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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I don't love him anymore but I'm worried about breaking up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OK, there are so many part to this story I don't really know where to start. Basically, I've been with my partner for nearly 5 years (I'm 20 years old), we have lived together for over 2 years and got engaged in 2008. I thought he was the perfect ...

Why does he want to take a break?

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29 July 2010 (F) - Why does my bf want to take a break? We've been dating for almost a year and I have to admit that things aren't that great between us right now. And I think it's mostly on his side, he doesn't seem as receptive and into the relationship right now. ...

How can you restore intimacy to a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I just want to know how you can get the intimacy back into a relationship. And what excactly is intimacy? Ideas??...

Have I fallen out of love due to the stress or do I just need some time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating my b/f for 2 years. He was recently divorced when we met and I pretty much got dragged through the baggage of the aftermath. I also let him live with me, pretty much for nothing until he got on his feet so other than odd jobs ...

What is his problem with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone! I wonder if someone could shed some light on this. I was with a guy for several months about a year ago and lost my virginity to him. I ended up cutting off all ties with him because he didnt want a relationship and was immature. He ...

Should I run away, or keep rescuing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - I met my former fiancee four years ago in a philosophy class on a community college campus while we were both still seniors in high school. We were both in emotionally fragile states at that time. I was recovering from an alcohol issue, she was ...

How do I get through to an uncaring boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boy almost 3 years now. In the beginning everything was amazing, i fell deeply in love with him and we couldn't take our hands off each other. At the time we both felt like we had truly found the one. After probably 18 mont...

What happened to the loving man I married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - My husband swears he is not having an affair, so why does he get defensive and over react to everything I say.? He also avoids making love, and recently has stopped even giving me a 'cuddle' when I ask for one.When I try to talk seriously to him ...

Wife wants to leave because of no attraction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - My wife of 2 years (together for 7) has lost her attraction to me over the course of 2 weeks. I have always done everything for her, been very attentive, the sex is great and i've never done anything to hurt her. She went on an education trip to ...

I have an attraction with the other woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I started dating. I was rather unimpressed with her so over weight and that she was not really a good looking person. We have no plans to extend this into a relationship as we agreed that we were just dating. I do like her ...

Bf acting distant I think he's about to break up with me? Help!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Okay me and my boyfriend started dating about 9 weeks ago. He'd come up to the bar where i worked and one day i asked him to hang out and we did all night and we started dating about 2 days later. The first 2 months were perfect, we hung out ever...

I need advice badly! Is he falling out of love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year, we have had a rough time with jobs and money worries. I am also very insecure due to past bad experiences, my question is this, my boyfriend has stopped telling me he loves me to my face, he ...

Will my intense questioning drive him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Sometimes I think to much, I over worry and feel the need to ask my boyfriend a question about what I am thinking of. I am quite scared that he is going to end up finding this annoying but I don't know how to stop. Like right now I just watch the ...

How can I bring her desire back? I am worried she has gone off me becauase I am no longer the mysterious bad boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I beg for your help, something is driving me totally insane. I'm dating this chick for 8 months. She is the most beautiful, smart and elegant lady i've ever seen. We go along so great together and our relationship quickly became very...

I'm growing bored of my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

18 July 2010 (F) - I've been dating my bf for 2 years now. I've grown bored of him. I had an emotional affair for 4 months, but ended it when I decided I wanted to stay loyal to my bf. I've tried to rekindle the romance, I've tried special dates, new activities, ...

Why is she so unsure about us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year and a half. She means the world to me, and she's my first real girlfriend. Things have always been good until lately. She always tells me that she loves me, and she used to be quite ...

I'm not happy in my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I am living in an unhappy marriage. We have been married for 10 years and have a beautiful little boy, who was born just before we got married. I guess my unhappiness began a couple of years after we got married. I was finishing school and he was ...

Should I break up with him? And how can I do it without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5240 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Help i lyked this gye 4 about 2 years and he lyked me but know i feel lyk we r growing apart and i dont really lyk him anymore.....my problan is that deap deap in my heart i might still love him but every time he walks past me i dont feel this nic...

How do I rekindle her interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5241 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - Ok there is this girl that i used to like a lot and she used to like me a bit but not as much and now i have got over it but i always had a soft spot for her if you know what i mean. this girl and i drifted apart a bit and werent as close friends ...

Girlfriend of 5 years has become disinterested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - I'm a 27 year old guy and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We moved in together 2 years ago and for the first year everything was great, the 1st four years of our relationship was exactly what I wanted, we were communicative, we laughed, ...

I'm losing my best friend, and only I feel it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5241 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I'm losing one of my closest friends, becaus he's an ex :( we have been broken up for a few months, we had a no talk period because I was finding it difficult but then I let him back in. He would call almost every night and we would hang out. Yes...

Does giving her space spell the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

16 July 2010 (M) - A few weeks ago, out the blue my fiance broke up with me saying she "needs space". She has also said a few other reasons like we don't have enough sex. This is a problem I thought we could either solve on our own or possibly go to a relationship ...

After 10 years of being lonely I thought I had found the perfect man in my new husband, but now we are having so many problems I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - I married a male after my First hubby died. After 10 years of lonely times I found this one having all my desires, least i thought so. First he comes in, changes my home, re-decorated all to his liking. i paid for the re-decorations at my ...

How do I rekindle my boyfriend's love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - Hello, i need some advice from guys preferably but girls you can help too.. Well im trying to get my current boyfriend to fall for me again. We have a 2wk old baby . We were seperated for almost 2mths towards the end of my pregnancy he tells me...

Is it too late to call off the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i'm 28 years old. i think i got myself into a situation. the person i married isn't very loving, very selfish and complains when he actually has to do something for someone that is sick, me. i am so mad at myself for putting myself into this ...

