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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

His marriage proposal left me cold, what is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - My bf of 2 years recently proposed to me, and I'm not sure if my emotional reaction to it is worrying or not? Basically, I didn't feel particularly happy or excited when he asked me, just confused, wondering why he's asked me, what's motivated him. ...

The love has faded in my current relationship, and there is a new guy who I am falling for....what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a relationship of seven years. We live together and have dogs. A few months ago my boyfriend told me he didn't think he wanted to marry me (maybe anyone) and it really upset me at the time. However now I feel like maybe he...

She climaxed several times yet she says there is no chemistry between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - I recently started going out with a woman who's quite a bit younger than me (I'm 52, she's 38). The first time we made love was in a hotel room (difficult for us to have time together at either of our houses because of our children). She orgasmed ...

Suddenly he doesn't seem as interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy i like for around 2 months, we've met and things were going well but all of a sudden he's stopped texting me as much and his texts don't sound like he actually wants to talk to me. What does this mean?...

Am I being to paranoid? Should I be suspicious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - hi everybody i need help with understanding this situation. i took back my ex boyfriend bout 2 months ago after a two year break up. during the two year breakup, he would call and text me, trying to get in contact but i would ignore the call ...

Has the love gone? Is this normal after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hello I was wondering if you give any advice... I had some thoughts recently and wondering if love is dying or am I being selfish I have known my boyfriend for two years and although we do not live close by we keep in touch everyday, usually ...

He says I am the problem, but doesn't want me to get help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Well now where do i begin.. I've been married for 4 for starters total of 4 kids (2 from previous 10 yr relationship) I've known my husband for a total of 12 years altho we've only been together 6 we were friends before. My problem.. when he gets ...

How do I communicate to him the fact that I don't feel as important to him anymore in a nice way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - how do i tell my boyfriend in a nice way or needy that i dont feel as important to him anymore... im trying to act like its okay that we hardly even communicate anymore but im hurting because i want a little more attention from him.. i just want to ...

I don't know if my boyfriend is the one for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have never written in any love advice sites before, but have been enjoying reading this site, so I decided to give it a try. Thanks for reading. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. From the beginning, I thought he was not the r...

Is his recent interest in seeing me with another woman a sign he's losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together over a year and have a great sex life. He used to be very against porn and the idea of girl on girl or threesomes. Now he looks at porn every day (even after we just had sex) and brings up wanting to see me with ...

My boyfriend is hot and cold with me lately

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is hot and cold for me. One day he'll be affectionate, and the next day, he may not say a word to me. We've been together for about a year, and I'm at a loss for what I should do. Anytime I try asking him if something's wrong, he ends ...

How should I approach my ex husband's new girlfriend about keeping in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - i got married when i was 19 years old to a wonderful guy i was in love with since the age of 15.My husband is 7 years older than me. He is the most loving, caring person i have ever met who spoiled me like a princess. i'm separating now because ...

Is it normal to feel like this? I keep thinking about having sex with other people, even though I'd never cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - hi, i have been with my bf for 5 years now and I'm 27. I do love him very much i think hes attractive and we get on really well and he treats me good what more could i want! But i feel like theres something missing, i don't feel that urge to hav...

How can I fix this? My husband speaks badly about me and flirts with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - My husband talks bad about me with other people about me. At first, he would let his friends make disrespectful comments about me. Then it went to him telling his relatives bad stuff about me whenever we differed, and some of his relatives would also...

How can I reignite my boyfriend's passion for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i need a guy to answer this... what can i do to make him obsessed with me again? i use to be the love of his life now he hardly even makes an effort. i need him to call me every night like he use to and to hang out with me like he use to. he...

Is lack of physical attraction a valid reason to break up with someone?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend isn't attractive to me. I'm not implying that he's ugly or that other people might not find him good looking but I don't. He's a good person and treats me well and we're getting to that age where we're thinking about serious commitme...

My boyfriend blocked me on Messenger

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - Hi My bf of 2 years blocked me in messager saying I'm disturbing his work. I don't send messages often, I send one in morning to say good morning and one at night. He never responds when I asked about that, he blocked me. What should I do now?...

Should I leave or stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - I got married to guy 15 years older than me at the age of 23. I have two kids from a previous relationship. I didn't get married for love it was not like a security blanket for the shake of the kids. I didn’t ask him to marry me he kinda insisted we ...

He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next ...

My ex of 5 years left me unexpectedly. I moved on but now my ex is back. I love them both! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - Hi Folks - I'm in quite a pretty pickle. This will be long, so sit back! I was in a relationship with a guy for nearly 5 years. We naturally had our ups and our downs, but overall, things were fine. We got along, shared the same interests, laugh...

His jealousy is starting to put a damper on our physical relationship. And now a new guy is showing interest. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I really really need some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When we first met I lived in a different city. After I finished my degree we decided to be together, so I moved to be with him (I do have family here as well)In ...

A bitter-sweet relationship...do I have to look back on the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

13 September 2012 (M) - I have a special friend, I call him special because he is my boyfriend, he was also my childhood friend...then when we reach our high school years, we need to separate our ways because he attended in different school. But during our college years we ...

Am I selfish to want to break up with him 2 years after he cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - Hiya, my boyfriend cheated on me two years ago I agreed to give him a second chance we have a family a house now. We didn't do these things to fix the relationship I found out about the cheating after we had settled. I find myself thinking more an...

What is worse? To live with someone you don't desire yet still love or live with a broken heart because the one you love doesn't want you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

12 September 2012 (F) - Which is worse, to live with somebody you don't want to be with anymore in a sexual way, but love them or to live life with a broken heart because the person you love doesn't want to be with you and you can't live without them?...

