A
female
age
30-35,
*iniggg
writes:Helpi lyked this gye 4 about 2 years and he lyked me but know i feel lyk we r growing apart and i dont really lyk him anymore.....my problan is that deap deap in my heart i might still love him but every time he walks past me i dont feel this nice fuzzy feeling anymore ..i feel lyk i shud brake up with him but im scared 2 let go and then fall in love with him again :/ and if i brake up with him i dono how and i dont want 2 hurt him and thats egsactlly what im going 2 do if i tell him and if i dont and he finds out from one of my frends hell be hurt 2 plez some1 help me i need help on this what shud i do ? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Honey...please take some grammer and writing classes PLEASE!!!
Ok..now to answer your question, you were never in love with your bf...you were probably with him because, it was the "safe" route to go and you don't want to be alone. There doesn't seem to be any "spark" between the two of you. When you love someone, you don't have to say things like "might" or "maybe" you just KNOW. Please don't waste anymore of his time....end it asap. You don't love him, you don't see a future with him, so let it go. Of course he will be hurt, but depending on the person he is, he can get over his hurt and increase his chances of finding the woman that is right for him..because, you are NOT the one.
It's not that you don't want to hurt your bf, you are afraid that you if you let go of him, you are going to be alone for a period of time, or that you might fall for some other guy and he will break your heart. Stop being selfish and let this guy know what the real deal is. CHOW.
|
