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writes: Hi, Im 20 years old and im going to be in my final year at uni in september.i am wanting to move in with my boyfriend but dont know how to tell my parents. i know my parents aren't really keen on my current boyfriend as i dated him about 3 years ago for a short while before i got engaged to someone else a while later. (i only got back with my boyfriend 4 months ago and my parents werent too happy (they liked my ex fiance alot!!)).we've discussed it in a lot of depth n it wud make alot of sense b/c i wud b closer 2 uni n he wud b closer 2 work, plus we both feel ready to make this commitment.i dont want to upset my parents but i want to have my own space and independence as living in their house feels restrictive at times. we've found a 2 bed flat we like and would like to make an offer.What do I do and how can i tell them?
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reader, daisy99999 +, writes (26 July 2007):
If this is really what you want to do, then they will have to deal with it. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 27... my parents certainly do not approve, but remember you can't please everyone. Whatever makes you happy. Tell them the honest truth and that they will have to come to terms with it because it's what YOU really want and it will make you happy. Your parents dont want to see you get hurt..
good luck xxx
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