My boyfriend is clingy, obsessive and he's driving me mad

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - Iv'e been going out with a guy i met at uni since april now and weve been on holiday together,hes met my parents and stayed with us and ive stayed with his parents. im 21 and hes 20 but sometimes i feel like we are soo different in how we view ...

I think being a 'nice girl' also made me a boring girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - I am a 'good girl'. I don't cheat, I don't lie, I'm faithful and all that good stuff, so I sort of feel like I don't make much of an impact on my bfs. Ive had two long term relationships, and both times, I left them becuase I felt like I was not ...

Why are women not interested in me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (M) - This question has been on my mind lately and it has to do with how girls choose their boyfriends. Here is my background. I'm relatively short for a man at 22 standing at 5'4. I use to have skinny figure until I started to get fit going from 100 to ...

This married man suddenly ignores me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - HEY i feel confused i started talking to this married man and we started meeting up and he used to call and text me. the other day we were to meet up and unfortunatley he had to wait for me as i was talking to my friend because she appeard and i co...

My wife is more like a room mate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4484 days ago

10 September 2012 (M) - I guess I'll get right to it... I have been married for 6 years and have a 4 yr old daughter. I have known my wife for 18yrs. We started dating when we were both young (21 me, 23 her) and broke up 4 yrs later. Then 6 years after that she was passing ...

How does one go about ending a marriage amicably?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

10 September 2012 (M) - I've decided to go for a divorce with my marriage of 9 months. I can't talk to my wife and have not been laid for 3 months. This is crazy and she's driving me out of her arms. I've tried and tried to let her know that I'm not happy. I do well in ...

Boyfriend is losing interest and I'm worried our relationship is falling apart....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for one and a half years, and everything's always been really good between us, but lately I feel like he's not puttin in any effort. Since I met him we literally spoke everyday, where as lately We ...

How do I let my wife know I found her vibrators without it looking like I was snooping?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - Hi Married for 10 yrs, wife and I have great sex, when we have it. Over the last 6 mth or so, we only have sex when she drinks, which is maybe once a month. I heard all the excuses...You smell like choclate, you smell like garlic, you are ...

Married and feel trapped but not by choice. I love my wife.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) - Help----- Hi I've been a relationship for over three years. When we met you could tell we were a couple but now you'd never know. I met my wife and are sex life was great above average. She was so unselfish. We were living on my acrage a...

It's not like it used to be between us and I don't trust my judgement, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4482 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - thank you for taking the time to answer! Basically, me and Him are in a long distnace relationship. We have been together for just over seven months, not met yet. Lately, I've begun to feel a little uneasy with the relationship. At the begining,...

My boyfriend told me he had to study but I found out he was out with friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - recently moved from long distance relationship.my bf of 3yrs and 2 months have moved to my city. we study in different colleges.since the time he has come to my city he has started behaving strange.now a days he dont talk with me much.he is so ...

Should I keep my boyfriend or date the other guy instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - Ok well im officially dating the boy i had liked for 6 months. Well im extremely happy about that it was official actually last month. But here`s my problem i dont have and classes with him. Since i dont have any classes with him i do have classe...

Every girl I become involved with rejects me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) - Every girl I get involved always says the same stuff and rejects me or dumps me They say that they're a screw up, that they'll hurt me, that they don't deserve me or that we have really good chemistry or whatever that I don't want to ruin by doing...

Is there any hope for love without a better job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Despite being a decent and honest man I've been single for my entire life. I've really struggled in life with depression and a lack of confidence and direction and knowing what I want out of life. I've only ever had menial jobs, or have been out of ...

I feel like my boyfriend is losing interest in me, how should I handle this? Or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

6 September 2012 (F) - i love my bf, weve been together for 2 yrs now with no plans to move in together any time soon. he rarely sleeps with me which is something ive grown to accept but lately hes more interested in getting a motorbike than me. this summer ive been ...

My abusive ex boyfriend refuses to pay me back the money he owes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - I am stuck and need serious advice. I just got out of an abusive relationship (emotionally, verbally and recently, physically) and trying to recover. We bought a condo together but he put the mortgage under his name. I, however, paid the lawyer ...

I love her but I think our relationship is dead, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

4 September 2012 (M) - Hello everybody, Me and my girlfriend, we have been together for more than a year now, but recently she started to act like she does not want to see me anymore. We used to have fun together almost every single day, but now I haven't seen her ...

He seems ill at ease after my joke about living in a big house

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - Hi , I met a guy recently (less than a month). I never accepted to truly date someone before him, and he is the first guy I truly want to know, date ... When we met he was very sweet , he asked for my number, and called within two days. He texted m...

Why do women from dating sites lose interest in me so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

3 September 2012 (M) - I started using a dating site about two months ago now without very much success. This is mainly because everyone I begin talking to would eventually lose complete interest in me. It never starts out this way however, I'd first hit it off very well ...

We had amazing chemistry but lately he seems withdrawn

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - I just recently started seeing this guy, We have amazing chemistry and hit it off right away, talked for hours and he kept saying over and over how amazing the night was and how he hasn't been like this with anyone in a very long time. we were jus...

Why am I hanging on to a bad relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - Hi all. Your thoughts please. Why on earth am I hanging on to my waste of space bf? The good bits,- he.s good looking,and good in bed. The bad bits- he.s unreliable,manipulative, decitful, selfish, mean and moody. I.ve hung on in there for almost t...

I'm beginning to lose interest in my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - I think I am starting to become uninterested in my boyfriend. I was afraid this would happen if our relationship did not take off. Some things may have changed, but not enough to say this is who I want to spend the rest of my life with. When i...

My lawyer told me my husband wants to give up his parental rights

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - See at one point I didn't give my husband space when he wanted it and we fought a lot so he would take off for days then come home and we would be fine for a little while then he'd take off again and I lost my kids to the state and I'm fighting to ...