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36-40,
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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly a year, we have had a rough time with jobs and money worries. I am also very insecure due to past bad experiences, my question is this, my boyfriend has stopped telling me he loves me to my face, he says he loves me too if I say that I love him but he hasn't said it to me first for almost 2 months now. He says he loves me in txt messages and emails and when we hang up on the phone.Should I just chill out or do you think he may be falling out of love with me?Thank you!X
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 You may want to hear I love yous for reassurance that the relationship is still worth it. He's stressed out because as a guy he feels more responsible making money. He's worried he's not good enough for you. For a man, to be able to say I love you he has to feel successful as a man. Show him you love him by helping him budget, tell him to stick with his job until he finds something better.
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I think he has had a lot on his mind and due to this has neglected you slightly. He still loves you if he still says it. I suggest you guys go out and have some fun to take his mind off his worrys, but dont offer to pay everything for him!
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