming custody of my kids so they could go to school in their district; now they won't let me have my kids back because they don't like my new partner's nationality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6359 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I have had very controlling parents all of my life. I now have two children ages 10 and 15. In 2005 my children were attending a school that was in my parents school district. The principal found out and would not let my children go back to school ...

His Mom doesnt like me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I have been i a relationship for 1 year, but i have known my boyfriend for about 10 years. I've met almost everyone in his family and the one person who means the most to him, his mom, doesn't like me. I have never disrespected his mom or even said ...

After living together for 6 years and having a daughter w/ me, he left me for another girl! Why can't I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I was living together for more that 6 years and we have a daughter together.We have known eachother since primary school.He left me for another girl and it's been 4 months now. Does he realise what he has done? What his he thinking? ...

I'm muslim, she's buddhist - her parents don't accept our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

24 July 2007 (M) - i am a muslim and my girlfriend is a buddhist. we love each other truly. but her parents are not accepting our relationship and does not want it to continue. what should i do?...

My parents would freak out if they knew about my 'bad-apple' boyfriend and I, yet I don't want to keep it a secret

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - i really do love this boy even tho i am young! my parents dont like him because he is bad bt they dont no him like i do they just go by what they hear. i am scared to say to them that i have been seeing him for 3 months because they will go of the ...

I want a fresh start for my kids and I, away from their abusive dad but I don't know how to begin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I don't know where to turn. I have been married for 24 years and the relationship has had more struggles than joyful times. The problems range from physical and emotional abuse, my eating disorder 10 years ago, my husband having an affair with ...

I'm 16 and live in the UK; can I get a home by myself? I'm worried what I'll do to my parents

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - dear cupid i would like to know is it possible to leave my house at the age of 16, because i am finding it difficult to live with my parents as i am always causing them problems and trouble. i am living in the UK by the way and just want to kno...