We've been together a year, and he's completely different! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5244 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a few days. Before we went out I had just gotten out of a nasty relationship about 1 1/2 months before, maybe a bit longer. He used to text me every night 'I love you sweet dreams!" and cute ...

Please help me clear my head and pick myself up, I feel like I have lost my world

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13 July 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" Hiya i need some help clearing my head out. I've not had an easy past couple of weeks. My lifes feels like its gone for all to nothing. I feel in love with a friend of mine but never had the guts to tell him. He, alike me was also ...

Not head over heels anymore. Am I just comfortable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

13 July 2010 (F) - I'm 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for three years.. We have been living together for 2.. We get along great and have lots of fun together!! I don't feel head over hills for him anymore and often think about what it would be like to be ...

I really want revenge on this shameless, unthankful liar...help?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

13 July 2010 (M) - I was unhappily married for 13 years.I still respect my wife but love was just not there anymore.We have together three beautiful kids.I was more and more sad by time and didn't know what to do.Then two years ago I meet new love of my life.I am 35 ...

I feel there is no humanly possible way to keep her satisfied and help her!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I am new to this site and joined it because well, I feel like I no longer have anyone else. I can't talk to anyone about how I feel or what is going on in my life. Especially my love life. I have been going out this this girl for about a ...

Ever since he moved he's been acting strangely, what should I do?

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12 July 2010 (F) - For the past 3 weeks im having trouble with this guy ive been kinda seeing hes moved house, and since then hes been all funny Basically ive been trying 2 make an effort with things like saying would you like me 2 come pick you up like i used to i...

Do you think there's anyway we could possibly salvage this marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - I've been marrie 5 years. My husband has progressively become obese and a lousy lover. I have always been the initiator and in the last year we've had sex about 6 times. He has his orgasm but doesn't give me a chance to nor does he seem to care if I ...

How do I let him down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - I spend a lot of time giving advice on here but am yet to take some myself. I thought it was about time that i got things of my chest...any advice on this dilema would be much appreciated! About 5 or 6 months ago i stopped seeing somebody who had...

Can't seem to walk away from a man that I do not love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

11 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but I know I am not in love with him. My previous relationship left a deep wound in my heart and he was the first person to make me feel whole again and something inside me just won't let ...

How can I show affection without seeming clingy or needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years. Things have been very good in our relationship up until recently. About two weeks ago we had a discussion. He said that he felt as if I didn't love him anymore and that he had felt that way for a few ...

Why do I keep going back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

9 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] so i think im falling out of love. the mysterious phone calls from 'his mate' at 2am the stayin out and not coming home the drugs the living at home with your mum at 31 the lack of respect for everyone the lack of conside...

I just don't feel the same way about her... how do I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend now for just over a year and a half, things started off great, at the time I really did find her attractive and have feelings for her but now I find it has all changed. I just find now I don't feel how I used to ab...

Why won't she talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend left me a couple of months ago and refuses to talk to me. We had been dating for nearly a year and a half. We’re both in our early 40’s and have children. The only difference there is that her kids live with her 5 nights a w...

Why can't I love the man who loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - i feel trapped between two men. one is my ex husband and other my boyfriend. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3years. we have a 1 year old daugther but i dont love my boyfriend. i told him that so many times but he dont want to leave. as for my ...

My girlfriend doesn't show her love anymore! I'm falling apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship with my girlfriend who I've been with for some months, the thing is that I feel out of love with her. I try so hard to love her and support her as much as I can, even her family enjoys my company and they support our ...

How do I let her down gently without hurting her too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - So first off i am only 20 years old, and very mature for my age, and i have been with my girlfriend, who is turning 21 this year, for almost a year, at first i was sketchy about even dating her because she was so different in personality than i ...

I feel like the romance in our relationship is fading. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, we are 20, we live together, we study, we get along really great, we always laugh and have a great time together, we're best friends. For the last few years he doesn't put effort in to make me feel spe...

What should I do? I've lost the spark for my partner, and developed feelings for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - i have been with my partner for almost 3 years now and were engaged but recently i started losing the spark for him , and ive also stared talking to this other guy i have devoloped feelings for but i dont want to hurt my other half but this other ...

Should I leave him and continue with my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5250 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone!! We have been dating with this guy for 6 months and he is a foreigner. We have just been enjoying our relationship. One of his relative came to my country, she was employed here so she had no where to stay, so she asked for accomm...

We broke up, and now he's badmouthing me to all of my friends, but denying it when I confront him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Okay so, about a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of six months. The relationship just wasn't working for me and in the end I figured out I didn't actually like him as more than a friend. It wasn't really a bitter break-up, and we said that...

I can't stand the thought of kissing him or being intimate with him, but I don't want to end it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love very much. I'm physically attracted to him, but there are things that I just do not like to do with him any more. I like cuddling and hugging and small bits of affection, but I am completely turned off by the idea of ...

Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negati...

Are his feelings fading after a week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5251 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - i am 13 and have a bf, i'v only been with him for about a week and we are really close. But i feel like already his feelings for me are fading and im scared that he doesnt like me anymore and im not sure what to do. Please help? x...

How can I win back my boyfriend and best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

6 July 2010 (F) - i need help i love my ex boyfriend so much he broke up with me because he couldn face me after he went to someone elses party instead of mine we were going out for a very long time im going nuts with you the thoughts of him and it hurts so so much i ...

Help me with my girlfriend and getting her to talk to me please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

6 July 2010 (M) - Could someone please help me with me current situation with my girlfriend!? We've been going out for almost 3 months and everything has been going great! Until now! Recently she has suddenly stopped sending as many messages to me and when she does, ...