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How can you restore intimacy to a relationship?

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Question - (28 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *onita619 writes:

I just want to know how you can get the intimacy back into a relationship. And what excactly is intimacy? Ideas??

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A female reader, MissTHANG United States +, writes (29 July 2010):

MissTHANG agony auntDear Intimacy,

My best definition for intimacy in a relationship is when you both feel comfortable enough to bare your souls to each other, accept each other - faults and all - and to each of you, the other person is the only person you're glad to see at the end of the day - is your sancturary - even if you both annoy the hell out of each other at times. THAT is intimacy.

When you have that then you can bring it into the bedroom, THEN sex becomes making love. And THAT kind of sex is the sexiest and most intimate togtherness you'll ever have with another person.

So, if it's been lacking between you, talk to your partner, open up, learn to trust each other, grow closer...than go play:)

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (29 July 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntWell, what makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside when you are with your parnter?

If you are in the mood, what would you like him to do to you, make go all fire hot?

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