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writes:i really worried about my mate. the other day she told me that when her and her step-brother are alone in the house, he comes into her room and touches her private parts. and told her that if she tells anyone he will rape her!!i told her to phone up childline. its made her a bit happier but he still does it.she only 12 and hes 18! she is so scared of him and often stays round my house now whenever her mum and step-dad go out. i feel so helpless! anyone know what she should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2007): CALL THE COPS ON HIS F**KING ASS THEN HE'LL SEE then he wont be able to molest her or even touch her for that matter
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): Call the police on his DAMM MOLESTOR ASS! I htink you were right to suggest childline but you should also go the the police. If she doesn't want to go to the police just do it because you would only be doing what is right for her. Tell the cops before telling anyone else. Her step-dad probably won't beleive her and chances are he will convince her mom too. Get him to go to jail. She needs to be away from him right now. tell your parents and ask them to ask her parents to let her sleepover at your place a couple of days and while she is there call the cops and tell them the whole story. OR tell her to go to her real dad's house if he is still there.
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reader, x-kay_kay-x  +, writes (1 August 2007):
 tell loads of people then and get ya mate to confess aswell and goto the police with ya mate and tell them to keep her bro away frm her does the parents no if nt i suggest ya tell them first but get ya mate to do it with u otherwise it looks like ur interfering and 5they ight call u a liar and ignore it
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reader, LauraE +, writes (30 July 2007):
Hi there,
He is lying. He is saying it to make her afraid as you know. He is a nasty person, but unlikely to be stupid enough to hurt her even more when the authorities already know what is going on – he might as well write his own jail sentence. He knows full well that rape would produce evidence that would have him in jail in the blink of an eye. Easy for me to say this sitting here, when it is your friend that has to face him at the moment, but I am sure that this is true. He is 18, which means the full force of the law will be against him if your friend reports him. You are a great friend, and you did right by suggesting Childline. Could you persuade her to speak to her mother about this? It’s ages since I was at school, but I assume that your school will have someone who is there for pupil’s welfare? They deal with sort of thing, and could advise her also. It would be confidential of course. Also, why don’t you suggest that she asks Childline to talk to her about how the police would be able to help her? If she can gradually get her options clear in her mind, it should help her to take action. Believe me, anyone that she asks for help will listen to her. They will believe her. Keep supporting her as you are doing, she is really lucky to have you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): im not from the uk so i cant really give you much advise but be there for her and she does need to tell sum one just hope they believe her but also its a step brother so maybe she can go live with her other parent if she has one and just follow the laws she might go to the poile hun
well all the luck doll
sincerly luva
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): im not from the uk so i cant really give you much advise but be there for her and she does need to tell sum one just hope they believe her but also its a step brother so maybe she can go live with her other parent if she has one and just follow the laws she might go to the poile hun
well all the luck doll
sincerly luva
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reader, myp  +, writes (30 July 2007):
 CALL THE COPS ON HIS ASS!!, tell her to tell her parents...
get it out there in the open, once she says something, ppl will be watching so he wont have an opprtunity to rape her.
Once hes in custody, things should be better, her mother or father should do something once they find out whats happening, her and her stepbrother should be seperated immediately, being silent never helps so speak up and tell her to do the same.
-Myesha
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): call the police and tell them what is happening immediately. once they have custody of him (take him into the police station) he will not be able to touch her and she can move on with her life. please contact the authorities immediately, they will know what to do. don't be afraid. once the police are involved, there is nothing he will be able to do to her.
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