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writes:I am in a relationship with my girlfriend who I've been with for some months, the thing is that I feel out of love with her. I try so hard to love her and support her as much as I can, even her family enjoys my company and they support our relationship as well as my family. Even so, for some reason I feel like she doesn't really love me or really knows what she wants. I try to get closer to her and her feelings, but once I reach a certain point she seems to cut me off right there and be like "I don't know" with how she feels or reacts to anything. I would like to continue the relationship, but I'm getting to the point where I don't feel like trying anymore since she isn't trying as much as she use to. Maybe it's jealousy becuase I want her attention fixed on me, or whether I think too much about where I don't want this relationship heading. It maybe me with the problems...then again some of the things she says and do makes me feel uneasy sometimes. She's been hurt plenty of times in the past, but how do I cope with that.PS--If you don't understand what I'm talking about then leave this post alone and yes I am young and a teen and knows what he's talking about...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): Love, if you're not getting what you need and are looking for out of this relationship, I suggest you leave her. However, not before having a very serious sit-down talk with her. You're going to have to talk to her and tell her you don't feel like she loves you like she used to and things have clearly changed and ask her if there's a reason behind the sudden change in your relationship. There might be something going on that you're unaware about. She could very well be going through something at home that's caused her to have her attention elsewhere. If that's the case, if you love her as much as you say you do, let her know that she doesn't have to shut you out because you're there for her. However, if she blows you off with no explanation, there's not much else you can do. You've tried your heartest to keep the relationship alive and, once again, you're not getting your end of the bargain so to speak. If she's halfassing her role in the relationship, I think it's best that you break up with her. I hope this helped. Good luck, sweetheart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): from what you've written it sounds like you really care about her which is rare. However she sounds like she dosent deserve you find someone who is comfortable talking to you because you sound like your getting on better with her family then with her.
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